A few years ago, I dated a guy who treated me horribly. I ended up dumping him when his brother called and told me he was still seeing his "ex gf" Hannah behind my back. I had a feeling he had been cheating since he came back with a hickey mark a few times and always made excuses not to hang out. I dumped him and moved on.
Fast forward to October of last year (about 4 months ago). He comes into the strip club and remembers me. I am nice to him because he tipped me well on stage. He gave me his number, I did not text him since I had no real reason to.
Well last night, I had 3 dreams in a row about him randomly. I haven't even given this guy a thought in ages but was bored and looked him up on facebook (he never had one at the time we dated). I find his profile, it's DEFINITELY him. Turns out he has been dating this Hannah chick for almost 4 years now, meaning that our relationships overlapped, assuming they weren't on and off at the time. Even before being official with him, we fooled around on and off for months beforehand.
I could give a fuck less about this guy but I'm pretty sure he cheated on her with me at the time, and they are still together today. Should I send her a message and let her know? If it were me I'd totally want to know. This chick has no idea I ever existed. Normally I'd figure it was so long ago who cares, but the fact he then somewhat recently saw me at the strip club and gave me his number again (they were for sure together during that)
Should I gently let her know? I'd be really nice about it, and apologize if it does not apply to her etc. If I were her I'd want to know but I wanted some more opinions
Thanks in advance
P.S. according to his facebook his brother died a few months ago so I can't contact him for details or anything



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