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    Default Recieving gifts and stripping attitude

    I don't know about the other veteran ladies on this board, but for me, getting gifts at Christmas has become basically meaningless due to my stripping career. I mean, I know people mean well, but I now internalize any gift as having an implied contract with the gift giver after having danced for so long. My regs have always been great about bringing gifts on birthdays and holidays, but I KNOW they are expecting me to behave in a certain way, lavish them with affection and basically give up my time for free in exchange for another box of candy or bottle of wine.

    This has colored my view of gift giving over the holidays. This year, my husband bought me nothing. Instead he got up early today, cleaned the kitchen and bathroom, did laundry and walked the dog so that I can relax and surf the web. This is way better than any gift he could have purchased for me.

    We are spending all of our recreational income on paying off student loan debt. So the lack of Christmas presents is not a surprise at all. In fact, I would have been pissed if he bought me the usual holiday gift of jewelry or electronics as he has in years past.

    Are you still excited about getting gifts or has your strip club attitude of "just pay me, instead" seeped into your personal life?

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    Default Re: Recieving gifts and stripping attitude

    I don't mind getting gifts cause if I don't like it or it's not quite what I wanted I can sell it or respectfully regift it. If I like it then I'm definitely happy but I'm also happy to give or sell to someone who will want a gift I didn't want or need.

    But yes I do think Americans most of the time may be wasting money on depreciating "gifts" that have no lasting value
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Default Re: Recieving gifts and stripping attitude

    While I don't mind the gifts, I totally agree with you. I'm not big on gift receiving anyhow. It embarrasses me and I turn into a babbling idiot. Luckily, the customers that get me gifts don't expect anything extra (besides the guy that sent the I love you text, but that's a whole different issue). At least they should know they aren't going to get anything extra from me. While they all know I prefer monetary gifts, they actually get me gifts that are personal and show a lot of thought. My jewlery guy gets stuff with good resale value in case there is ever a day I run into a tough time. Gift certificates are always nice for a day to myself or to spoil my kids.

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    Default Re: Recieving gifts and stripping attitude

    from my regs, i most definitely agree with "just pay me/give me money pls", like 100% of the time.
    however, with family/bf i love getting little gifts that show they care or have actually put thought into it, and i enjoy doing the same. its not about actually getting expensive things or anything materialistic ( i can buy whatever i need myself), something as little as a dollar store coloring velvet board i used to love so much as a kid brings me a lot of joy. my sister gave me an oil painting she did herself and i loved it! its definitely a big part of xmas for me, but like i said its not about being greedy and getting pricey gadgets.
    everyone has a distinct way of how they feel loved ..for some its physical touch, for others its spending quality time with them, and for others its gift giving, so that also factors into it.

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    Default Re: Recieving gifts and stripping attitude

    No gifts for me, thank you very much! I pay my bills with money not flowers, shoes or jewelry. If I want something I go get it myself, with the MONEY I've gotten at the club. I do get "gifts" for my birthday and Christmas though, in form of envelopes with extra money from my regulars. They know me well enough not to try anything else. Teach them from start and they'll obey.

    EDIT: didn't read your whole comment, I thought we were talking about gifts from customers... In your case I wouldn't have wanted a gift either in my case I would've filed for divorce had I not gotten what was on my Christmas list. Very sweet of him to walk the dog etc so you could enjoy your morning in peace.

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