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    I wanted to give you all a head's up. I was on my personal Facebook and in the "People You May Know" section, I was seeing customers' profiles. I recognized their faces from C2C sessions. Also, I saw a couple of models' profiles.

    Ladies, I would not use your actual photo for Facebook. We seem to be showing up in the "People You May Know" section on Facebook. I had a customer reach out to me on Facebook Messenger with "(Stagename)? Is that you?" I freaked and blocked him (he kept writing to me despite me asking him to stop). I thought he had done a search to find me. He told me that he saw me in that section. I didn't believe him, but, after seeing the customers and some models, I now believe him.

    I changed my pic to something other than my pic (like an animal, tree, flower, etc.).

    Be careful!



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    This is why I don't fuck with facebook.

    Thanks for giving the heads up


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    This is why I don't have my real name on it.

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    Put it on the highest private settings... Switch ur associated email to a completely different on that your adult stuff and switch profile pic to something generic....
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    I highly recommend using the 'private browsing option' on your browser of choice when visiting 'personal sites' if you use your computer for both work and personal. Yes, I admit that it is a headache to have to enter your username and password each time you visit sites on your computer instead of having it saved but the headache is worth the hassle that comes from being outted.

    Here is a link that explains more about it:

    How to start private browsing in Internet Explorer, Firefox, Opera, Chrome:
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    For me facebook is used to build my vanilla online business.

    so I am not too worried of customers finding me on facebook they will see content that i promote for that business and my personal account.

    If they message me and get out of hand I just block them. just like anyone else who gets out of hand. doesn't matter if they are former sex work client of mine or not.

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    Lately ive been getting a lot of friend request with no mutual friends.I just deny their request. I've been outed so many times .so its not a shocker when someone tell me they found a video of me riding a dildo.Thats what comes with the territory .

    The only thing i would suggest is make sure to keep your facebook page private .Also dont let anyone tag you in a picture/video or write on your wall without approving their request first.Whenever i get tag in videos my heart always drop cuz i always think its gonna be a video of me doing a cam show. cest la vie

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    Yeah, I changed my name. It's not my real name, either. Argh.


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    Plan to get rid of FB all together. It just annoys me and I can never get very into social media/up-keeping. It may upset my bf, few friends but, I just don't see any point in having an account and hate uploading pictures of anything above the neck. I also never gave info, just chicken shit that breaks their rules..so it was bound to get banned/removed. I just wonder how many will act like its "low material" since I don't have a fancy cover/profile anymore. I like Twitter much better anyways..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigbootyjudy1 View Post
    Lately ive been getting a lot of friend request with no mutual friends.I just deny their request. I've been outed so many times .so its not a shocker when someone tell me they found a video of me riding a dildo.Thats what comes with the territory .

    The only thing i would suggest is make sure to keep your facebook page private .Also dont let anyone tag you in a picture/video or write on your wall without approving their request first.Whenever i get tag in videos my heart always drop cuz i always think its gonna be a video of me doing a cam show. cest la vie
    There is a way to make it to where only people with mutual friends can send you a request, too.

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    My fake facebook has a pic of a video game character for that very reason!


    Quote Originally Posted by BadBitch View Post
    I wanted to give you all a head's up. I was on my personal Facebook and in the "People You May Know" section, I was seeing customers' profiles. I recognized their faces from C2C sessions. Also, I saw a couple of models' profiles.

    Ladies, I would not use your actual photo for Facebook. We seem to be showing up in the "People You May Know" section on Facebook. I had a customer reach out to me on Facebook Messenger with "(Stagename)? Is that you?" I freaked and blocked him (he kept writing to me despite me asking him to stop). I thought he had done a search to find me. He told me that he saw me in that section. I didn't believe him, but, after seeing the customers and some models, I now believe him.

    I changed my pic to something other than my pic (like an animal, tree, flower, etc.).

    Be careful!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArynAdams View Post
    There is a way to make it to where only people with mutual friends can send you a request, too.
    wow ,thank u.I need to look into that

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    It may be that Twitter that is linking the two. On another forum a girl was saying that Twitter outed her on fb. Even though she uses different names, locations and pictures.
    Last edited by Floozysuzie; 12-11-2015 at 12:23 PM.

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    OMG. The thirst of these dudes! Talking about "(insert stage name) is that you?" wtf?!?!

