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    So hopefully it's all in my head and I'm being paranoid, but I think my boyfriend and best friend like each other. To start off, I always thought from the beginning that they would be a good couple because I feel like they would be compatible. My boyfriend on many occasions has said that my best friend was really hot, but he would never fuck her. So last night I hung out with my friend and we had some drinks, so I was a bit drunk throughout this whole ordeal. After the bars close we go back to her place. I had got into a fight with my boyfriend earlier because he saw a text on my phone saying "So...what's up" from my regular at the club. He texted me "I hope you're happy with all those dicks in your mouth." Needless to say I was pissed and I told him to "Go fuck yourself. Bye." Then my best friend says "aww why are you mad at [my boyfriend]? You should invite him over. He's so funny." or something along those lines. I told her no, I was pissed at him and deleted and blocked his number. I said if you want to invite him, you go invite him. So my dumb ass gives her his number and she calls him to invite him over. He comes over and of course I'm still pissed at him. So what does he do he sits beside her almost the entire time and they are sitting very close but at separate chairs but close enough that he accidentally hits her boob. Eventually she uses the word nigger casually in conversation and this really irritates my boyfriend. She defends herself but he ends up getting really mad, throws a wig at her, and leaves. I should also add that my best friend is a no saint in the sense that she's cheated on her boyfriend multiple times, at least 20 times from what she's told me. She even had sex with her boyfriends best friend while staying at her boyfriends moms house when her boyfriends mom is dying of cancer. So I don't know what to do right now, I don't trust either one of them. I seriously hope that this is all in my head. If they ever fucked each other I don't know what I'd do, I'd probably beat both of them up and slash their tires. What should I do? Thanks.

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    Your best friend sounds like a piece of trash. She would be the first one I'd ditch. The boyfriend doesn't sound like he can deal with your job so just for your own sanity he'd probably be next.


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    "I always thought from the beginning that they would be a good couple because I feel like they would be compatible." Encouraging the thought or possibility of other connections taking place outside of your own relationship intimately and making it out to be compatible for them is playing with fire and guaranteeing what you may not want to happen..I stop saying that..

    I have no clue why the signs were not obvious however, it was allowed to happen.

    1) "has said that my best friend was really hot, but he would never fuck her" Anyone who has to say they wouldn't fuck her, wants to fuck her.
    2) "I hope you're happy with all those dicks in your mouth." Cheaters always blame the other person.
    3) "aww why are you mad at [my boyfriend]?" She is involved in your relationship.
    4) "He's so funny." He's been flirting with her.
    5) "I said if you want to invite him, you go invite him." You gave her the okay.
    6) "he accidentally hits her boob." Accidentally?

    Hope you find someone who can treat you with respect..

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    You should cut both of these people out of your life and spare yourself from the inevitable drama they'll bring.


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    <sound of a boot hitting two asses>
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    Default Re: I think my best friend and boyfriend like each other

    You keep saying boyfriend when you mean ex boyfriend.
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    I think if they haven't already they will. Hook up that is.

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    I think if my bf ever told me that any of my friends are hot, he'd get the boot from me. That is so disrespectful. As for your friend, she doesn't sound much like a friend to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    You keep saying boyfriend when you mean ex boyfriend.
    I think they're just fighting.. she never said they broke up.

    OP this sounds like so much unnecessary drama for you. I would be pissed if my bf were acting like that around any other girl let alone my best friend. And btw she doesn't sound like your best friend either. If she really was your best friend she would have your back when you were pissed at him instead of trying to get him to come over so she could hangout with him. She sounds shady. And your bf should've either tried to make up with you or not come over at all. Maybe he was just trying to make you jealous & piss you off but even if that's the case that is extremely immature. I would just separate myself from both of those people if I were you.

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    I think your BF sounds like a disrespectful asshole. I can gather from your entire post you are probably quite young; so moving on should be easy. As far as your best friend; I don't mean to play devils advocate or anything but it is possible she does just think he's funny or like his personality, I don't know that pointing out the fact she has slept with all of these guys is a testament to her character. When I was the age I suspect you are I also thought my BFF was hooking up with my BF, but that is because he was cheating on me left and right. She never went there and we are still really good friends 15 years later. How long have you known this girl? Are you projecting your insecurities/distrust of him on her or is there something weird really going on?? I would ditch the guy and keep the friend at arms distance but see how she acts if you tell her you want to leave him. That will answer all your questions, if she does happen to get with him then she was never your friend. Rip the band aid off and move on... Good luck to you,
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    Why is this person your best friend??? She is a complete scumbag with no regard for anyone. Uses the n word in front of your boyfriend, cheats on her boyfriend with his best friend in his dying mother's house, cheated on her boyfriend 20 times, etc. When you hang out with people like this, bad things will always happen. What makes you think she will be loyal to you when she clearly has no sense of loyalty to her boyfriend? As for your boyfriend, he sounds very insecure to me and insecure guys make the worst boyfriends. I think you should cut your losses and surround yourself with better people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    Why is this person your best friend??? She is a complete scumbag with no regard for anyone. Uses the n word in front of your boyfriend, cheats on her boyfriend with his best friend in his dying mother's house, cheated on her boyfriend 20 times, etc. When you hang out with people like this, bad things will always happen. What makes you think she will be loyal to you when she clearly has no sense of loyalty to her boyfriend? As for your boyfriend, he sounds very insecure to me and insecure guys make the worst boyfriends. I think you should cut your losses and surround yourself with better people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    Why is this person your best friend??? She is a complete scumbag with no regard for anyone. Uses the n word in front of your boyfriend, cheats on her boyfriend with his best friend in his dying mother's house, cheated on her boyfriend 20 times, etc. When you hang out with people like this, bad things will always happen. What makes you think she will be loyal to you when she clearly has no sense of loyalty to her boyfriend? As for your boyfriend, he sounds very insecure to me and insecure guys make the worst boyfriends. I think you should cut your losses and surround yourself with better people.
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    Another vote to break up with both honestly unless there is way more to the story and you told just the bad parts in anger.
    If he's really that much of a pest about sex work , it's going to be hell continuing to work while he slings unwarranted insults your way.

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    Just... what? Get rid of them.

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    I would not be friends with someone like that in the first place. As soon as she started acting like that, I would be done with her. That is not a friend to me.

    And has far as the boyfriend, he sounds like a jerk and someone who is a waste of time. I would also have dumped him right away when he even entertained the thought of fucking your friend or telling you that he thought she was hot.

    Neither one of them sound like they can be trusted and they will just give you headaches.

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