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    Default My first two week escorting

    I deleted the original post because I was emotional & ranting after a bad night. But my first three weeks now has been interested , a headache and a huge learning curve. You read all of these book, forum post (which has been a huge help I love SW) however it's not until you actually do it that you learn everything you know. My main source for advertising had been BP since it's does bring in money, though I've seen a handful of guys I have stories to last me a while. For my ladies who primarily advertise on BP how do you handle your calls? Do you direct them to your website, are you email only ? Please do tell PM if it's something you want to tell in private
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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    I'm with an agency right now, but before then I posted on BP. I got a lot of timewasters and also really good clients. What I did was try to present myself as "classy." If you post selfies, don't take one in a dirty bathroom. Take it in your (clean, made-up) bed. Wear the cutest bra & panties that you have and maybe post a picture of your body in a nice dress, etc. Use proper grammar in your ads and no excessive emojis. I'm not saying that you're trashy or that you don't already do these things since idk what your hustle is like, but this is what worked for me. I'm also in a big city and there are a lot of girls doing specials too. But there are clients looking for a more classy girl and they'll come to you.

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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    The guys I actually met with the exception of one were nice surprisingly. But some of these guys are ridiculous as you know. I'm mean they want the full works for 40 bucks? I thought about going the proper grammar route ,but I thought guys would think I'm LE. The good thing is i do like it I just have to get my hustle right.

    Anyhoo thanks on the advice I'm going to buy some new lingerie, take new pics & rewrite my ads and see how it goes.

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    Being Brand New helps you. I am "new" as well and am in a smaller area where it hasn't been terrribbbllllleeee to get started, but your right on the 40 buck dudes. I just don't even discuss any type of negotiation period. End of conversation. I am sure I've lost out , BUT I don't want anyone who negotiates before hand because they are going to negotiate in person as well and NO WAY THAT'S NOT HAPPENING and set your prices and stay there. Even if you aren't busy, just stick with it and you never know who is "creeping" your ad and will call you. You can work much less and make more and then also most of the time the guys who can only afford 40 bucks won't even contact you.

    If I get a stupid request like 40 bucks I let them know that I do not speak of my donations that I am sure there is another provider that can help them out and END OF DISCUSSION. I am always polite (don't want to piss off the wrong person)

    The only gig where I am at is BP. I absolutely HATE BP, but. I have found in just two weeks from the comments I've gotten from clients. It was the proper grammar, web site (got one for free) and the way I presented my ad that got them to contact me. I only do 1st contact through email, initially. IF someone isn't willing to send an email and corrsepond a HAIR with me and give me bare minimum name/phone number/age/occupation (not where they work, just what they do) (I ask for physical description as well) then I don't want to see them anyways.

    NO ONE here is willing to do any type of screening hardly. That is why if you get Name/Phone number and know approximately what area they live in you can find them on a FREE and EASY search to see if what they say is true. Does someone come up with their name and age in the area they are from, what about name with profession etc. ONCE I get this confirmed I speak with them on the phone and discuss booking an appt. them.

    Also a mistake I learned. Weekends ARE THE WORST, don't even do it on the weekend. Tuesday - Thursday is best (think married men are at home on the weekend). I am NOT A HIGH DOLLAR ESCORT, but am making a "decent living so far", I'm not RICH but I am making a ton more than my "vanilla job" could ever had paid me in such a short amount of time with such little effort. ALSO I ONLY DO HR and HH don't even GET STUCK IN THE RUT OF QV, you dont want QV, you don't want people who only want QV and I have found that I book HR for gentlemen who would otherwise have done QV anyways.

    ALSO, I went shopping at our local sex toy/lingerie store and I talked them into a 20% discount. It has gotten me able to afford a TON of outfits.

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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    ^^^ What does QV stand for? And yes, BP sucks on the weekend

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    ^^^ q.v. = quick visit = 15 minutes. ... and the hobbyists still say they can manage 2 shots in that time.

    It's not my thing though as I like time for conversation. But to each his or her own.

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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    Quote Originally Posted by Dominic.2 View Post
    ^^^ q.v. = quick visit = 15 minutes. ... and the hobbyists still say they can manage 2 shots in that time.

    It's not my thing though as I like time for conversation. But to each his or her own.
    So a quickie? Cause as a bodyrubber.. I get those requests often and I'm assuming he just wants me to go right into a blow or handjob.. what would u charge for a QV as an escort?

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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    Exxotica, yes. And you are correct, get right into the blowjob or handjob. Some will climax right away (2 min) and want a 10 minute rest then either then same again for 2 min or FS for 2 minutes then leave. Most probably just want the one quickie and leave.

    Discussing prices is tacky however you are being nice so I will oblige: The customers seem to offer 40, the providers want 60, and the hobbyists on the review boards claim they pay 45 on average. Personally I would charge more (and anyone who is attractive and pleasant probably should) however I am not an escort.

    It's not my thing but there seems to be a customer base for it.

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    These BP guys are a headache but it get the calls so I guess I shouldn't complain . Another Other thing I need to stop doing is changing my prices. I blow wherever the wind blows.
    When I charge my regular rate sometimes my phone doesn't ring so it get me discouraged a bit.
    Than when I run a "special" it's like a hot line. I don't even negotiate at all ! I provide good services these guys text like this "bbbj n puss n butt 50" who talk like this

    We're on the same boat honey I hate BP but it brings the calls in I've met a handful of guys so far they were good with the exception of one but they're a lot of time wasters on there this week has sucked for me completely I'll be honest ladies I know this is dangerous but I haven't been screening :-o I don't know what had gotten into me i don't have a website but I do have a tumblr that i set up as my website for now. I thinking about switching to email than once they book a appointment give them my number

    I thought I was the one with this weekend problem I thought it was just me I live in a major city though I only advertise in one part it's slow on the weekends I thought these guy get paid their off of work but it has been slow I'm not high either but it's like pulling teeth to get my hour but I'm going to switch my hustle up so hopefully that helps

    I have done SS /quicks but I stopped that your right at least for me I don't want those type of clients a lot of them tend to be hagglers/cheap guys who want a world wind/PS experience in 15 mins for $50? I don't think so

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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    One response to QV requesters would be 'my minimum time is an hour (or half), but 'you can leave sooner if you need to...'. Let them know that preparing for an appointment requires time, sometimes more than the the appointment time.
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    Default Re: My first two week escorting

    I'm just starting out too. I wrote up an ad and will post later tonight/tomorrow AM. Did you use any of the paid placements? I'm considering it but I'm low on cash and don't want to use my ATM card.

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    Yeah I pay for all my ads. The first two days I posted free ads and got less than 10 calls. then I put up a paid ad and got 50+calls my phone was blowing like a hotline so I just stick with that. I don't know if these guys see the free ads but than again I live in a major city so that's also a factor but I notice I get the most calls when I pay for my ads. You can post the ad just to test the water and see how many calls you get . Also BP doesn't accept cards/gift cards/visa nothing just bitcoins and money orders

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    Oh yea, I remember reading that here and I'm not too keen on bitcoin enough to use. Wonder how long a money order takes. I'll try the test ad to see what kind of bites I get. Thanks!

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