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    Hello there, I am a mid-end/level escort living along the coast in NC who would like to become a high end escort. I would like to know what are the basic requirements of high end escort and anything else I can help me in becoming one. Since I live in NC I realize either moving or travelling extensively will be one requirement, I also know investing in a kick ass site and some photos will be another, but more importantly I want to know if most high end ladies accept credit over cash and how can I secure a deposit before I just hop on a plane somewhere and am stood up? Pretty much anything, any advice, warning, etc would be appreciated as I am ready to take the plunge and do it!

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    No you don't.

    Read this: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...-end-escorting

    Go make your money doing midrange work and use escorting as a stepping stone to something better.

    I held a 3+ hour, four figure minimum with no reviews for over a year. I actually did make enough to live on - unlike most other hoes I know playing that game, who have some sort of day job to get by - and my excuse was grad school. Everyone I do know who was living on ho money has pulled some sort of serious desperation move this year and/or was risking eviction or worse.

    Even when you're sitting out at a $2000 minimum... Consider all the work and investment that's necessary to even get those kinds of appointments. Massive ad bills. Everything developed exquisitely and without compromise. How about travel bills necessary to get that money? Consider just how few men can and will drop that much on a hooker when they can have just about anyone else for less. It is not a money making endeavor, just a game for pretty privileged very light skinned girls - and you should recognize it as nothing more than that, a bullshit trifle and lie fed to you so some stupid arrogant bitch (possibly yourself included) can feel better about herself for being a whore.

    The HDH thing is complete and utter bullshit - the more you invest in it mentally, the harder it is to leave, because you're so wrapped up in bullshit ideals, and it gets worse all the time because as time passes, that's all you have to hold on to.

    Eventually it caught up with me, I nearly found myself in a psych ward, and now here I am, back to the hourly bullshit I was in two years ago, just trying to save money.

    Only a moron accepts credit in this industry. Cash or Bitcoin only.

    I used GiftRocket and Bitcoin for deposits.

    But seriously - you don't want to do the high end thing. It's just one of many bullshit ways to fritter away one's life pursuing a false dream, when instead you could be making MONEY and preparing to go off and do something that you're passionate about.

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    Find a happy medium, hold on to your dreams along with a strong cup of realism. The above post was harsh but actually quite onto it.
    Although, It can still be done, it will not look like it does on the outside.

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    What do you guys even consider "high end"? I think everyone has a different definition of it.

    I'm almost positive the only way you can be "high end" is if you pull the instagram fitness model bullshit and drop tens of thousands on surgery that you lie about while simultaneously barely eating so that you remain underweight. You would need to make it a lifestyle, continuously model, and pray that you can maintain the same "high end" standard of living for even just 5 years.

    Also, a lot of investment money goes into portraying a life of luxury in order to get clients. I feel like its too risky.

    I don't understand how anyone could be "high end" unless it wasn't a lifestyle. If you are wanting big money, you'll basically be a sugar baby having sex with clients. However, this is too good to be true because he is still the one that pulls all the strings. Do you really want to remain on a man's leash?

    Is that the "high end" this post is referring to?

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    No high end as high end like Miss Amy Taylor who is one of the USA's most sought after escorts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    No high end as high end like Miss Amy Taylor who is one of the USA's most sought after escorts.
    How do you even know how much she really makes? How do you know where she's really working? How do you know she doesn't hire people to book and advertise her, which she pays a cut to do?

    I found this tidbit about her on a forum: "Ms. Taylor posts ads throughout the country simultaneously, evidently the strategy is to solicit someone who will fly her in for a date. Don't know her success rate. I have never met her, but she has enjoyed a good reputation in the industry. I believe her minimum is $2,500 for 4 hours of her time."

    Its likely an illusion. She is probably not making as much as you think she is. Its good marketing to get clients and have her appear high end. According to forums, she has been in the business for 15 or more years, and has built up a client base and reputation that allows her to charge the prices she does. There is no shortcut to this unless you do porn or modeling in the mainstream and keep it professional.

