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    Do you gals fib about the state you're in? I do because the first studio I worked for said I needed to for safety issues. I just continued with my fib when I started on SM 2 years ago.

    I am honestly not concerned about safety and want to just start saying where I am. I always talk about the area that I'm actually in which makes me think the customers know where I am anyway.

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    I don't tell these guys an exact state I'm in at all. If men want to be that pushy on where you are located then I don't think they are worth the hassle anyways. Plus, men that are so pushy on finding out exactly where you live aren't the kind of clients you really want in the first place. If I get guys asking me where I live I say something vague such as I'm on the east coast, or I'm from the south east, which is also broad enough that it will still be difficult to pinpoint you to one place.

    Also, I think you should care about what these men know about you. You don't want them knowing exactly where you are or you're asking for trouble. Say you're on the east coast and live in Florida for example, instead of just talking about certain things you discuss about where you're located, come up with a location that your cam persona is from and learn about that place so you can discuss this place that she is from. Instead of talking about the football teams in Miami, talk about the teams in NY for example. Come up with some place in NY you would like to visit but haven't, and talk about that. I think you get my point by now. By doing this you are keeping your location secret and also keeping a different cam persona from your actual self which does help keep your sanity in this industry

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    They know I'm in Texas but I don't give them any more than that.
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    I'm from the internet.





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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    I'm from the internet.
    Ha. Yes, I've heard you say that. It cracks me up!


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    - Oh, allright, true, I am not Japanese/American/Canadian. Will you keep a secret? I'm actually the outer space ailen with artificial human body designed to study human male sexuality mechanism. Will you help my research?

    Works in more than half cases.

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    Antarctic research station. You trying to say I don't look like a horny climatologist?????

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    I'm from the internet.
    I steal this sometimes. ^^

    I also tell them I live in Vixen Land a lot, or some variation of that. Bonus points if you're using a variant of your model name + Land.


    Sometimes I tell them I live 'in the US.' 'Where bb?' 'Just the US.'


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    By the way, why they ask the location? Like, does it make them explode faster?

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    I am always pleasantly greeted as a homie by brit natives on the site, so that's my #sneakybitch location hiding move. Fake an accent.

    Well, mainly I do it so no one who knows me IRL will connect the dots, I'm not that concerned about safety either.
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    it depends on the site CB lets u put anything down u want so i have it set to Gallifrey it was set Azeroth but i stopped playing WoW (just recently started playing again about a week ago)and was getting all of them then they would just leave when i told them i dont play anymore or tried to get them to pay for my time so i could again (i wasnt playing enuf to justify the 15$ a month but if i found someone who was willing to give me a blizzard allowance every month and pay for my time...)

    on sm i just tell them im from their wet dreams and fantasies and here to fulfil them for them . it usually makes them leave which is what i want since IMO most of the ppl who ask that are dating site traffic and annoying so i after i found out it makes them 9/10 i keep using it lol . on cb its different it more social-campfire ish so i use it to my advantage and bring in the nerds with my tee turtle shirts and dr who location =^y^=
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    I get asked multiple times a day where I'm from and I lie about it. I picked a state that's about two or three states away from me, and it is in a different time zone. I kinda wish I picked another state closer to me with the same time zone. Any time I tell someone what time I'll be on, I always have to subtract an hour. Plus I get guys who start talking about the football team that's in my cam state and I have no clue about them! I actually have no idea about any football team..

    But I like saying I'm in a different state than I actually am. I had done some research on the state that I say I'm from and have learned a lot about it. When I discuss my cam state to customers, I feel like I've actually been there because of the things I've learned.

    When customers want details, I just tell them I live in my cam state and to leave it at that. They usually "lol" and move on.

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    I say I'm from Boston, very close to Newyok. "Hahwahya?'
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    Make it up!!!! Some of these guys actually think if they showed up on your doorstep that you'd be soooo happy because you're soooooo horny that you just can't control yourself. Oh, and they brought their 10 friends with them and they want to group fuck you ( ie gang rape), no problem- you're obviously down for that too.
    I tell them I'm on the other side of the country from where I actually am. But you have to be careful with your radio and your room and things you say. Also with clocks and when they ask what time it is. Then there's the weather. If there's a thunderstorm outside I will not cam. Because you damn sure know it's not like that in the whole country. Eventually enough storms and they can track you down to an area.
    I think it's sad that there are guys out there who are just delusional about the whole thing. It's a job. Nothing more.

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    In my experience the guys that ask where I'm from are never in it to spend lots of money on me. They are too concerned with "getting to know me" and the possibility of meeting and dating. That's just not my hustle...so if they ask I just tell them I'm from the US. If they keep prying I simply say that I don't give out personal information...and yes, my location, even just a state is personal. I'm not worried about being stalked or found out, I just have no interest in these types of guys. Time wasters.

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    lol I tell people that I'm in Northern Ohio. Hell, I could name the city I live in, and most of them wouldn't be able to find me. I do have location tracking turned off on Twitter though. The reality of some rando off the Internet finding me is kinda slim anyways. I present very differently IRL than I do on cam.

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    I used to say the same state I actually live in and just say I lived in a small middle of nowhere town a couple hours away from the city I actually live in. Now I just say I live on the same planet that my favorite Marvel character is from but I have a backup "real" cam state (just like my backup "real" name lol) in case I'm feeling friendly. I have a pretty thick accent so it's easy to just say I'm from the southern USA and move on. I also make sure not to talk about any big events (like concerts and stuff) or about bad weather when they happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SoloDesire View Post
    In my experience the guys that ask where I'm from are never in it to spend lots of money on me. They are too concerned with "getting to know me" and the possibility of meeting and dating. That's just not my hustle...so if they ask I just tell them I'm from the US. If they keep prying I simply say that I don't give out personal information...and yes, my location, even just a state is personal. I'm not worried about being stalked or found out, I just have no interest in these types of guys. Time wasters.
    100% agreed. I'll tell people my time zone (easier to schedule shows that way) but that's as specific as I get. If they push me I'll either start naming random places or tell them I live in their computer, or in an underground bunker, or on camgirl island. May have said something about a moon colony at some point too.


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    I just change my location every day to somewhere new. Just do a quick google on the location you want so you have some of the basic facts. I mostly concentrate on Canadian cities since the time zone is appropriate to what is happening outside my window.
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    I tell them I live in Florida, but that's as specific as I get. Florida is such a huge state and if they ask what part I tell them "The beachy part"


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    I tell them I'm on the West Coast, and anything else is cuntfidential information.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BadBitch View Post
    I am honestly not concerned about safety and want to just start saying where I am.
    I don't think you literally mean you're not concerned about safety... that would be pretty naive. All it takes is one obsessive crazy stalker guy to potentially ruin your life. Be careful, not careless. If you're in a big metropolitan city with tons of people, I don't see a huge problem talking about it in a general sense. I would heed caution in smaller towns. Just don't be stupid and use apps like Foursquare or other super specific GPS/location tags when you post on social media.

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    I tell everyone I live "on the internet, just like all the other hot girls"... anyone who bothers me beyond that gets a ban. I mean, they REALLY don't need to know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyAdams View Post
    I tell them I live in Florida, but that's as specific as I get. Florida is such a huge state and if they ask what part I tell them "The beachy part"
    So when are we gonna hang out?





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    Quote Originally Posted by KittyCurious View Post
    By the way, why they ask the location? Like, does it make them explode faster?
    To possibly meetup is my opinion. I ask where they are as part of my small-talk. I actually have cut back on asking that question.


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