I usually have decent experiences ITC in terms of being approached, but the reason I'm asking is that I recently had an OTC experience that rubbed me the wrong way. An escort who caters only to, "upscale" men was using dating sites to meet them. She found my profile and sent me a message, not telling me she was an escort, but acting as if she was a local single girl interested in getting to know me. I took her on a date, and afterward she told me what the real deal was, and explained what was on the menu.
The whole thing left a bad taste in my mouth because she wasn't upfront with me about what was going on, but of course we don't have those issues ITC, because it's obvious that if a guy is ITC, he's there as a customer and expects to get approached by girls looking to sell dances, etc. But this whole incident got me to wondering why this escort selected me to try and prime to be her customer. I imagine she was looking for guys who seemed like they might have money, based on their job or whatever, but there had to be other factors as well. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is whether I should feel like I have a big "sucker" tattoo on my forehead, or if there are certain things that might have suggested to her that I'd be willing to be a paying customer.
Again, just to clarify, my beef with this girl was that I feel like she tried to trick me and wasn't honest with me upfront about what was going on. I have no issues when girls ITC approach and try to sell me dances or whatever, and in fact I expect it and welcome it, because ITC it's obvious that I'm there as a customer and the girls are there trying to make money.



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