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    Default Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    So I've had a few custies say that Vegas/whatever club they've been to is "different" because it's more "chill" and the girls don't "pester you for dances" there. Usually I just kind of snort and say "you just don't know you're being played" (only if I'm feeling extra bitchy or annoyed at them) or something like that haha. So my question is - what the hell are these guys talking about? What clubs do they have - especially in Vegas - where they don't try to sell dances? I know these guys are usually useless and not going to do any dances but I'm just not sure how to respond to that. One guy who said this at my club got dances eventually so I wonder if there was anything I could've said differently...

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    Default Re: Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    They're basically telling you that they're a waste of time and there is nothing you can say to convince them to spend money on you, short of sitting with them all night and not once bringing up dances/VIP while hoping they do. Maybe then they'll take you for a dance or two. Maaaaybe three. Never enough to justify the time commitment though. Like, how much did that one guy at your club actually spend on dances? And that's also one of our how many who don't end up getting dances? Totally not worth the effort.

    Tell them to have fun chilling because you won't be pestering them and then move on to someone else.

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    Default Re: Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    They're only trying to manipulate you because they're cheap and entitled. Certain SoCal guys love to talk about how Vegas is this magical paradise where they can touch wherever they want, the dances are tree fiddy if they're not outright free, the strippers love to come party with them when they leave the club, and blah blah blah blah blah. I hear this all the time from younger Latinos and bros. Strippers are out of their league in real life, they know it, and it makes them extremely insecure.

    Honestly, when guys start giving me lines like this, I start making my exit. They can be useful for stage tips, though. I'll usually say something like, "Oh, I just heard the DJ call me! Since you don't want a lap dance, come watch me on stage!" (regardless of whenever you're actually going to be on stage next). 99% of the time, if you do manage to hustle them for a dance, it's not going to be worth it. They'll spend it complaining and grabbing you. At least on stage, you can get their money without having to put up with their jaw-jacking and grimy paws.

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    Default Re: Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    I sell a ton of dances. I never "ask" them if they want to buy a dance. In fact, I like to play a game in my head as to how quickly I can get the customer to invite me back to VIP. There's a term that starting to take hold in the marketing and advertising world called "attraction marketing." It's where you make them want you so badly that they jump at the idea of buying from you.

    How do you make them want you that bad? Make it all about them. It's their relaxation time, it's their decision to go back to VIP, it's because they deserve to be pampered. Most customers want that ideal woman who waits on him hand and foot and is ready for sexy time whenever he is, and not a moment before. If you can get into their heads and play to that fantasy woman that you just know every guy envisions, you can get them to buy every time.

    However, the second you start thinking about your money or how many dances the other girls are doing, you'll lose him. Sure, some guys will buy dances when you ask if they want to buy dances. But if you want to land a whale, you have to treat him like a king to get his money.

    *Warning, learning how to close sales like this can be emotionally exhausting. Learn how to gamify the process to preserve your own sanity.

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    Default Re: Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    Translation: "I wasted strippers' time in Vegas/whatever club and I plan on doing it here, too."

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    Default Re: Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    ^ This.

    Fart on their lap and leave.

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    Default Re: Rant - how to deal with customers who say this?

    haha yeah that's how I took it... Haven't had anyone say that since thank god.

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