    People you may know happens when you 1) give customers your number/email and you use this same info on your Facebook profile 2) you happen to have mutual friends

    And yes having your pic where they can clearly see your face makes it even more obvious. Keep your contact list and personal pics hidden.

    Facebook is the devil - you have no privacy on there. They have THE most advanced facial recognition software.

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    More reasons to hate FB. I'm totally wanting to deacivate my vanilla account, but I have a photography page that I maintain...ugh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Floozysuzie View Post
    It may be that Twitter that is linking the two. On another forum a girl was saying that Twitter outed her on fb. Even though she uses different names, locations and pictures.
    I wonder if having the same phone number listed for both will cause problems for me in the future. I'm rarely on Facebook so after reading this it just makes me want to delete it more. I figure people know/will find it anyways who I know IRL, so it's whatever but kinda sucks customers may be able to find me this way. Boo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    OMG. The thirst of these dudes! Talking about "(insert stage name) is that you?" wtf?!?!

    People you may know happens when you 1) give customers your number/email and you use this same info on your Facebook profile 2) you happen to have mutual friends

    And yes having your pic where they can clearly see your face makes it even more obvious. Keep your contact list and personal pics hidden.

    Facebook is the devil - you have no privacy on there. They have THE most advanced facial recognition software.

    If you use it, do not add 'friends' you do not know in real life --- keep your circle small and "hide ya wife, hide ya kids...." --- Antoine Dodson
    Yeah, my number is not listed on FB. And yes, I've been getting a few requests from people that I have no mutual friends with - ESPECIALLY people from India!!!


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    Also, I'm not sure how long this has been in effect, but FB has this rule now about not allowing people to use aliases/pet names as their display name anymore (I guess if you're a FB business page and not a personal FB page, that's a different story?). This guy was talking about that. And then one of my favorite YouTubers was talking about it too...how FB forced her to change her name to her real name.

    And yeah, that's super fucked up that the creep continued messaging you after you asked him to stop. These dudes should not be approaching cam girls on FB or approaching cam girls in person IRL talking about "____, is that you?" What the fuck...
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Also, I'm not sure how long this has been in effect, but FB has this rule now about not allowing people to use aliases/pet names as their display name anymore (I guess if you're a FB business page and not a personal FB page, that's a different story?). This guy was talking about that. And then one of my favorite YouTubers was talking about it too...how FB forced her to change her name to her real name.

    And yeah, that's super fucked up that the creep continued messaging you after you asked him to stop. These dudes should not be approaching cam girls on FB or approaching cam girls in person IRL talking about "____, is that you?" What the fuck...
    Yeah. Dude has major boundary issues.


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    and this is another reason why I don't have a facebook.





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    Deactivated mine and it felt pretty weird, like something was missing. I also had a habit of almost getting on breaking the 14 days..feeling good so far..think its because of giving up an old statues, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BadBitch View Post
    Yeah, my number is not listed on FB. And yes, I've been getting a few requests from people that I have no mutual friends with - ESPECIALLY people from India!!!
    Are you certain? Facebook asks you to "secure" your account - with a phone number. Also if you use Facebook messenger for mobile you could have inadvertently connected your phone number to your Facebook account.

    I wouldn't trust friend requests from random people I have no mutual friends with (as they are most likely spammers or someone who created a fake profile to cyber stalk your profile). You can change this in your settings so that you only get friend requests from people you know or have mutual friends vs. random strangers with no mutual friends.
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    Shitttt once I decided to join a dating site and I got a "Hey (insertmycamname), wow, you're in my city! Can we meet and fuck, bb?" My personal fb has high settings but I'm about to email my family/close friends my number and delete that shit.




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    I am not positive, but could it be google Chrome and cookies linking the accounts? I use chrome, but switch identities (upper right hand corner) and all cam related stuff is on one identity and everything else on another. When I switch identities, the cookies and history are seperate.
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    I think it's google. I've had suggestions of people that had been saved in my gmail account that I'd emailed once. I don't think it was the gmail account I actually used for though. I sometimes wonder if it's anything from one set IP address as well. I've had it happen across devices.
    FWIW my fb has no picture, not my real name, zero pictures of me...

    I also wonder if it's the phone number used to back up gmail addresses that links things if the gmail addresses are used on them.

    One of my worries is with facial recognition software, someone could take a photo of you and put it on their fb and you'd be unaware of it if they didn't tag you, but then if someone searched on your images that mght come up and they'd have your friend as someone they could get in contact with. Just... argh.

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