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    comes to your room every day - sometimes several times a day if you log on several times and chats posts emoticans pays compliments , sometimes crafty ones like - i love it when i make you smile is a beautiful smile- which really is a compliment to him supposedly he makes me smile and that is not even true i cringe when he is around..he also said he is promoting me on social networks and sent me several emails with apologies that he cannot tip now but he will tip sometimes in the future...and he made it look like it will be a huge tip then...he was in my room first time couple weeks ago...he also chats up my members and makes statements that he will help me get my room going and last time he started to do a basic member immediately left and not sure if connected or not... the only reason am not banning him is he might tip in the future...he is based in usa so i dont understand why he cannot afford 1 dollar for me even is not like he lives in 3rd world where people have no money...
    do you know this type? what do I do? he is never rude but I feel somewhat drained cause he demands my attention asking how I am and stuff and also he sent me 5 emails yesterday some of them I did not open and he is obsessed with me

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    Bring down the banhammer. For sure! He will never tip. He just wants to feel like he has a girlfriend and he's too poor (or proud) to pay for it

    These guys are never good news. I've had a few. They really just want to feel like they can date you and would if given the chance. Sometimes these types can turn into stalkers. At the very least he will distract you from making actual money. Just ban him and block his email. He will probably register another name and email but it will be easy to spot him. Just keep banning him until he gives up





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    ok...i forgot to check his reward points last time he was in my room - is there any way to check while not online? his profile though has a very low rating (2 stars left by 55 models...) - that is a clue right?
    the thing is he is annoying...he makes it look like if am on myspace or facebook celebrity where comments caht and ratings is a big deal and all free...if I was not looking for tokens would be there not myfreecams...how can a guy from usa not have even 1 dollar...
    is there any way to get tokens from this type at all? or banning is the only way to go?
    he sent me several emails alraedy....this is awful

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    ok banned him

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    Who cares how much money he has or doesnt have. For all you know he is a kid and doesnt have a credit card but this guy is an emotional vampire draining you of your energy. Just ban him! As girls we are taught that if someone is nice to us we are suppose to be nice back. As cammodels we learn that the only men deserving of our time and energy are the ones who pay for it!

    Your already mentally masturbating over this man way way too much. Ban and ignore, go find yourself a real man who will spoil you financially! You deserve it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    Who cares how much money he has or doesnt have. For all you know he is a kid and doesnt have a credit card but this guy is an emotional vampire draining you of your energy. Just ban him! As girls we are taught that if someone is nice to us we are suppose to be nice back. As cammodels we learn that the only men deserving of our time and energy are the ones who pay for it!
    no he is on camsite for few years now and has a whole profile with picture he is 45 (maybe not mentally) but the rest is brilliant and I agree -a vampire...
    the weird thing is the kind of vampire i hate - the snowing type...I prefer rude trolls who write show ass bb - at least is honest not the full of compliments clingy kind....but they get you snowed so well...he must think am naive bimbo!!! he must think oh wow found a meal ticket...he is actually online EVERY TIME I AM ON IN MY ROOM- seriously if he likes me that much and not even 10 tokens?????ever???
    and he promised to tip me in the future he wrote in his email that he will make it worthwhile...i guess I will never find out but since I banned him I feel immediately better and feel excited about going online again...
    my room is slow and I attract guys who are losers who think they are "helping me" by draining me dry cause my room is slow must be desperate for attention...
    is what happens when you is slow i guess but I prefer to be in empty room than being drained by him

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    thank you girls!
    hopefully now I have more time for the REAL MEN!
    well put DeepThoughts!

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    Isn't his name Evodreamer and/or gw_beast, by the chance? That guy has multiple accounts, pays very rare, yet extremely demanding.

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    Based on these quotes alone...

    Quote Originally Posted by Dorothea View Post
    ...that is not even true i cringe when he is around
    Quote Originally Posted by Dorothea View Post
    ... I feel somewhat drained
    I would say, yes, ban him.

    Personally, I have a few guys who loosely fall under this type. They are friendly but poor (or unwilling/unable to tip for whatever reason). However, they don't make me cringe or feel drained. On the contrary, I tend to appreciate their presence because their conversations help keep my chatroom active and lively. They are not beggars and never expect or ask anything of me, and often thank me for even giving them any attention at all. They just contribute to the general room rapport, which I like.

    I only ban guys like that who get too needy or annoying or pushy about meeting up/dating for real. Otherwise, I have quite a bit of patience if they actually add to the atmosphere.

    But in your case, if the guy makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, there's no need to put up with it. Ban his ass.

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    i unbanned him...i decided I cannot afford to ban him at this time is too slow for me - when my camscore is higher and have more fans will see how he does - if he talks mostly to the other people he can stay if he still fixated on me and not tipping he has to go...i can't blame him for chatting me up if my room is slow and no one to talk to...
    however am not opening any of his emails and will chat with him only once in a blue moon
    I think he deserves to be banned for tipping me zero all this time and watching my shows free but the thing is - i have almost zero people in my room at times too!!! so... what am i to do? he saves the day every time since he seems to be permanently online -of course i attact asshole freeloaders why? cause the top models already have the better members - if i want the better members i need to somehow elevate myself to higher rank first
    for now is what i have to deal with
    tell me what you think about this?
    and yeah i cringe when he is around
    bet that is something a lot of models deal with daily though and have a smile?
    or am i wrong and quality of room suffers with members like this?