    I also would not consider that "high end" even if it were true. She is still a mid-range escort in my mind, just with slightly higher rates for the areas.

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    Thanks, I do not know how much she makes but she seems to be living pretty damn good as her photos on Instagram, twitter, etc say so. I understand it could all be one big illusion however let me ask you this. If I was to go the porn route how can be sure I would be able to demand a high amount like Kacey Jordan, Terri Weigal, and other ladies? I mean anyone can do a couple of pornos and escort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    Thanks, I do not know how much she makes but she seems to be living pretty damn good as her photos on Instagram, twitter, etc say so. I understand it could all be one big illusion however let me ask you this. If I was to go the porn route how can be sure I would be able to demand a high amount like Kacey Jordan, Terri Weigal, and other ladies? I mean anyone can do a couple of pornos and escort.
    They standardly charge even more than this Amy lady does and are all booked at that rate. They use porn as their advertising. The tradeoff is that it is on the internet forever.

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    Now another question or an even bigger question is if I pursue a porn route how many videos would it have to take me to command such rates? Or exactly how famous of a pornstar do I need to become in order to upgrade such as these ladies? Like I said anyone can make a couple of pornos and escort but if the guys aren't buying then what?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    Now another question or an even bigger question is if I pursue a porn route how many videos would it have to take me to command such rates? Or exactly how famous of a pornstar do I need to become in order to upgrade such as these ladies? Like I said anyone can make a couple of pornos and escort but if the guys aren't buying then what?
    Its not about that. Its about having lots of photos and presence as well as a reputation built over time. This Amy woman has that. There aren't shortcuts. Time. Content. Reviews. If you dedicate your life to this like porn stars do, trying to shoot as much as possible, then you could build this relatively fast. However, you would still need the most marketable look, body, hair, and more for your area or else you won't make much obviously.

    Porn is just one type of content but there are other angles to take. Its up to you to be creative and do what you want to do. There aren't shortcuts though. You have to put in the work and the marketing. That means shoots and social media, or networking in real life with ultra wealthy men. Then you must continue to do this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sophianz View Post
    Find a happy medium, hold on to your dreams along with a strong cup of realism. The above post was harsh but actually quite onto it.
    Although, It can still be done, it will not look like it does on the outside.
    I'm being harsh because these girls who are like, "Tra la la, how do I do the high-end ho thing and makes tons of money, tell me everything!" have implicitly bought into all kinds of lies and somebody needs to give them a brutally loud wake-up call. Yes, it can absolutely be done - as long as you don't need to make a dime from it. I'm probably going to go back to it once I graduate, because that's the only way it really works - just do it for fun - and even then, the 'spoiled girlfriend' style sugaring route would be more lucrative.

    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    No high end as high end like Miss Amy Taylor who is one of the USA's most sought after escorts.

    Keep in mind that this industry is almost entirely smoke and mirrors.


    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    How do you even know how much she really makes? How do you know where she's really working? How do you know she doesn't hire people to book and advertise her, which she pays a cut to do?

    Exactly. Think, damn it.


    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    I found this tidbit about her on a forum: "Ms. Taylor posts ads throughout the country simultaneously, evidently the strategy is to solicit someone who will fly her in for a date. Don't know her success rate. I have never met her, but she has enjoyed a good reputation in the industry. I believe her minimum is $2,500 for 4 hours of her time."

