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    Angry "Let go" after my second shift.

    The morning after my second shift house mum told me I was too big and not to come back, but the night before I made $1125 and was having no trouble with the customers or the other girls. I figured there was going to be trouble because at the start of my second shift I went to leave the DR and she snapped at me "saying you aren't going to wear that", she wanted me to wear lingerie sets that cost $300/$400 and I didn't have that kind of money yet so I wore something nice that flattered my shape and she told me I should have wore a corset or a dress to cover myself up.
    Despite the money I made I went home feeling bad about myself, then when I got the text the next morning she didn't want me back I was very hurt, it is my first time dancing and now I am thinking about reconsidering because of my size. I am only a size 10 but I do have very wide hips, I have been trying to lose weight to get down to a size 8 and have already lost 5kg. I don't know what I should do because my confidence is very shaky right now and I don't know if other clubs will want me. I am in Australia by the way.
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    Default Re: "Let go" after my second shift.

    Go to another place where you are not pestered.

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    Try someplace else.

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    You look gorgeous. The custies obviously loved you too! It sounds like a thin excuse for some other issue. Her problem, not yours. Find somewhere where management is better and they treat you with the respect you deserve. xx

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    Default Re: "Let go" after my second shift.

    house moms, in my experience, can be extremely jealous catty controlling nasty power tripping bitches. you look beautiful, she's an idiot and obviously has some major issues. you also obviously appeal to customers just the way you are, so its honestly their loss. go to another club that will be glad to have you, plz dont let one idiot ruin your attitude with dancing..there are a lot of assholes in this industry who love to bring you down, so you need to brush this off.

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    Default Re: "Let go" after my second shift.

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    house moms, in my experience, can be extremely jealous catty controlling nasty power tripping bitches. you look beautiful, she's an idiot and obviously has some major issues. you also obviously appeal to customers just the way you are, so its honestly their loss. go to another club that will be glad to have you, plz dont let one idiot ruin your attitude with dancing..there are a lot of assholes in this industry who love to bring you down, so you need to brush this off.
    This^! Actually, I believe this's the reason(s) I didn't get hired @ a couple places..
    Yea, you look great, & if you made that much $, obv. you know what you're doing & what to wear. She wanted you to buy her shit prob? F' that.


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    I'd fuck you. I joke. But your body is great, fuck 'house mom' she sounds like a cunt.

    I hate the idea that stripping should be like the fashion industry, in that there are slim girls who are too big to do it.

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    Yea, it sounds like an excuse for something else, I'm thinking cuz u didn't buy her shit or didn't tip the right person or sum shit as a newbie u may have looked over it. When I was new I didn't think i needed to tip anyone and learned eventually it causes some to dislike u and even fire u in some cases, its like an unwritten rule, I've only had 2 ppl ever tell me what they expect me to tip, everyone else just expected me to know..

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    Are you sure the house mom has the authority to fire someone? You might want to call the manager just to be sure. It sounds like she wants to run a little monopoly on the outfits that the dancers wear at that club, so she told you not to come back for not buying her shit. Personally, I wouldn't want to work with someone like that, but if you're the audacious type and it turns out you're not really fired, you could go back in there and blatantly not wear any of her outfits, ever.

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    You made over a grand your second night!!!
    Snap out of it girl, you've got it.

    Don't let ANYONE tell you otherwise.

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    The line of lingerie line she wanted me to wear charges $80/$90 for just panties, so there was no way no how I was going to be able to buy a whole set. She is the house mum and the manager, so I think it was some jealous/catty nonsense. For example when I was in the LD area giving a dance she barged in and started fluffing the cushions next to me, needless to say my custie was very shocked and annoyed with her. I am guessing I won't be the only girl to hear her bull because there were almost 30 girls working on Friday night and maybe 2 of them had been there for longer than a month. Thank you girls for your kind words and advice , I'm guessing I kind of dodged a bullet with this one and will take myself to a better club with more supportive management. I was really under the impression it was because I was a little curvier/thicker than other girls at the club, but think it's more she's a bitch lol

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    Default Re: "Let go" after my second shift.

    if they had outfit rules, they should have explained them when they hired you! (oh wait, that would mean "being professional"! *eyeroll*) unless there's a no see-through outfit rule, if the top in the photo is what you wore, that's fine, imo. if you had to buy their lingerie, they should have told you up front.

    i don't know how australia is, but here in the us, curves are very in right now, especially in the southern us where i am. men here would go nuts over those hips and booty!

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    I think you should find another club, too well, and work on losing weight. I think your money will only increase!
    Dress to kill the wallet.

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    You have a very nice body. That's not why she fired you. I would suggest you get a tiny bit of color (tan) and try to tone up a little bit, not because you need it but because it would make your already hot body even hotter! I am sure you will find a better club. I would never buy a $400 out fit from a housemom, was it La Perla or something?
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    So let me see if I got this right:
    1. The house mom who said this to you is also the manager, therefore, she probably hired you.
    2. You've only worked two shifts....meaning you're new and would probably have been at the same weight you are now when she hired you.
    Looks like you got punished for being unwilling to buy her overpriced lingerie.

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    Just mind boggeling
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