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    no his name is not Evodreamer- i think he only has one account...i don't think he comes up with a lot of ideas and acts kind of stupid and yes is a vampire
    but in a way most of guys on mfc are not exactly love of my life material...many of them can't get a girlfriend in real life i think because many of them don't even have a job or anything going on with their lives- the best members only visit top models i think- possibly the members i get are not allowed in top models rooms for reason i complained about above among other things

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    Personally I would totally ban him since he's given you absolutely nothing... I have regs who've bought shows and tipped before but the moment they start acting entitled to my free time and devolve into clingy freeloaders, pffft GTFO. Look after yourself first. Me in a good mood = more guys like me = me make more money. Don't get bogged down dragging yourself along for the mere hope of seeing his money, you could be losing out on dozens of real spenders who pop into your room, see you looking strained/unhappy or letting one guy dominate your room, and get turned off by that.

    How big can his "future big tip" even be if he can't afford to give you one single token now? Say he really truly genuinely intends to tip you "big" when he is FINALLY able to - it'll probably only be like $10 or so if that, and he'll think it's a huuuuge tip because he's so poor he can't even afford to load $1 worth of tokens up for you right now. Short of winning the powerball, he ain't gonna come into big money all of a sudden and drop $500 on you. Is his possible maybe future $10 worth all this aggravation?

    Squeeze that motherfucker! Start getting pushy in a sweetly bitchy way. If he wants to think you're his free girlfriend, then be a demanding girlfriend and start pressuring him treat you right. "If you won't buy a show, at least tip a girl enough to buy her a drink bb come on", etc. If that doesn't work, then you'll know he never had any money/respect/intention of paying you for your time. Banhammer.


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    Quote Originally Posted by heyho View Post

    How big can his "future big tip" even be if he can't afford to give you one single token now?
    lmao!!! you got a point here lol...
    last he was online and chatted me up i ignired him and did not answer his usual how are you and ignored the giant emoticans he always comes with...then i left withouth saying goodbye it was just me and him but now i realize i was in a bad mood and my behaviour could have been observed by my few respectful members who always tip when in my room but when not i suspect they sometimes watch me as guests...so maybe some were guests...
    it is true forgot the mood thing - he really ruins my mood and it can lose me members - ok - he is gone am serious this time!! there must be something about me that attracts these kind of "romantic freeloader" or do they target everone?
    yes he must go because there is no way he can stay and my good mood too - he makes me either depressed or very angry and i have great smile but when he commented on it taking credit for it- i stoppped smiling...this is tricky...
    thank you!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by heyho View Post
    If he wants to think you're his free girlfriend, then be a demanding girlfriend and start pressuring him treat you right.
    yes but i just realized something - i don't even want to- i realilzed he is more manipulative than i thought and if i started to manipulate him he would just promise and cry and send emails and take all energy..no i realized he is not worth it cause some people tip me easier and if i started focusing on him he would take energy of about 20 people
    yeah cause vampires the "nice ones" are soooo tricky!
    he even snowed me already i realized...cause look at me here...not knowing what to do with him
    thanks !!

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    and one more thing...he is on mfc like few years and has a profile and lots of ratings from models- all very low ratings and none of the usual thank you some models leave comments...
    maybe his future big tip does not even exist or is 20- 45 tokens
    who knows
    he sent me email begging to forgive me for him being freeloader and i never called him that - maybe he was called that before by someone
    the thing is his from usa and can't afford a dollar for me for the past few weeks and is in my room every day
    and so agressive with the emoticans (usually heart and flowers) and emails....3 a day about various stuff also commmneted once how slow my room is and that he will "help me" - i hate it when people say my room is slow - it takes energy nose down...after he said that in my chat two people left and we were alone- now am thinking - maybe he wanted that

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    thanks for helping me to figure this out!

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    Full disclosure: I skipped quite a bit of this because the details aren't relevant to what my answer is.

    If you think you might need to ban a member, just do it. Your gut isn't wrong.

    Once you ban a member for being a chronic freeloader, defined as someone who camps the fuck out without ever spending a dime, period, regardless of 'nice compliments' or how much he 'markets you,' or whatever--don't unban the fucker. You banned him for a reason, now stick with it. Don't look wishy washy to him.

    He's not paying your bills with his compliments, but I guarantee you that needy fucker is getting off on your time and attention and jerking it to you anyway. He probably thinks that if he tips you he becomes 'just another customer' instead of a 'potential boyfriend.' This type will never tip. Ever. Not even once. He's already proven that. Ban and move on.

    He's talking to the other members in your room huh? What is he saying? Like, do you actually know, 100% for sure, and not based on what he is claiming, that he isn't being obnoxious as fuck? Customers don't want to be PMed non-stop by some random dude in the chat that never tips! That drives them away! At best, he's obnoxious and driving away your traffic. At worst (and I have SEEN THIS), he's telling other dudes to stay the fuck away from 'his model' or otherwise starting ish that hurts your hustle. Ban the fuck out of him!

