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    OMG, you are too nice; and a little crazy. He could have raped or murdered and/or robbed you!! I am getting the inclination that he is a good and harmless person but you really just met some vagabond in the the street and invited him up to your hotel!!! Yes, get his ass out. Tell him that the hotel is going to charge you or that your friend is coming in early or whatever and then tell the hotel to switch your room. I know you feel empathy for him but he is a grown man. not a child or injured animal. He will be ok out there. You don't owe someone all of that because they gave you directions.
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    Just be careful...seriously..you are very trusting!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    OMG, you are too nice; and a little crazy. He could have raped or murdered and/or robbed you!! I am getting the inclination that he is a good and harmless person but you really just met some vagabond in the the street and invited him up to your hotel!!! Yes, get his ass out. Tell him that the hotel is going to charge you or that your friend is coming in early or whatever and then tell the hotel to switch your room. I know you feel empathy for him but he is a grown man. not a child or injured animal. He will be ok out there. You don't owe someone all of that because they gave you directions.
    Lol he actually ended up knowing a mutual friend who said he's cool, probably should have mentioned that. Still not a great idea I know, he's homeless because his house burned down its actually kind of sad. But I still want him out

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    I told him they said there's a $250 guest fee

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    Quote Originally Posted by somechick99 View Post
    Lol he actually ended up knowing a mutual friend who said he's cool, probably should have mentioned that. Still not a great idea I know, he's homeless because his house burned down its actually kind of sad. But I still want him out
    Then the Red Cross should be putting him up while his insurance rebuilds the home. This doesn't explain why he was disheveled, if he owned a home he likely has a job. Did he tell you this story?? I am sure he is cool, but it's your room. I think you should say the friend is coming in ahead of schedule.
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    Then the Red Cross should be putting him up while his insurance rebuilds the home. This doesn't explain why he was disheveled, if he owned a home he likely has a job. Did he tell you this story?? I am sure he is cool, but it's your room. I think you should say the friend is coming in ahead of schedule.
    Our mutual friend confirmed he was told the same story however they weren't bffs or anything, just hung out in the same group for awhile so it's possible he is lying. I've never known anyone else with a situation where their house burnt down lol but come to think of it you're right insurance should cover his housing right now

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    OMG, you are too nice; and a little crazy. He could have raped or murdered and/or robbed you!! I am getting the inclination that he is a good and harmless person but you really just met some vagabond in the the street and invited him up to your hotel!!! Yes, get his ass out. Tell him that the hotel is going to charge you or that your friend is coming in early or whatever and then tell the hotel to switch your room. I know you feel empathy for him but he is a grown man. not a child or injured animal. He will be ok out there. You don't owe someone all of that because they gave you directions.
    Jesus, YES^!
    You need to become much more cautious & suspicious of people..
    I'm sorry, after I got to the part where you let him come in & shower, I had to stop..
    As a former court secretary, I have seen & read a lot of shit..you need to pick up an Ann Rule book, she's a former cop & writes true crime stories.
    Ever heard of Ted Bundy? If not, google him.
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    Yeah I don't buy his house burning down. His insurance should be putting him in a hotel in the meantime.

    Seriously, just because it was ok for one night, doesn't mean he won't kill or rape you tomorrow. I'm astounded you spoke to him at all, didn't you have a phone for GPS or a business you could go in and ask? Cardinal rule for girls traveling alone is to not talk to sketchy looking strangers, including homeless people. Jesus christ. Compete insanity.
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    Please check in here and let us know you are ok in the morning. This is scary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by somechick99 View Post
    He offered to walk me back to my hotel so I wouldn't be alone in the dark in a big city
    Oh good so you were just alone in the dark in a big city with a strange homeless person!

    Tell him your friend is coming over bright and early and he needs to leave. He's beyond lucky to have a random girl be nice & trusting enough to give him a place to stay for the night. He isn't your responsibility and I'm sure he's homeless for a reason (and it probably isn't his house being burnt down).

    You also don't know that he's 'totally harmless and a genuinely good guy' if you just met him. Definitely update us though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Yeah I don't buy his house burning down. His insurance should be putting him in a hotel in the meantime.

