So i dated my ex for 4 years. I danced on and off while dating him since I am a nursing student and would be in so much debt if I did not dance. I recieve not help from family, i was on my own with everything at 18 and he does not get that I am just trying to secure my future. I could care less about these custies. 4 years into it things got rocky and we took time off and he said to me if i stopped dancing then we can be together, I immediately said no because I have bills to pay, I like that I can work two or three days a week and sometimes even one day a week and make good money and focus on anatomy, biochemistry, physics, micro and all those hard classes. I put my future first. So he doesnt want to be with me all of a sudden after 4 years and it has made him miserable. Am I wrong to want to continue to dance to pay for school and focus on my education? Is that selfish?



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