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    Default Need help with vanilla job question, from camming to normal work again

    Hi everyone

    ive been a cam girl on mfc for 3 years now and its been my only job as i do it fulltime, ide like to go out and get a vanilla part time job just because I want a bit more human interaction in real life rather then on the internet and I want something up to date on my resume for when camming fails on me one day. (Im still keeping my camming on mfc fulltime I just want a part time vanilla job on the side)


    Im abit worried though, Im scared when I go for interviews for a vanilla job im going to be asked by the interviewer "what have you been doing for work the last 3 years?" (because 3 years ago was the last thing on my resume) and I dont have an answer for it, since im not outright gunna say "camgirl" and I dont want to say "modelling" or freelance anything either because ive had past situations before (like getting an apartment for e/g I said for my job "I was a freelance model/makeup artist and the lanlord wanted to see some of my makeup and modelling work like pics and a website to prove I wasnt lying even though I showed all my necesary money info)


    so overall

    -what do I say in a situation where I want a vanilla job and am asked "what have you been doing the last 3 years?"

    I cant just say "oh making internet smut" hahaha

    any help would be greatly appreciated!!!

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    Default Re: Need help with vanilla job question, from camming to normal work again

    I had a five year gap in my employment when I started to go back to work. So when I was asked this question, I would just say I took time off to travel around and my other go to was I was in school.

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    Default Re: Need help with vanilla job question, from camming to normal work again

    I tell people I was pursuing other interests (volunteering, traveling, etc.) while living off my savings before I settled back into a career again. You can also say that you've been caring for a sick relative, helping with child care for a family member, etc. Things that are legitimate but non-verifiable.


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    Going to get a job for human interaction is honestly a bad idea.

    You can find human interaction by being connected to meetup groups and other social activities.

    You already cam full-time and chances are you are making more money at home then you would if you went out and found a job.

    Search websites that cater to social events girlfriendscircle or meetup.com, and other hobby classes.
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    Default Re: Need help with vanilla job question, from camming to normal work again

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    Quote Originally Posted by JackAlexander View Post
    "If no one is complaining about the price, the price is too low."
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    I just got a job last month for human interaction and i think it's great, it definitely wasn't a bad idea for me.
    I work 1-2 days a week and love the people I work with.
    I get a little money, get to talk to people, etc plus it helps me gain my perspective on money again after the fast money of camming. I make $8 plus like $5 dollars an hour in tips compared to the $40+/hour on cam so it makes me think more about spending money and be thankful for camming.
    it doesnt really decrease cam time/earnings for me either... I have no problem working a few hours on cam after a shift....if anything it motivates me because Im like "awesome I just made in 45 minutes what it took me 6 hours to make earlier.."


    As for the interview just say you were traveling/in school/ have a home business whatever

    I have a small side business selling amazon so that's what I told the interviewer was my main thing... she was really interested in how it works and wanted to talk about it for 20 minutes, so be sure you have details about your "cover" if you are making something up....if I didn't know anything about online selling when she asked I would have looked pretty dumb :p Plus the first day the district manager of the chain I work in came in for a visit and wanted to talk about my home business
    I also work with my MIL sometimes at her cleaning biz so you can say you're and independent house cleaner.


    When I went into the interview I straight up told the interviewer I didn't really need a job and was just looking for something to get out of the house because I miss socializing with people and have plenty of time. I think she may have been looking for someone more full time but I went into the interview with a good attitude, dressed well, looked her in the eye, shook her hand blah blah and was offered the job on the spot... the first week I worked i got 25 hours and had to tell them to give me less which they were fine with.
    Just go in with a good attitude and good interview skills, be confident in your answers and you'll be good.
    Honestly if I didnt have camming and was desperate for a job I think I would have not been as laid back and friendly, probably would have been pushy, deperate, nervous and not been hired.
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    On a side note, something Ive been thinking about doing actually.... If you have a newer car you could sign up to be an uber/lyft driver. I have a friend who does it part time and makes more money than he does at his office job.
    I would have to get a newer car to do it and am fine with my older, paid off car which is the only reason I dont do it now.
    But as far as jobs for human interaction it is a service oriented job where you can talk to people your driving.