    Now, think about exactly how much all of this advertising costs. The Slixa national ads can be negotiated down to $1000/42 days if you know Donia. The Eros worldwide ads cannot be negotiated and come out to $1200/28 days. Both of these options are complete shit in terms of ROI, in my experience. Coating everywhere in a 1200 mile radius of my city on Backpage runs ~$1400 for four weeks with one bump per week, and it's liable to increase now that Backpage is jacking rates up. Having personally done Eros saturation campaigns - those ad bills also go up in a hurry, I think my record for advertising on Eros in several markets came out to $2200/month. Amy Taylor is even more prolific - so we're looking at upwards of $3500/month in ad bills. She doesn't even break even until after her second appointment that month. How many clients in any given month do you think she sees? From my own data, it takes ~16000 Backpage hits to get a single new client paying $2k+ - she may be better or worse at driving conversions than I was - but given that I was running one of the strongest content marketing campaigns and websites in the industry, I doubt her new client conversion rate is significantly different.


    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    Its likely an illusion. She is probably not making as much as you think she is. Its good marketing to get clients and have her appear high end. According to forums, she has been in the business for 15 or more years, and has built up a client base and reputation that allows her to charge the prices she does. There is no shortcut to this unless you do porn or modeling in the mainstream and keep it professional.

    Having built a client base goes a very long way towards finding some semblance of stability and affording it all - how else do you think she can manage when there isn't a single ad site out there that really sends in the clients who can afford high-end escorts and have the desire for them specifically versus any one of many midrange escorts with multi hour offerings? It's shockingly disgusting just how many hoes got away with making money hand over fist with subpar offerings before the recession got even worse - and how they landed regular clients who aren't up to looking around and can blow all sorts of money.


    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    I also would not consider that "high end" even if it were true. She is still a mid-range escort in my mind, just with slightly higher rates for the areas.

    It's so cute when hourly escorts claim, "Oh, so and so isn't high-end, she only gets XXX per hour after all, once you break up the multi hour appointment into hours," in the process being grossly ignorant of the realities of holding a minimum that high. To quote Pauli, "That is not only not right, that is not even wrong."

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    Quote Originally Posted by abarrett View Post
    Keep in mind that this industry is almost entirely smoke and mirrors.
    This is true. I met a girl in LA that turned out to be an InstaGram high-end girl. She offered to hookup with me if I would fly her to Las Vegas just so that she could take pictures of herself during the flight. Similar thing in Miami where the girls want to take "blessed" pictures around my stuff. That's actually how I indirectly ended up on this site. Don't believe what you see on social media. In reality the LA girl was driving a late model car and lived with her family.

    There are definitely high-end escorts/sugar babies. Whether it's through luck or very hard work some women end up doing very well (houses, cars, businesses).

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    Well if anyone knows how to become a high end escort and some are some of the things I need to get going please do share? Also do guys really give gifts and stuff off your amazon wishlist? I have only had one guy do that.

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    There has been good advice in this thread. But to be concise:

    - Become a (semi)known porn star. You can also become a known model or B/C/D list actress. Talk to one of the madams that work out of LA/NYC.
    - Become instagram famous and place a booking e-mail in your profile. This could include learning basic arabic and traveling to Dubai.
    - Attend events that the wealthy are at (charity events, auctions, yacht clubs, private airports, certain golf courses) and look for clients. This could include sugar daddies.
    - Raise your prices and advertise heavily. This is very expensive and doesn't guarantee success.

    As in all business ventures: know your competition and your core strengths.

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    Thank you! What in a website do I need? Any other tips or detailed advice would be appreciated! And what is the likely of getting clients to pay for my travel expenses on top of the rate for the reservation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    Thank you! What in a website do I need? Any other tips or detailed advice would be appreciated! And what is the likely of getting clients to pay for my travel expenses on top of the rate for the reservation.
    What you need in a website depends on which path you take:

    Pornstar: You would setup a website with your pornstar name that is subscription based and that sells clips to your fans. This normally won't generate tons of cash but it will be steady. You'll have to post new clips monthly. Have a booking link that goes to your screener or just use one of the madams to handle that for you. The madams have screened member only websites that handle your advertisement. But they take a cut of your income.

