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    Default Getting boyfriend used to it...

    So... I have a boyfriend, and he's not super into the idea of me stripping. I haven't since a few years before we got together. He's not bugging me about it, I just know he's not all the secure about it.

    I was thinking of doing something "nice" before I start, to make him realize I appreciate him saying he's cool with it. Something to show just how much I want HIM and not anyone at the club.

    Have any of you ever done something like this before you started? I was thinking of having him help me find sexy outfits and modeling them for him first or something along those lines.

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    Default Re: Getting boyfriend used to it...

    If he's having a hard time with u dancing, it may be difficult for him to know what you'll be wearing at the club and seeing how amazing you'll be looking for other guys. Maybe instead of having him help u pick out an outfit for work, u guys could go shopping for lingerie that you'll only be wearing for him? At least that's what I do with my partner, he feels chuffed seeing me in lingerie that the guys at the club don't get to see.

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    Right, don't wear shit for him you'll wear in the club, just don't talk about it as much as possible if at all unless he wants to.

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    Default Re: Getting boyfriend used to it...

    Not a good idea. If he's not into it, I'm afraid nothing "nice" you do is going to change his mind. It's a process which he will have to get used to and you either are going to be patient and wait or you're not. Just keep being the faithful gf that you are. Reassurance and trust is key.

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    Yes. I dumped him. Dead weight.Nobody comes between me and Mr Franklin.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: Getting boyfriend used to it...

    My BF used to be my customer. The type of guy that was around all night, every night, buying drinks, dances, and tipping. He thought he could handle me dancing and would actually still come in and spend money on me at first. Then he had to start going for a smoke break any time I was onstage. Then he would leave when it got busy and I had to work on other customers. Eventually he started hating seeing my dance bag when I would go to his house. Last time he came in the club, he lasted 20 minutes before leaving and was drunk when I got to his place after work. I don't even want him to come back in now.

    DO NOT try to get him involved in any dancing decisions (outfits, shoes). Avoid talking about work with him. If he asks questions about work, make answers honest, brief, and to the point. Guys that aren't cool with it, never will be. They can POSSIBLY be understanding, but never get over the jealousy issues that come with dancing. Like others above have said, if you're going to get outfits to show off around him, make them sexy at home outfits. Each time you get some work clothes, get one or 2 items for him. After you get bored with those items at home you can bring them into work and the customers can have his 'leftovers". Maybe make one of your nights off a date night so he is getting the attention and validation he'll be looking for on a constant basis.

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