UPDATE***
we FaceTime and he finally said that the whole long distance isn't going to work out. And that he doesn't know what to expect from it. He deactivated his okcupid and match profile and then asked me to check on it to see if it's deactivated. He said I'm too good to be true and that he has had bad experiences with online dating. He asked how many guys am I talking on the site..5,10,15? He also asked if I have any STD. Since his friend was talking about how she got it.
He said he still likes me but is just being cautious since he's been cat fished before. He still says I can fly over and meet him whenever I want. He asked me if he's a sugar daddy to me since I asked him for flight tickets to see him. Also, he thinks I'm only talking to him for flight tickets!
I don't understand why he's doing this!
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I feel like I'm good for nothing. College isn't for me but I still attend to obtain the degree to prove to my parents.
I've been talking to this Korean corporate litigation attorney for 4 days. We exchanged phone numbers on okcupid. Everything is amazing about him...but he lives on the west coast. (I'm from the east coast.) He wants us to meet. Either he pays for my flight or he flys out to me. He's a 34 year old VIRGIN. He's done other stuff but not sex. He's saving himself for marriage.
He's already talking about me moving in with him. He doesn't mind my expensive taste. He also doesn't mind if I'm working or not. I wouldn't dare tell him I danced! He gets a hardon from face timing me. We call/text each other every day.
I feel like he's a bit possessive. I told him about a California photographer that is trying to fly me out to shoot. I told him I was on the phone with him. He asked why am I talking to him. And if I talk to a lot of guys on okcupid.
He likes that I send him selfies of me (fully clothed). I NEVER mentioned to him what I do for a living.
He tried looking up flight tickets but as of the holidays. It's a bit pricy so he asked me to wait. I'm not sure if him and I would work out. He's my dream guy. Someone that makes 6 figures a year. That way I can quit dancing. But I'm not sure what I want to do.
I'm an Aries and he's a Gemini and the horoscopes says we are very compatible. Not sure if I should believe in that. But it seems like we are. We are both very hyper and energetic individuals.
He says he only goes on his profile to talk to me but I see him regularly online. He told me he's very attracted to me. Like we have a connection and that we are compatible.
I just got off the phone with a close guy friend of mine. He told me the negatives & positives sides of me. The negatives are 1.) I'm a dumb girl. I don't engage in intellectual conversations. 2.) college is NOT for me. 3.) I'm insecure with the guys I talk to. 3.) I have daddy issues.
Positive sides 1.) I'm big on family. 2.) I'm arrogant to people but when I form a friendship with them. I have a big heart.
I know I shouldn't care what peoples say or think about me. But I need to work on myself!



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