    Instagram: Setup an instagram account and post new sexy/semi-nude photos everyday. Purchase followers at first and if you're lucky you'll get real followers. Post pictures of you in exotic locations (always alone or with other known IG escorts), in high-end cars (Bentley or higher), and on private jets. In your profile description say you're a model and put a booking e-mail that goes to your screener. You can also reach out to other IG escorts and let them know you're available to work together. Copy other IG escort hashtags (#blessed, #wcw, #dubai, #privatejet, etc)

    If you're looking for wealthy men or sugar daddies in person it may be best to have a low-key online presence. If they see your escort website it may give them pause.

    If you're an IG escort or pornstar then you should ask for a deposit and travel expenses. Pornstars often do city tours as well.
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    Ok what if I dont want to go either route and strictly pursue a high end call girl site. What do I need to get started in that? I know a lot of the high end ladies such as Amy Taylor and others have people sign up for memberships. What would you include in a membership to your site?

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    Sorry, I can't help with that. Maybe someone else will have advice. I've never heard of Amy Taylor before. I spent 2 minutes on her site and I don't understand why many guys would use her services. Unless she's a guys exact physical type, there are many other better options available. I didn't look at it closely, maybe she speaks 6 languages or is famous.

    If you look at her twitter account:

    A stranger's corn chip toenails, open shade, head into my seat: this is why I DETEST Part 121. Private or retch.

    It looks like she's gone the instagram approach. Sexy posts often, private jets, showing off her stuff.
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    Could you not pay Amy Taylor, or someone similar, to mentor you? You seem to have a lot of questions and want the holy grail of high end escort non smoke and mirror money......and as you know, the game is to be sold not told.
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    I could but I wouldn't want to risk paying a lady to have her come over here and not give me any answers. I figured there are some ladies that claim to be high end on this board but I get your picture I understand that I am not going to make x amount of dollars every week or even every month as others have pointed out but I am sorry to say some of these women aren't getting a good chunk of change would be lying obviously these ladies wouldn't be charging that much if boys weren't buying.

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    high end is a marketing illusion.

    It's really about how you present yourself and how you want to handle your business. not so much about pricing.

    chasing that illusion is what made me quit the game this year.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    I could but I wouldn't want to risk paying a lady to have her come over here and not give me any answers. I figured there are some ladies that claim to be high end on this board but I get your picture I understand that I am not going to make x amount of dollars every week or even every month as others have pointed out but I am sorry to say some of these women aren't getting a good chunk of change would be lying obviously these ladies wouldn't be charging that much if boys weren't buying.
    IDK. I get that, its just not everybody is going to give you their trade secrets for making thousands a night since that could make you their competitor.

    Ive never worked in high end escorting so I don't really know whats possible from my own experience, but I have done some research. Once learned about that Elliot Spitzer scandal and what his favorite former escort Ashlee Dupree was making. I was like [email protected]! Maybe I need to escort like that lol! So I do think its possible to make big money and be a high end escort in certain markets. But I also think its risky too. If escorts are making this kind of money theres a high risk of getting caught and for something thats supposed to be illegal, what would happen? And also when making big money people (some sketchy people) will be after a piece of the pie.

    I think you can charge what ever you want. You never know who will be willing to pay it. If you want to stay competitive with your pricing you'll have to charge similar to what other escorts in your market are charging.
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    Look, you can make a lot of money escorting BUT there is a huge catch. There is no easy money, and it almost terrifies me to think you actually believe other girl's marketing tactics when you are an escort yourself and should know better. You are clearly not prepared for this. You are thinking WOOHOO $700, $800 PER HOUR YESSSS! But you aren't thinking clearly.

    Do you know what goes into that $800 per hour?

    I'll tell you:

    - Years of charging $300, $400 an hour and then slowly increasing rates over the span of several (or in Amy's case, 15+) years. Men are booking based off reviews and span of reputation. She has nice photos, but isn't anything special.

    - Thousands in marketing each month.

    - Dozens of hours of time each week writing, editing, posting reviews, shooting new photos, updating social media, screening guys, dealing with time wasters.



