So this goes for every form of sexworker. I'd like to hear about what you consider to be physical characteristics that attract whales. Things you have noticed, and not just a personal bias.
Lets start the list
So this goes for every form of sexworker. I'd like to hear about what you consider to be physical characteristics that attract whales. Things you have noticed, and not just a personal bias.
Lets start the list
Long slender legs. The more slender the better, regardless of muscle tone, bone size ("big boned"), or fat percentage.





lol. Not every "whale" has the same taste in women. I've seen rich men go for all different types of strippers.
"Dancing tables, making deals with devils like a drunk beauty queen"
I know couple of girls who had sugar daddies +plus anywhere they go someone always would pay a bill.
Now you made me think of characteristic and here they are
1) both are 5'9
2)both had gimnastic background
3) big eyes, big natural lips,brown color eyes
4)34 B boobs
I would dare to say they have body of a model.
one of them was a stripper, another one a cammodel.





its not about physical characteristics, because not every whale is the same with some hive mind. its about how you present and conduct yourself
( and most importantly, how you make them feel)
Last edited by simone87; 12-23-2015 at 01:15 PM.
You guys, I am well aware that men prefer different things and it isn't just about physical characteristics. However, this is what the thread is about.





But you made it about just a physical attribute......
There are well known courtesans over the centuries, female power players who married well & richer & richer each time. Physical looks were not the determining factor as much as the emotional connection & how important they made each person feel about themselves.
This isn't about just sex work or physical attraction but about relationships. I suggest the library for such research. Start with Dale Carnegie's book "How to win friemds & Influence people".
Sam
Sam





Just my observation but I've never seen bleached blondes with fake tits starving. Not saying they're the only thing whales like but they are the apex predators of the sex industry for a reason. Other things I've noted is no heavy tattoos, generally small to medium boobs, slender build regardless of ethnicity and long hair. The only unusual hair that I've seen bank is Squeak with the dreadlocks.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





It is a given one has to look like money in order to get guy with money. Nobody wants a fixer upper.
Educated, speak several languages helps, well spoken, good manners, clothes, hair, makeup, jewelry all need to appear expensive. Nor is it about quantity, but about quality. Education is important to many whales, you don't have to have a college degree, but a lust for learning, an on going self education. A self taught education impresses & wins these guys over all the time.
No matter how great you look, if they can't connect with you intellectually, they will not stick around & spend money.
Can you hold your own in a discussion about finance & hedge funds?
Do you know the best little place to eat near by? in any major city, food that will surprise him with how good it is?
Can you discuss his passions on the level he does?
It is important to know the most expensive wines as it is the great ones for under $100 a bottle to, to know the value of each one. Many weathy men are wine lovers, are you?
Most men don't go for the tattoo covered females or multi-colored hair when it comes to spoiling them rotten. I love the creativity of such a look, but most of these guys come from conservative jobs & backgrounds, having a girl that he spoils is his being bad enough for him.
Can you discuss antique car collections with them? Are they into aviation? Art collecting, how many art showings do you go to, museums, do you know if he has loaned out his collection of art to a museum in the area & viewed it yourself?
It can be answered. I am asking what YOU have specifically noticed in YOUR area as to the physical attributes of the girls who make the most money. I am not asking for myself because I do well and have found my area's magical formula already. I am just interested in hearing about other places.
I already know all of what everyone keeps countering me with, I am not asking about that. I am asking for specific physical traits only, for the area in which you live or work.





I've seen whales go for thick latinas with big thighs/asses. I've also seen them go for the blonde bombshell barbie look, skinny black girls with long straight hair, exotic mixed girls, and also the more innocent baby-faced girls. I've seen them go for spinners as well as big fake breasts. I've seen them literally go for every kind of girl imaginable, even the cracked-out exhausted rough-around-the-edges girls. So......I can't really narrow it down for you. The answers to this question are too varied. Most men like variety anyway. They want to experience different types just for the hell of it. But I think it all boils down to charisma - that is the common denominator IME.
"Dancing tables, making deals with devils like a drunk beauty queen"





THERE ISN'T ANY COMMON SPECIFIC TRAIT, by region or not.
You're getting those counter answers because it's the truth. In one club in one city you will see two girls who are physically polar opposites land two different whales. You can't pin a specific trait down.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."