    He has done nothing for you and you're letting him run the room anyway. You dedicated an entire fucking thread to him. That's answer enough to whether or not you should ban. Jesus, unless the dude is dropping $500/day+ on you, he is nothing and even then I wouldn't let that sort of fuck wit run my room.
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    Lol I once had a guy who used to hang around and "promote" me and provide conversation when things were slow with the same promise to tip...he tipped $4 when he did with the note "something is better than nothing, take this and save it for good". It wasn't even $4 my cut. Fuck that noise so much, just ban and move on.

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    ^^ I had a member for years who originally joined my gold shows but then stopped and started buying me gifts instead. At first he would buy me what I asked for (couple dresses worth about $400 total) then some cheesy lingerie that I hated and I told him that so he upped his game and started buying me more expensive stuff. Sometimes he would still send me the cheesy stuff. Occasionally he would purchase me other things for my household etc. but for all this he would park in my Guest chat and just hang. At first he really didnt say much but as time went on his comments got really annoying. I honestly think something was wrong with the guy, like a brain injury or something that wasnt his fault so I tried to be nice but after a while it got to be too much. If I was wearing the stuff he bought me he would comment on it all day long. If he saw my hair moving he would ask "are you using the fan I bought you?" Recently I had to ban him, which of course ment giving up a few thousand dollars worth of gifts a year, but it had to be done cause mentally I couldnt handle him anymore and everytime he made a comment I got ugly and let it ruin my mood and an unhappy cam girl earns no money.

    You did the right thing to ban this guy. You need to establish to YOURSELF that you are worth more then to let some freeloader hang around. Start pretending your a top model even if there is one guy in your room, I mean really believe it, and you will start earning higher in no time!

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    Some guys on MFC get off on being low camscore girl predators. They like to see how much they can get away with because they know lower camscore girls will tolerate more bullshit. Don't put up with that shitface even if your camscore is in the negative. Guys like that are miserable losers who have no fucking life and giving them any kind of attention just feeds their pathetic existence more, so out of mercy, ban them.
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    Ban him for good! Who cares how nice he is pretending to be. That is his game in order to take advantage of you and play on your emotions with cute little compliments while he sits behind his computer jacking off to you for free. Is that the kind of custie you want to have? Not me! Don't give in, he will probably NEVER tip you huge. If he tips...and I mean if he ever tips it will most likely be under $10. Don't waste your time with this guy, ban him, he's not even helping or contributing and there are plenty of other custies that will discover you that will tip big as a compliment.

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    Unbanning him in a bad idea. You say you can't afford to ban him because it's slow (something along those lines), well, yes you can. If he is draining on you then he is also scaring away potential tippers and putting them off. He can promise to tip you later all he wants, but I am willing to bet anything that he never does. People don't promise to tip and act this way. He's draining you, making you uncomfortable which will make you look and feel irritated in your chat and people will see that.

    He is NOT worth your time. Trust me. I have had people in my chat act like that. Yes, it was nice having someone talk to you when nothing is happening, but when they are acting this way and promising you things then he is just building you up for a huge letdown.

    His behavior is as bad as someone coming in every day and telling you how much money they drop on other girls but barely give you anything (if anything at all). They want attention and to have you basically beg for it so they can get everything for free and then fuck off to the next unsuspecting girl.

    BAN HIM AND DO NOT LOOK BACK OR UNBAN HIM! Then block his emails and never message him again.

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    I'll ban anyone. Spender/ past spender/ or not. You have to take total control of your room, you can't let this one dude dictate your room and keep it active. You have to learn how to do it with out him. DO NOT EVER USE CUSTIES (paying or non) AS A CRUTCH! Most are expendable anyway. You cannot be dependent on one making your room look busy. That is your job, not his. His job is to tip. He doesn't have to tip absurd amounts, like 5 bucks here and there.





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    By keeping him around will not increase your score, it teaches other guys that you will give them attention & meet their emotional needs at the cost of your income.
    Trust there will be a thousand more to replace him.

    Is he really nice? 5 emails in one day... taking up so much of your energy, time & costing you money with other who might spend because you are paying so much attention to him?

    If he is on there ALL day long, guess what? He doesn't have a job thus NO money. He will never have money, nor can he drive traffic to your room. People who do not work seem entitled to others time & efforts for FREE too. You are putting him before yourself & your goals.

    Honestly, you are NOT that special to him either. Bet he has 100s of girls he does this with daily, over a years time 1000s.

    Time is precious, he is eating up your time for no money. He is taking time away from your family, friends, goals, this type of person is NOT as friendly in the end when he steals those things away from you. I do NOT waste time emailing custies or fans all day long. If I did, it would keep me busy 24/7 with ZERO dollars in my bank. Just because lots of people have lots of free time, doesn't mean I do.

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    Do some research... look up how many unique hits MFC gets a day. Look up how many daily users spend time on that site.

    EVeryone is replaceable.

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