Ok so i know this guy, i didn't meet him at the club he was a friend of my caregiver's son and they both have come into the strip club together before. I have definitely given the person in question lap dances. He also has my number and we hooked up a month or so ago, just for fun im not an escort i just liked the guy and thought he was really cute and im single so i figured what the heck. However what I did not realize at the time was that this guy is a total jerk, he apparently had a girlfriend of 6 years that i was unaware of or at least the breakup must have been super super recent because a week or so later i texted him around 3am and she apparently was with him and sent me messages from her phone "why are you texting my boyfriend at 3am". I couldnt believe the guy had a girlfriend he totally lied to me and i was outraged. I sent her some really nice messages saying the guy was a jerk and she deserved better and that i knew the guy because i was looking for party favors for my girlfriend, which is a lie because neither of us do those things but i didnt know what else to say about texting the guy that was obviously cheating on his girlfriend with me so thats what i said. Although he still claims that she is an ex girlfiend and that she is a psycho and wont accept that its over, which i dont believe because the guy seems like a lying jerk.
Well she just sent me the longest most threatening text message ever about how she knows i slept with this guy, and she wants to get me in trouble for doing "sex and drug deals in the place that i work" ... which is total BS on both accounts. She also said i was a dumb and worthless and that i had no brain and i must have daddy issues and i should "go play in traffic" and "it might be fun to ruin my life". I just want to know if i should be worried about this? I have never done anything illegal but i dont know if there are some kind of weird laws that could get me in trouble? It makes me really upset because im just trying to pay my way through school and i never wanted to hook up with anyones boyfriend, obviously the guy was a total douchebag and lied to both of us and this girl was extremely mean to me when im just trying to get my s**t together and be a doctor eventually. Should i reply to her ridiculous and long threatening message? Or should i just block her? If she has a screen shots of our conversation is there any way she could get me in trouble legally because i mentioned party favors? i dont actually do those things i was just lying because the girl caught me off guard when i realized i was the other woman. I have definitely never done anything illegal, ive known this guy for a while from before i was even a dancer. I am just wondering if anyone has any legal advice or if i should be worried about getting in some kind of legal trouble or getting fired somehow? Im nervous because the girl sounds like a seriously disturbed person the way she was speaking to me. And she hurt my feelings, girls can be so mean which is ridiculous because i am one of the nicest people ever and i would never dream of speaking to someone in that manner.
Also i just want to make it clear that i have never hooked up with any customers before. In fact, aside from my ex boyfriend ive only slept with 2 guys in the last 4 years and one of them was this cheating jerk, apparently i picked a real loser. I just wanted to make it clear that i am not even promiscuous this was just a terrible mistake gone awfully awry and im just looking for some peace of mind that there is no way something like this could ever jeopardize me somehow. My girlfriend and I are both a little worried and i am more than a little bit offended.
I greatly appreciate any advice or comments, how should i respond to this situation?



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Drugs definitely make more sense than what I was thinking about!


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