Actually there has been research to determine what physical traits men find attractive in women. Some examples include evenness in your face (like eyes spaced evenly apart not too far or too close together) and eyes nose lips and ears are proportionate. Also waist to hip ratio. And also the sound of your voice. Just to name a few.
But this applies to all men not just the whales.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





Only LA guys want a Perfect 10, but it is a way to keep you insecure & jumping through their hoops for very little money. It is a head game. Then you have the opposite of the LA guys more into spirituality, had one of those, handsome, witty, charming & total sweetheart, no sex. He just got me on a spiritual level.
New York guys love warmth, intelligence, knowledge of banking & world finance aka your bankers & hedge fund managers, but got to be down to earth for them,
Europeans a formal education, knowledge of art, languages, cultures, but a bawdy sense of humor.
South Americans seem to love a good eater.
Texans love a spoiled brat.
In San Francisco, if you can solve a marketing or tech issue they will look at you in awe.
There are many perfect models running around chasing men with money. How do you set yourself apart from them? Brains & a great sense of humor. Cause boring is well Boring. Men don't pay or stick around for boring but beautiful unless they are the predator. Might have been out of that game for a long time, by my choice but my 'friends' still chase me 10, 15, 20 years later. Still adore them & have the fondest memories of our conversations.
Smooches,
Sam





[QUOTE=Sam38g;2833632]Only LA guys want a Perfect 10, but it is a way to keep you insecure & jumping through their hoops for very little money. It is a head game.
I agree with this a million percent.
I lived there for over 30 yrs., so I've had lots of experience with dealing with these types of men.
When I was young and skinny, with big boobs and waist length blonde hair, I was chased by men everywhere I went. Even married 2 wealthy men there. But those men knew their financial power, and withheld it from me. I was young And naive, I didn't know my power.
When I got older and gained weight, I became invisible there. All of my skinny friends Disowned me. Females competing, and hating on each other is out of control in L.A., but that's a whole other discussion.
When I got into camming, I was surprised and delighted that the rest of the world accepted me the way I am That is me and my big booty and thick thighs. Thank God! I I don't live there anymore.
Last edited by Glamourmilf; 12-24-2015 at 12:20 PM.
I think they generally like girls who are fit, seems like most do but yes, some prefer otherwise. Fit not only being skinny which is one look they like but smaller stomach, toned booty and thighs, big boobs are not always a requirement either but seems like its preferred. I agree with them liking education, they generally like to be challenged it seems but not always, this is a broad range of women that they could go for. Blonde, brunet or redhead doesn't seem to matter but they don't seem to like girls with a million tattoos. They like a conversation, no matter how hot you are they will get bored of u eventually if your conversation is boring or you have nothing in common. They can just pay a hooker for sex and no conversation after all





I agree with Sam about everything she said but I would like to add something about West African Whales.
West African whales enjoy women who have a proper education, into learning about their individual culture, healthy eater, a tight butt, and kind-heartedness. Body types are not as important to them. They see beauty in all body types but they do enjoy a tight butt, small waist, and medium to big breasts. However, they do like a happy and well-educated woman that this interested in learning more about West Africa. They are pretty nice, handsome and start arrangements pretty early![]()
I struggle to answer this question because the top girls at my club have nothing in common whatsoever.





not only do they all have different tastes, but physical beauty is a cheap commodity, especially to a "whale"; the world is crawling with pretty girls. there will ALWAYS be somebody prettier, younger, and blonder than you. that's not to say that you shouldn't look your best, but be the best YOU, not some femme bot image with really detailed random physical characteristics that all rich men are supposedly powerless against haha.
even to keep just a good regular, you need "it" ..that spark/connection/charisma/magnetism. you need to make them feel that high when they're with you





I wonder how Malenia got Donald Trump to marry her.![]()
I laugh every time I see someone claim that blondes with big tits are supposedly at some huge advantage in this industry. Must be a regional thing. I've lived in six states in three different regions and have never experienced this. Shrugs. I run laps around these girls (hell, even when I was a newb) because they tend to rely entirely on their breasts - they often have very few sales skills and blah personalities. Just speaking in generalities, obviously.
Anyway. I do maintain that having some feature that helps you stand out will attract more people to you than looking generic - you're simply more visible at a greater distance when you're unique, which increases your odds of finding a big spender who's into your look, and it helps you corner the market. So whether you have big, gorgeous eyes or long, muscular legs, highlight those features.
At the risk of getting ranty, I'll conclude my contribution to this thread by saying that if I *ever* had to work with a toned, perky-breasted, beautiful-faced, long-haired brunette (either tall and thin or petite and energetic) who smiled warmly and playfully on stage, danced well, and had hustle skills, I'd actually feel intimidated. I work in an ocean of blondes and brunettes who seem to think that their chronic bitchfaces, detached gazes, wanna-dance hustles, and drinking abilities are assets.
In my opinion, positive energy, frequent smiling, laughter, and sales skills are what will draw whales to you (unless you're working the ice queen / dominatrix angle, which is simply a different balancing act of energy and personality)...Especially since whales tend to be experienced club-goers who appreciate true entertainment. These guys tend to weed through the fluff pretty quickly. You may be able to sell them a room once based on looks alone, but keeping them around is an art!
Aaaand...I'm done.![]()
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