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    Sad cant make any money in NJ

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    i just started dancing and its been a disaster. i usually go home with about $50 or less. ive worked at two clubs so far in NJ. the first was mixed, but leaning more towards urban, and all the dancers complained it wasnt good and the customers were cheap. the second was a real urban club with a lot more money. at first i was excited cause id make $100 in one stage set(10 minutes), but the only problem is... thats all id make all night. the club only got busy a few hours before close(2am), was extremely crowded, and it seemed only the dancers with the biggest asses made any money between stage sets. i pretty much felt invisible. it was very disheartening

    now i went to amateur night at sin city in the bronx, had the crowd hyped, and was offered a job, but i feel so worn down after the last two clubs, im worried i cant do this at all. the problem is im not sure if i can make money between stage sets because im way too uncomfortable to approach people. im sure i could learn in time, but until then, idk what to do? id like to find a club where i could make decent stage money. ive been told on this site thats impossible, but i repeatedly see dancers at urban clubs make over $100 per stage set. is it possible to make that multiple times a night? im white and my booties not big enough for sues, yet im a very good dancer with twerking and making it clap so.. im kind of in between. i dont want to work at a white club, i know i would feel uncomfortable. is there anything out there for someone like me? should i try sin city? i did notice its very diverse there, even girls with less ass than me seemed to be making something. i just feel so shitty and apprehensive now. i dont mind doing little lap dances between stage sets, i just have no idea how to make that happen, and i literally just want to shake my ass, no sitting on laps, no being felt up i see a lot of dancers doing that and i wouldnt do that.

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    Default Re: cant make any money in NJ

    If you don't want to get felt up, good luck at any urban club in ny/nj. Getting felt up is how you make money off the stage. Lap dances at every urban club that I've worked at which is most of them in Ny/jersey have full contact lap dances, meaning you grind on the guy and he can touch your boobs and butt.

    If you didn't like Jersey, I bet you will hate Sin City. Sin is a VERY high hustle club and if you're driving from NJ, it's an expensive place to work. If you aren't aggressive there, you won't make much money. Stage sets can be good if you're there when it's early or a slow night because you'll go on stage a bunch but if you're there on a Friday or Saturday night, you might get called to the stage twice if you're lucky. The majority of your time will need to be spent talking to customers and trying to dance on them for tips. Of all the urban clubs, Sin City is the most horrible one to work at if you aren't aggressive. The girls that make the most money there work in groups of like 8. If you can make money by yourself at Sin, you can work anywhere so in a way, its a good place to start since every other club will be a cake walk in comparison. I would not recommend it for you because its expensive so its easy to leave in the red or close to it since you'll be paying ~120 to walk in, you have to approach people or you'll make no money, the set up for approaching people while they're seated everywhere as oppose to sitting around a bar means you really need to hustle, and the majority of money there is from giving full contact topless lap dances.


    If you want a club that's mainly just stage money, go to Exotics in Elizabeth. You'll go on stage every hour and you'll probably be the only white girl so that's a plus. Nardone's/Angel's in Elizabeth is cool too but I've only been there Fridays and Saturdays. Its the same set up as Exotics with a stage surrounded by a bar. NJ is easy money compared to Ny. I would work in NJ for a bit until you have no problem approaching guys and getting used to them being touchy pervs and then go to ny.

    And idk why there is now a stigma on here that you need a huge ass to work at Sue's. Of all the urban clubs, Sue's has the skinniest, flattest dancers. They were a fat ass club years ago. Now the average house dancer there is 18 and a sexy beanpole.

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    Default Re: cant make any money in NJ

    Quote Originally Posted by LexyNYC View Post
    If you don't want to get felt up, good luck at any urban club in ny/nj. Getting felt up is how you make money off the stage. Lap dances at every urban club that I've worked at which is most of them in Ny/jersey have full contact lap dances, meaning you grind on the guy and he can touch your boobs and butt.

    If you didn't like Jersey, I bet you will hate Sin City. Sin is a VERY high hustle club and if you're driving from NJ, it's an expensive place to work. If you aren't aggressive there, you won't make much money. Stage sets can be good if you're there when it's early or a slow night because you'll go on stage a bunch but if you're there on a Friday or Saturday night, you might get called to the stage twice if you're lucky. The majority of your time will need to be spent talking to customers and trying to dance on them for tips. Of all the urban clubs, Sin City is the most horrible one to work at if you aren't aggressive. The girls that make the most money there work in groups of like 8. If you can make money by yourself at Sin, you can work anywhere so in a way, its a good place to start since every other club will be a cake walk in comparison. I would not recommend it for you because its expensive so its easy to leave in the red or close to it since you'll be paying ~120 to walk in, you have to approach people or you'll make no money, the set up for approaching people while they're seated everywhere as oppose to sitting around a bar means you really need to hustle, and the majority of money there is from giving full contact topless lap dances.


    If you want a club that's mainly just stage money, go to Exotics in Elizabeth. You'll go on stage every hour and you'll probably be the only white girl so that's a plus. Nardone's/Angel's in Elizabeth is cool too but I've only been there Fridays and Saturdays. Its the same set up as Exotics with a stage surrounded by a bar. NJ is easy money compared to Ny. I would work in NJ for a bit until you have no problem approaching guys and getting used to them being touchy pervs and then go to ny.

    And idk why there is now a stigma on here that you need a huge ass to work at Sue's. Of all the urban clubs, Sue's has the skinniest, flattest dancers. They were a fat ass club years ago. Now the average house dancer there is 18 and a sexy beanpole.
    thank you for this info. i didnt know that about sin city. i noticed the girls doing the full contact dances, but i thought maybe it was just those particular dancers who did that. its funny you say exotics, cause thats the exact place ive been working, and now im considering just staying there. i guess ill work on being more aggressive, because i dont mind the way the lap dances are in exotics. pretty much just dancing in front of random people in the crowd like a nightclub lol. im still worried about being the skinniest one there though. but maybe once i finally get my pleasers and some real costumes ill feel more confident

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    Default Re: cant make any money in NJ

    In my opinion,its easier to make money alone in Nj but harder to make rent money in one day type of situations. If you are new dancer its going to take time before you get ur hustle down pact. If u don't like getting felt up on but okay with lap dances, I suggest Players, Hitching Post, Twins and Hi Beams. The first 3 you dont need to know how to dance.

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    Default Re: cant make any money in NJ

    In my opinion,its easier to make money alone in Nj but harder to make rent money in one day type of situations. If you are new dancer its going to take time before you get ur hustle down pact. If u don't like getting felt up on but okay with lap dances, I suggest Players, Hitching Post, Twins and Hi Beams. The first 3 you dont need to know how to dance.

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