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    Default MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    I don't know how to handle this. I have my first tipping regular on the site and hes very needy. It's becoming a problem because he will not only PM me talking about fucking the entire time im online, but will type it in the main room which gets everyone very quiet. I've just started working full time there, and my talkers have been getting silent whenever this guy comes in the room. I try to only type to him in pm, but he gets upset when i dont speak outloud talking back to him sexually. He wants me to keep saying 'i love you baby, i wanna fuck you so bad', & other shit like that in public chat lol. I met him last week on the site and his cumulative tip so far is 1600 tokens. Now hes asking me to be his gf and meet him soon. It's ridiculous. I feel like im only putting up with him cause he's helping my camscore, and when guys see other guys tip on mfc, they like to join in sometimes. Im hoping i'll get more regs, but this guy is so annoying.

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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    He might be tipping you, but he's also most likely losing you tips and the ability to be able to attract more regulars because he's trying to keep you to himself. If he really wants you to talk dirty, it should be in private chat - not in a public show. I always keep a space open at the end of every public show for any reg who wants to take me into private. In a way, he's actually controlling you but it's your show and you need to be in charge. You'll just need to decide if his aggro is worth the money of putting up with. If not, you'll need to put your foot down and set boundaries or block his ass if that doesn't work.

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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    Get rid of him! He's taking advantage, I bet you he only goes on the site to do this to girls, he'll soon move onto his next victim when you block him!

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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    Use the ban hammer. Not worth his measly tokens that basically amount to a decent length private show.
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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    Wait, I'm sorry, he's tipped you a cumulative 1600 tokens--$80 your cut--over a ​week and you're letting him run your room? Girl, no.

    Tough love time: set some fucking boundaries right this second because that is a cheap fucker who's trying to get every last possible bang for his very tiny buck. He's taking advantage of you and you are letting him. If a man wanted to control my room like that, he'd be in private paying the 80 tokens per minute it would require on MFC. There is literally no amount of free chat tokens you could tip me to let someone walk all over me like this dude is doing to you. It's disrespectful as shit and not worth it because, as you're already realizing, it drives other customers away to allow one dude to treat you that poorly and dominate a room. I wouldn't let a 1600 token per hour customer behave like that. I wouldn't even let a 16000 token per hour customer do that shit. Yeah, it's good money now, but it makes you look like a doormat.

    Next time he behaves like that, tell him to chill the fuck out, respect that you're in a public chat, and not make such requests of you unless he's in true private. If he goes off (which he probably will), hit him with a temp ban. If he keeps doing it, make it permanent. And make sure the room sees you do it--politely, gracefully, but firmly--because that will bolster the respect other dudes have for your control of your room. Bonus points if you make his bitch out funny by saying something along the lines of 'you know Mr.X, you're not the only customer in the room.' Sass always helps.
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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    ^^ she's right. I've not been on MFC long, but I wouldn't let that happen. And the "free sex talk" he wants in guest chat? I avoid that all together. I've had guys tip to show me their cam in guest chat and then expect sex talk like it's a private. NO NO NO. That tip just pays for me to watch you. Not act like it's a private. Ban or remove him from PM. I see a lot of girls only PM-add friend for a limited time because of just that. Either way, It shouldn't be abused. If you're uncomfortable, do something. It's your room and your job. A generous guy who really likes you, would respect your policy.

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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    LOL, He is needy, so are you... You need more and more tokens from him whenever online. Private bb the fuck out of him for naughty chat time.

    $80 over a week, it should be that for each hour he is online with you.

    Typing away in the room also can run off other tippers. On a token site & I have a general conversation to keep the mood fun & light, if a guy wants to chat naughty then I tell him "private bb" or my goal for the room is 5000 tkns before I get naked & talk dirty. If a guy insist on changing the subject & kill the flow, I insist on private or I tell him to get with the conversation, otherwise I will have to block him.

    Your room, your rules.

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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    Dirty sex talk = private. Tell him to take you there if he wants your undivided attention. Free chat is for small talk or whatever YOU decide, not him. I'd give him a warning, tell him he needs to go pvt for personal attention and if he doesn't change his behavior, it will lead to a ban.

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    Default Re: MFC girls, can i get some advice?

    Some of the MFC members do this. They clearly have more than enough tokens to take you private, yet they insist on staying in public chat and having you do such and such in public chat. I wonder if he is trying to show off in front of other members (showing off that he's got tokens and can get you to do stuff).

    Don't do anything you don't feel like doing. Especially since he may very well be recording you. I agree with the other ladies that he should be taking you private (or true private) for what he's asking of you.
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