    From my research its safe and there are women drivers who do it and feel perfectly safe.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Missbeth View Post
    I just got a job last month for human interaction and i think it's great, it definitely wasn't a bad idea for me.
    I work 1-2 days a week and love the people I work with.
    I get a little money, get to talk to people, etc plus it helps me gain my perspective on money again after the fast money of camming. I make $8 plus like $5 dollars an hour in tips compared to the $40+/hour on cam so it makes me think more about spending money and be thankful for camming.
    it doesnt really decrease cam time/earnings for me either... I have no problem working a few hours on cam after a shift....if anything it motivates me because Im like "awesome I just made in 45 minutes what it took me 6 hours to make earlier.."


    As for the interview just say you were traveling/in school/ have a home business whatever

    I have a small side business selling amazon so that's what I told the interviewer was my main thing... she was really interested in how it works and wanted to talk about it for 20 minutes, so be sure you have details about your "cover" if you are making something up....if I didn't know anything about online selling when she asked I would have looked pretty dumb :p Plus the first day the district manager of the chain I work in came in for a visit and wanted to talk about my home business
    I also work with my MIL sometimes at her cleaning biz so you can say you're and independent house cleaner.


    When I went into the interview I straight up told the interviewer I didn't really need a job and was just looking for something to get out of the house because I miss socializing with people and have plenty of time. I think she may have been looking for someone more full time but I went into the interview with a good attitude, dressed well, looked her in the eye, shook her hand blah blah and was offered the job on the spot... the first week I worked i got 25 hours and had to tell them to give me less which they were fine with.
    Just go in with a good attitude and good interview skills, be confident in your answers and you'll be good.
    Honestly if I didnt have camming and was desperate for a job I think I would have not been as laid back and friendly, probably would have been pushy, deperate, nervous and not been hired.
    That is what i do. I drive for uber/lyft around 10-15 hours a week only average about $12 an hour but it gives me human interaction so i dont go to crazy. if anyone does want to sign up let me know ill give my referral code and we each get a little bonus
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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    Going to get a job for human interaction is honestly a bad idea.

    You can find human interaction by being connected to meetup groups and other social activities.

    You already cam full-time and chances are you are making more money at home then you would if you went out and found a job.

    Search websites that cater to social events girlfriendscircle or meetup.com, and other hobby classes.
    ^YES. There are other things you can do for human interaction. You just have to know where to look. Start with Facebook (pretty much everything has its own FB page nowadays) pages and groups for local people who have a common interest...your local library's upcoming events...your local newspaper...if you're into crafting, take one of those classes they offer at your local JoAnn's store. Arrange a night out for you and your friend(s) once a week or something. I go to karaoke on Tuesday nights because I LOVE to sing.

    I'm not trying to discourage you from getting a job outside the home if that's what you want to do. But once you accept a job outside the home, you have to deal with that employer's silly-ass rules, dress code, etc. The good thing is that if it ends up not working out for you, you could always quit and do one of the above recommended things for human interaction. That would be awesome if you could find a job you enjoy that will allow you to report to work just once or twice a week for a few hours. That way, you're guaranteed human interaction once or twice a week, and you'll be able to get a little tax refund next year. You just wanna make sure you're not always exhausted from your IRL job that you neglect camming, and then you wanna make sure that you're not so exhausted from camming that you end up taking off from work (your IRL job). I hope you can find a good balance, the pleasant human interaction that you're looking for, and that you enjoy your job. Good luck!
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    its to have something up to date on my resume and i just want a job really.

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    I think it's fabulous we have the luxury of being in a position like this, we are lucky, very lucky I've just taken up volunteering for the same reason (don't think I could bring myself to work for so little £ now) and it's done me the world of good. Find something you love, and enjoy it. I always used to say I do sales & admin from home for small businesses x
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