    No one is making $300, $400, $800 an hour. Sure, if you completely ignore the dozens of hours you doing the above each month, but you are just kidding yourself.

    There is no magical secret. The ones making BANK are ones who are hot enough to model, put in hours doing free or low pay model work, and networking in real life to find sugardaddy types they fuck for money. Even then, she will forever be on his string until he stops paying. Its like dating someone you can't stand who still calls all the shots. All in exchange for a higher amount than normal that you spend on luxury items just to keep the guy. It also doesn't last long, 5 years tops. NO THANKS

    Men who pay more for a girl, well, it doesn't last. There is an expiration date. Why would they pay more when they can trade you in for a new model? Harsh, but true. There's nothing special about most girls when there are so many others out there just like them. Good marketing gets you in the door, but that's about it. I know marriage has gone down the tubes in our society, but this is the replacement. Short little flings with wealthy men who have you on a string. Its empty.

    And its not like you'll even meet a white knight who wants you to quit and spoils you with luxury forever. There's no incentive for that to happen because if you meet someone like that, its only a matter of time til he resents you for gold digging and shockingly trades you in for a new model. You'll have to deal with him having other mistresses on the side. You DON'T want to be involved with these men. You need to think clearly. This is why escorting needs to be done while having a regular job. It doesn't last. Its smoke and mirrors. You might not realize this right away, but all of a sudden you're 33 and wondering what the fuck happened when you're traded in for a shiny new 21 year old. It doesn't matter if you age well. This is reality with these men. Don't kid yourself.

    Stop believing a lie.
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    red.velvet, in your opinion it's impossible to find a sugar daddy that isn't revolting? And you also seem to think they are controlling. The luxury items that you say you need to keep them should be given as gifts, right? At least it's good to know how the other side feels.

    I agree that every relationship has an expiration date. But don't most dating relationships and even many marriages also end? But it's more built into a NSA arrangement.

    My experience with high end escorts is very different than the girls here. I'm not sure why. In NYC there are a couple of madams that have girls (models or very attractive regular girls) available for $800+++ an hour. In LA it's $1,200 and up (mostly porn/models/actress). Kristin and Emperor were a very popular before they were shut down. They both had "regular" girls mixed in with their models. None of the girls that work in LA/NYC for these madams are on this forum? Or do they just not want to say something? I'm not personally interested in escorts, I need more time to get comfortable with someone. But anyone moving in certain groups knows who to call. What do you think Taz was charging for his girls?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    Ok what if I dont want to go either route and strictly pursue a high end call girl site. What do I need to get started in that?
    Top of the line everything - photos, copy, web design, and a massive advertising budget. I would estimate $7k in startup costs plus at least a $2.5k/month ad burden. You can cheap out and find efficiencies in that - but keep in mind that there is no such thing as free lunch and everything has a trade off.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Could you not pay Amy Taylor, or someone similar, to mentor you? You seem to have a lot of questions and want the holy grail of high end escort non smoke and mirror money......and as you know, the game is to be sold not told.
    I've hired consultants. One is excellent and I don't mind providing a referral by PM.

    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    I could but I wouldn't want to risk paying a lady to have her come over here and not give me any answers. I figured there are some ladies that claim to be high end on this board but I get your picture I understand that I am not going to make x amount of dollars every week or even every month as others have pointed out but I am sorry to say some of these women aren't getting a good chunk of change would be lying obviously these ladies wouldn't be charging that much if boys weren't buying.
    Oh, sweetie, you don't even know how full of it you are. Yes, actually, some women do try charging that much and don't care if nobody bites. A dear acquaintance I know went two months without a single appointment - and that was at a relatively low $1200 minimum - but she had a day job and didn't care that much. It boils down to ego and standards - some of us simply will not budge on certain things. Some girls like to run vanity ads. Never underestimate hooker foolishness.

    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    high end is a marketing illusion.

