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I think she was this way all along, maybe she hid it well for a while, maybe you didn't see it, or didn't want to..btw, congrats & I hope you feel better.
Anyway, I'd just blow her off, it would only be more upsetting to deal w/this
Also, that font's kinda hard to read.
Take care.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt



She's probably jealous/insecure of you. I have a friend like this. She deliberately doesn't make a big deal out of my birthday (even went out of town and shut off her phone all day one year, despite that not being necessary for what she was doing), never asks about my vacations and if I try to talk about them, she acts disinterested and tries to turn away/change the subject when she can, and really never asks about my life/accomplishments in general. One time I talked about how I'd like to get a nose job, and she suddenly went into super bitchy, judgmental mode about it and called me all sorts of names.
Over a year later, I brought it up, and she admitted that she had said those things because she thinks I'm already so pretty and is so jealous of me that it made her angry to hear me talk about how I thought I needed to improve myself.
I wager that something similar is going on with your friend. There are people who, when they're feeling down and insecure about their own lives, they can't handle anything good/exciting happening to their friends, especially if they're already jealous of that friend. So they ignore exciting things, "forget" about them, downplay them... I bet if you put a few drinks in her, got her into "I wuv you sooo much mode" and asked her about it, she'd admit that she's just jealous and there's shit going on in her own life that makes it hard to be happy for you.
Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.
Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.



It hadn't really occurred to me it might be jealousy because she seems really confident but come to think of it her confidence is more in a conceited way than anything else. I know she eventually wants the surgery herself so it could very well be so
Thanks for sharing![]()





Girl, you need to let some new people into your life. I am not judging you in any way. Believe me when I was a little younger I attracted all kinds of shitty people to me. But you know, when you hang out with bad people - bad shit happens to you. You seem like a sweet and sensitive person; you should really try to find some people to surround yourself with that will lift you up and support you- not drag you into their drama or use you! This is the third or fourth post of yours that I remember about some shit head of a person in your life. You don't need it!
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XoXo Gia
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Ditch her. Call her up and see what she has to say for herself or give her the cold shoulder. Not a real friend. Sorry boo.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





Some people are naturally very self-absorbed, they aren't even trying to be mean or passive aggressive or anything that's just what they're actually like and they don't see it as mean or rude. I call it a 'princess personality.' I would ditch her too.



Thank you, I needed to hear that and I appreciate you telling me in a non-judgmental way. Unfortunately this is difficult to do while recovering from surgery lol but soon enough I'll back into the world and good to go![]()
On a side note, she ended up texting me about a week after leaving me at the airport as if nothing ever happened. She said "I'm ganna come see you soon" (misspelled and all lmao). I replied a couple days later basically saying I wasn't sure how to reply to that, I was surprised and hurt she left me at the airport then didn't bother checking in with me at all. She did apologize and said she needs to make it up to me...I'll make sure we leave things on a good note but lesson learned, she's not a reliable friend





The ladies on SW are an exception to the sex worker norm. Many I've met outside the site have drug and legal issues, unstable living situations, little to no money a day after they bank. She could be jealous that you're improving your appearance, that you can pay for plastic surgery, that you can take time off work to recover. I had a lot of girls dislike me because I was in school/finished school while stripping. To the point of coming up to customers while I was sitting with them and telling them I was only there to pay for school. Well, they were only there to pay for drugs. Oh, that reminds me-she might be jealous you're getting pain meds legally. Anyways, right now just focus on your recovery. Talk to her after. Pain medication can make you feel your emotions more intensely, you don't deserve the indignity of her seeing you cry. Word it in a way that compliments her good behavior before her doing this to aknowledge how out of the norm this is and find out why.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”



Sorry to say she's not your friend & doesn't hold you in the same regards as you hold her .I think she's been this selfish you just hadn't really noticed until now.I def understand where you're coming from as I was in a similar situation not too long ago.It's not going to change, you know she's unreliable, only thinks of herself so just leave it at that unless you really want her friendship(especially if she hasn't reached out or apologized that speaks volumes in itself)
I say just cut your losses early and keep it moving it'll be ok.
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