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    Thumbs up My First Night!!!!!!!!!

    Soo last night was my first night and besides my feet screaming at me it was pretty awesome!! When I first got there I was one of the first girls so I had plenty of time to make sure my hair was perfect and everything. When some guys came exactly at opening we were called upstairs and its like something clicked. I immediately was comfortable and I started making hella money.

    By the middle of the night i was kind of irritated and tired . Some guy riped me off my second dance cause i wouldnt kiss him on the lips. Something told me to get all the money upfront and I've read it on here a billion times but I totally forgot because I was already beginning the next song after he asked to continue. When he acted as if he didnt have the moneg I politely said dont get a dance if you cant pay. By the time we walked out he had ran off somewhere instead of going to the atm.

    The only other thing i didnt like was how some guys acted during my dances...physically.... Like i actualy got kissed in between my boobs and licked!!! I moved away very quickly finished their dances and left. I was so disgusted but l I didnt make much of a big deal about it there.

    One guy asked for my number and a couple guys asked me out. I think I'm a very beautiful girl and I'm dancing on a horny guy so I sorta expect some things like that but it was my first night so I didnt know how to respond to the kissing n licking crap other than to just move away a little bit and comtinue dancing.

    The other girls are so nice. One girl constantly told everyone I was new which kind of turned me off from her but by the end of the night she seemed cool and was giving me advice about everything.

    I only work on the weekends but after seeing how much I made in a NIGHT compared to a two week check from my other job....man I might just get up and go back tonight! Lol The customers loved me,despite some nos,I got many more yess.

    Now I just gotta find out how to convince guys to do VIP! Lol

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    Default Re: My First Night!!!!!!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Shanelll View Post
    The only other thing i didnt like was how some guys acted during my dances...physically.... Like i actualy got kissed in between my boobs and licked!!! I moved away very quickly finished their dances and left. I was so disgusted but l I didnt make much of a big deal about it there.

    One guy asked for my number and a couple guys asked me out. I think I'm a very beautiful girl and I'm dancing on a horny guy so I sorta expect some things like that but it was my first night so I didnt know how to respond to the kissing n licking crap other than to just move away a little bit and comtinue dancing.
    You have to learn how to dance defensively, meaning not putting yourself in positions where customers are able to kiss or lick. Some ideas include using your hands to play with your breasts while they're near a customer's face, or straight up just not putting them close enough for kissing or licking. You'll likely encounter customers down the line who will try to touch your pussy, and defensive dancing will be useful there too in keeping yourself position so their hands are never within reach.

    How you react to the customer depends on your personal style and the customer in question. Some ladies like to be blunt about it and just tell them to stop. Others are a bit more coy and will move away and make a cute remark about not wanting to get in trouble or bouncers watching. Some simply move away and dance defensively, hoping that the customer will get the hint. You'll figure out what works best for you, but know that you don't have to treat each customer equally. You can be blunt and push away an aggressive customer while being more demure with another who is much more tentative with his attempts.

    Above all, you have to just know and assert your boundaries or else customers will continue to try and push them. Figure out what you're comfortable with (within the club's rules and your local bylaws) and where your line is, and then stick with it. It can be a slippery slope if you let it slide with one customer, and, really, they'll always push for more anyway.

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