    It's really about how you present yourself and how you want to handle your business. not so much about pricing.

    chasing that illusion is what made me quit the game this year.
    Yup. It hurt me so much, watching that illusion die, like I had bought into the HDH bullshit hook, line, and sinker.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    IDK. I get that, its just not everybody is going to give you their trade secrets for making thousands a night since that could make you their competitor.

    Ive never worked in high end escorting so I don't really know whats possible from my own experience, but I have done some research. Once learned about that Elliot Spitzer scandal and what his favorite former escort Ashlee Dupree was making. I was like [email protected]! Maybe I need to escort like that lol! So I do think its possible to make big money and be a high end escort in certain markets. But I also think its risky too. If escorts are making this kind of money theres a high risk of getting caught and for something thats supposed to be illegal, what would happen? And also when making big money people (some sketchy people) will be after a piece of the pie.

    I think you can charge what ever you want. You never know who will be willing to pay it. If you want to stay competitive with your pricing you'll have to charge similar to what other escorts in your market are charging.
    All kinds of bullshit flew in that era. Not anymore. The kinds of girls who were high-end in those days can only get by today as market rate hobby whores.

    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    Look, you can make a lot of money escorting BUT there is a huge catch. There is no easy money, and it almost terrifies me to think you actually believe other girl's marketing tactics when you are an escort yourself and should know better. You are clearly not prepared for this. You are thinking WOOHOO $700, $800 PER HOUR YESSSS! But you aren't thinking clearly.

    Do you know what goes into that $800 per hour?

    I'll tell you:

    - Years of charging $300, $400 an hour and then slowly increasing rates over the span of several (or in Amy's case, 15+) years. Men are booking based off reviews and span of reputation. She has nice photos, but isn't anything special.

    - Thousands in marketing each month.

    - Dozens of hours of time each week writing, editing, posting reviews, shooting new photos, updating social media, screening guys, dealing with time wasters.



    No one is making $300, $400, $800 an hour. Sure, if you completely ignore the dozens of hours you doing the above each month, but you are just kidding yourself.

    There is no magical secret. The ones making BANK are ones who are hot enough to model, put in hours doing free or low pay model work, and networking in real life to find sugardaddy types they fuck for money. Even then, she will forever be on his string until he stops paying. Its like dating someone you can't stand who still calls all the shots. All in exchange for a higher amount than normal that you spend on luxury items just to keep the guy. It also doesn't last long, 5 years tops. NO THANKS

    Men who pay more for a girl, well, it doesn't last. There is an expiration date. Why would they pay more when they can trade you in for a new model? Harsh, but true. There's nothing special about most girls when there are so many others out there just like them. Good marketing gets you in the door, but that's about it. I know marriage has gone down the tubes in our society, but this is the replacement. Short little flings with wealthy men who have you on a string. Its empty.

    And its not like you'll even meet a white knight who wants you to quit and spoils you with luxury forever. There's no incentive for that to happen because if you meet someone like that, its only a matter of time til he resents you for gold digging and shockingly trades you in for a new model. You'll have to deal with him having other mistresses on the side. You DON'T want to be involved with these men. You need to think clearly. This is why escorting needs to be done while having a regular job. It doesn't last. Its smoke and mirrors. You might not realize this right away, but all of a sudden you're 33 and wondering what the fuck happened when you're traded in for a shiny new 21 year old. It doesn't matter if you age well. This is reality with these men. Don't kid yourself.

    Stop believing a lie.
    Thank you.

    I would argue that reviews are actually liable to scare off the more discreet and moneyed sort. At a certain point - BBBJs and board whores are simply too dangerous for a guy to think about seeing. The whole instagram or porn route is terrifying to guys who value their privacy.

    The work never ever ends, it seems.

    IMO - the trick is to not even fuck for money - just be a fun girl who enjoys rich men buying her things, and have a lucrative day job. Play the long game. Be discreet.

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