First off, I have worked with some of your ladies in the past. I appreciate that we use this as a safe space and not talk about this in the club if we ever work together.
I know there are a few ladies on here who do extras, which I fully believe is your choice and I am NOT judgmental about this unless it directly affects my money dancing. That being said, I have never done extras or anything similar. For instance, I have never let men touch my boobs for extra cash, let alone my vagina. Nor have I ever touched a guys penis for money. However, I need some perspective on a life situation. Ladies who do do extras I encourage you to respond. I just learned that my boyfriend, who I have had a great relationship with went to an asian massage place earlier today and got a happy ending. I know this, because he sought it out on his computer and when I opened his laptop he had it up.
When I confronted him he admitted he did get a happy ending, and did not view it as cheating. I truly feel like my trust has been violated and he really really hurt me to the point I am not sure that I can forgive him. I broke things off and am feeling extremely down. I also feel like I am being very intense about something that is so common. On top of it, he has been accepting of me being a dancer.
Am I overreacting? Thoughts?



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