Okay, I know in theory this sounds shitty, but have any of you ever kept escorting a secret from a boyfriend or man you are dating?
I have been dating a guy for 4 months now, and we see each other fairly regularly. He knows about my day job in sales, but he doesn't know about my escorting. He knows I have a dancing past as well and it didn't seem to bother him, but I'm fairly certain escorting would bother him. I'm low-med volume and I have another job, so its not like I will get caught.
My logic in hiding this is that we haven't been dating long, he could out me to mutual friends, and I don't want to quit something lucrative for someone who may not be serious about me. I live in a big city where dating is treated very casually.
I don't want to hide this, but I also see no reason to tell him since we haven't been together that long, and also escorting is illegal in theory so it can put me at risk if things go south with us.
I have absolutely no issue quitting escorting for good if we indeed become a serious couple.
How do I ethically approach this issue? Should I just keep it a secret forever and eventually quit when I feel like we have been together awhile? I don't want to tell every guy I date for 4 months that I'm an escort when I don't even tell a lot of the people close to me.
Has anyone been in this position before?








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