    Seriously, just because it was ok for one night, doesn't mean he won't kill or rape you tomorrow. I'm astounded you spoke to him at all, didn't you have a phone for GPS or a business you could go in and ask? Cardinal rule for girls traveling alone is to not talk to sketchy looking strangers, including homeless people. Jesus christ. Compete insanity.
    I do have a GPS but when I try and use walking directions it sometimes quits working properly/won't load the next step

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    Quote Originally Posted by 22lligm View Post
    Oh good so you were just alone in the dark in a big city with a strange homeless person!

    Tell him your friend is coming over bright and early and he needs to leave. He's beyond lucky to have a random girl be nice & trusting enough to give him a place to stay for the night. He isn't your responsibility and I'm sure he's homeless for a reason (and it probably isn't his house being burnt down).
    It was around 7 PM when this happened, it was starting to get dark, not dark yet. Once the sun starts setting it tends to get dark fast. There were others around, I first asked a couple who was from out of town and did not know. We weren't in some dark alley by ourselves lol...and from my experience homeless people for the most part are equally if not more friendly than middle class citizens so why wouldn't I ask him?

    As I said, we did end up knowing a mutual friend (this was confirmed before letting him in). I understand it was not a wise move. At the same time if any of you have had a one night stand with someone you just met, it's the same risk factor, it's just that this particular guy was homeless. He was 25 years old and cute, doesn't make it okay but I feel if he wasn't homeless and I had met him in a bar and taken him back I would not be receiving the same judgment

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    Please check in here and let us know you are ok in the morning. This is scary.
    Will do

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    If you get lost in a big city, it's probably worth it to take a cab or Uber, even if it's just for a short distance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by somechick99 View Post
    We weren't in some dark alley by ourselves lol...and from my experience homeless people for the most part are equally if not more friendly than middle class citizens so why wouldn't I ask him?

    He was 25 years old and cute, doesn't make it okay but I feel if he wasn't homeless and I had met him in a bar and taken him back I would not be receiving the same judgment
    Yeah they're friendly but IME they're also kind of cuckoo ¾ of the time, at least in my city. It's one thing to ask for directions, it's another to let him walk with you and then stay over.

    I agree that it is the same level of risk with a one night stand (which I have NEVER understood girls doing). We're not trying to judge. We're concerned because this is like the beginning of a Criminal Minds episode.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Wait, he's still there?
    It seems like maybe you're trying to justify all this..& hey it's your life darling.
    Whatever time of day, setting, social class he is, or mutual people you both know matters not..
    But, best of luck, take care!


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    Quote Originally Posted by eagle2 View Post
    If you get lost in a big city, it's probably worth it to take a cab or Uber, even if it's just for a short distance.
    That's what I'll do next time, it said it was a ten minute walk on my shitty GPS but yeah you're right

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Wait, he's still there?
    It seems like maybe you're trying to justify all this..& hey it's your life darling.
    Whatever time of day, setting, social class he is, or mutual people you both know matters not..
    But, best of luck, take care!
    When did I say he was still here? If I implied that my bad, he left awhile ago

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    We're not trying to judge. We're concerned because this is like the beginning of a Criminal Minds episode.
    Yeah I watch a lot of forensics files and every other show that's on ID lol plus Law & Order SVU. This scenario definitely could've been on one of these shows! But good thing he left OP.

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    I used to be a bleeding heart type who was always kind and giving to people, even unwisely so. Now, I am just the opposite and I don't give a f%#k. Especially when it comes to men! I always expect men to give to me and to be strong and the provider type. Any ''man'' who takes advantage or over extends a woman's kindness and generosity is NO MAN AT ALL!! There is nothing cute or attractive about people like this. I would expect a man to give me A LOT more than just directions to be granted the privilege of a night in my hotel with me! Tell him to buzz off, you don't need to be polite or kind about it and you don't owe him anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Wait, he's still there?
    It seems like maybe you're trying to justify all this..& hey it's your life darling.
    Whatever time of day, setting, social class he is, or mutual people you both know matters not..
    But, best of luck, take care!
    She is lucky she is still alive.

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    Luckily, you didn't meet this guy: http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/con...d=ansmsnnews11


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    As promised I am checking in. Still fine

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    GOOD. While I personally applaud you for being genuinely kind to this man......lord jesus don't do that again. Yes, I understand that your heart goes out to people when they're in need but unfortunately you can't always be nice. Your heart is in the right place babe but other peoples' are definitely not.

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