What to do when a customer wants your real name or asks for your number
what to do when they ask for a free dance
how to politely move on if a customer won't spend more time or take a dance

What to do when a customer wants your real name or asks for your number
what to do when they ask for a free dance
how to politely move on if a customer won't spend more time or take a dance



1. This is the hardest for me because you'll sometimes lose business if you're rude about it but sometimes that's the only way to stop them from asking. I usually try and drag it on as long as I can by asking why do you want to know my name?
2. I got bills to pay hun. Not even my friends get free dances from me.
3. I'm here if you need me ::walk around::

For the first one, have a fake 'real name' (has anyone ever told you that you look like your name would be x? I hear 'Megan' and 'Jessica' a lot) to give out. Tell the customer that you could get in big trouble for giving out your phone number, but offer a work email as a next best suggestion, or if they're really insistent you can sell them your kik screenname? Even if you don't have kik right now, it's super quick and easy to make one.
Edit to add in that I came here to say what LQ said for 2 and 3 (:



1. "I hardly know you! Let's get to know each other here better first!" After that wears off just say you're not that kind of girl. Or get a prepaid burner phone to establish business, but I'm too lazy for that.
2. NO. I don't work for free. Fuck off.
3. "Well, it's been nice talking to you! Let me know if you change your mind or need anything ok? Nice to meet you!" I say this every night. It's fine.




1) Give him a fake "real name". I give guys my middle name whenever they ask me. As for the number, it depends on the guy. If its someone I get a bad vibe from, I will straight up tell him "sorry, I dont give away my number". But if its someone who I feel comfortable with or sense having regular potential, I'll give him my burner phone number that cant be traced.
2) Free dance??!!! Are you kidding me?? LOL! anyone who asks for a free dance is NOT someone you want to have anything to do with. Tell him "nope, I dont give away freebies"
3) Tell him "alright, well I hope you have a good time anyway. I'll be around if you change your mind"



1) Google Voice will give you a fake number that people can call and text. It's easy to change phone numbers if you need to, and isn't connected to your phone. I've also used NextPlus, which is a pretty good app. I only give this number out to guys who buy dances and I see regular potential. I've also given the number to guys who buy dances and seem to want a souvenir to show their friends. Mexicans want that a lot for whatever reason. I NEVER give it to guys who don't spend money on me, and I've said that directly--"Oh sorry, sweetie, I only give my number to guys who do dances with me."
2) Is this happening to you a lot? If so, it might be the club, or it might be the way you're presenting yourself. I attempt to embarrass them, and there are lots of fun ways to do it! Laugh. Tell them to fuck themselves. Tell them you don't go to McDonalds where they work and demand they give you a free Big Mac. Tell them that you're top shelf goods and if they can't afford you, too bad for them. Then walk away. They're not worth your time.
3) "I'm having a lot of fun talking to you, but I've got to make money tonight. I'm off to work the room...that is, unless you'd like to take me away from all this in the VIP room"



Giving a fake phone # is all good to get out of the situation. But what happens when that person approaches you and tells them how they tried to contact you but to the wrong # or that you didn't respond? Seems like an easy way to get on somebodys bad sad. Most guys who come in the club are harmless but remember there are some pyschos out there. If a guy suddenly thinks he has a chance and you give him a phone #. Only for him to find out it's fake that is only going to probably piss some guys off.
1. Fake real name and blame the not giving out the number thing on the club. I always try to blame as much as I can on not wanting to break club rules and lose my job lol. Like gosh, I would LOVE to do this or that but I could get in really big trouble and might even get fired and I really need my job i'm sorry. Try to change the subject quickly too after you say no.
2. They can go to hell and there's no point even trying to be polite or have game with someone so cheap. Fuck' em, Simple as that. On to the next.
3. "Alright well this is so much fun but I guess I've gotta get back out there, gotta make that money! Let me know if you need anything" Be friendly. Smile. Doesn't hurt to try to leave a nice impression in case he does actually change his mind and wanna spend some money lol.





1-Fake real name. If he's spending money, get a burner phone and give him that number. If not, he doesn't matter.
2-Laugh in his face, unless he asks after a hundred paid ones.
3-Politely? Say you have some dances to do. Don't sit with him out of boredom. It'll help other girls, cuz otherwise, guys get used to having attention for free.

Oh my gosh the McDonald's no it was my first day and they knew it from the Dj saying I'm new and tried to take advantage

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if a guy asks me for a free dance, i laugh in their face
i mean it's obviously a joke and if it's not then it's still funny that theyre being serious lmao
I always play off that my dance name is my real name.
for phone numbers, i dont carry my phone with me when im on the floor so i always just have them write down their phone number on a napkin or something. If they ask for my number, i tell them its a new phone and i haven't learned my number yet.
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