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    Hello!!
    I've been a phone sex operator for about a week now and while some calls go okay some are just horrible! This career is very important to me because it is the perfect job for the lifestyle I desire, so I am really taking this seriously and wanting to do my best. So if you have experience in phone sex and are willing to help me please read on!!

    Many of my calls are just the man wanting to take control of the call so I tend to do okay, I just moan along with him when I feel it is appropriate. But I have some men call in with absolutely no personality or conversation...I know as the pso it is my job to carry the call but jeez give me something!!! Here is how a horrible call of mine went today:

    Me: so you liked my picture blah blah blah ...
    him: yes...
    me: so whats going on how do you look ..I am sitting here in a thong and bra very horny blah bah blah so what are you into?
    him: nothing just sitting here, horny..
    me: ooooh ok so am I blah blah blah
    him: I like when a woman takes control
    me: oooooh yes I love to take control if you were here right now I would take off my top and my panties and....he hangs up.

    I am aware this was a horrible call on my behalf but I am very new and I have no clue what to say when guys just call in and literally hold the phone! Maybe I should start the call a bit different...I ask their name, what made them call did they like my picture how big is their cock...is this the wrong way to begin a call?? Experienced pso..how do you begin your calls? What would you say to a caller who seems very shy or nervous and obviously wants you to take control of the call... do you begin to tell him what you'd like to do to him and just let him listen or do you try to engage him to speak more ? One of the characters I play is suppose to be very dominant and says she takes complete control over cocks and doesn't have patience and men will do what she ask....How would I go about doing a call where I am the dominant one...what are some of the things you say ?

    ANY advice helps !! rather you do submissive calls or dominant calls please just tell me how you start a call and some of the things you say and how you can tell what a man wants in the call. THNK YOU TONS!!

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    Default Re: Phone sex operators....HELP!!!!!

    Unfortunately, no one can tell you what to say. Each call is so very different; what might work on one customer or type of call will not work on another. I can understand you being lost after only one week. It does get easier the longer you do it, but remember, not everyone is suited for this type of work. You have to have a lot of imagination and be a good conversationalist. Some guys will actually just call and talk to you a while about nothing sexual at all. They like to get to know you a little before getting into sex talk. Others want to immediately jump right in and be done in three minutes. You have to listen for clues as to what they are wanting.

    As you found out, you will definitely get guys that give you NO CLUE as to what they are calling for. Remember which character of yours they called because that's a big clue right there. Ask them a few questions, but don't play 20 questions with them. After a few opening pleasantries, I usually will ask them what they're in the mood for. If I don't get much of a response, I give them some ideas. I tell them how great I am at sucking cock... how much I love getting my tight little pussy/ass fucked, etc. (Again, gear the questions towards the kind of character you're playing.) I then ask them if they'd like to start off with something like that. Hopefully somewhere in there he will give you a clue. Most men are not going to control the call. That's your job. If you get one that loves to do a lot of the talking... you're very lucky. If this job was meant for you, you will learn to pick up hints and run with the call. There will always be customers who hang up after a minute. It's so very important to try and connect with them in some way within that first minute or two or you will end up with a lot of hang-ups.

    So many people get into this business because they think it will be easy work. Some think all they have to do is say they're playing with their pussy... moan a lot... and they'll be able to get the guys off. SO NOT TRUE! It's not easy work at all and some calls/callers will totally wear you out. It's not all fun and games. I bet most new girls don't last more than a couple of weeks. It's definitely not like I thought it would be, but luckily I stuck it out and have been doing this as my sole source of income for the last 16 years.

    I am wondering why you have a dominant character if you have no idea what a dominant character would do or say? Did your company assign you one? Not everyone can pull off being dominant. I suggest you Google other phone sex sites and blogs where they feature dominant girls. That should give you somewhat of a clue as to the types of calls they do and what they do with them. There are also some books on Amazon that may help you with domination fetishes.

    Good luck and hang in there!

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    Thank you so much for the reply! You are so right, I must admit I thought this job would be very cute and easy and it is not. One of my characters is a young latino girl and the role playing request for the slutty little cousin and school girl leaves me drained. And yes the company I worked for assigned me three characters who are all very different and I have to just wing it. They offer no training or advice on the calls you take. But I am not complaining. I am happy to work for a legit PSO company that hired me with no experience. I've worked 'normal" jobs for years and they left me so unsatisfied and simply bored. I love working from home and not getting written up for coming back from lunch 2 minutes late or calling off when there is an ice storm. When I was hired the owner told me many women quit after the first two weeks because they are still new and have many hang ups so they receive first check and quit. I've had a couple of days where I've only made literally a few bucks bc of all the hang ups or short "make me cum!!" calls. But I still feel it will get better and I cant go back to a depressing job where my pay is capped and I have to live in one place.

    I've been reading stories on literotica.com and it helps a ton with learning good verbiage to handle my dom calls now. It is difficult because I have a sweet high pitched voice so being a dom I have to really change the way I speak. Your advice to simply ask what they are in the mood for is great, I've written it down and will use it on my shift tomorrow. I think sometimes it is just my nerves that get in the way of a good call.

    Like you stated no two calls are alike. I've had some calls where I've actually gotten hung up on because I jumped into sex too quickly and others hang up because I try to converse with them before sex
    I feel so confused sometimes.

    You've done this for 16 years? You deserve a drink. I know a woman that has done this for 7 years and she makes really good money, it keeps me motivated when I am tempted to begin to look for another job.

    Thanks again for your reply, wish me luck on my next shift

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