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    Default people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    This is really starting to grind my gears. While I'm on SM, a member will take me into the private chat. We're playing and all is well and good. Being that it's private, other members can go private and view the session too. I've been experiencing an issue where these guys will come into the private and peek in for like maybe ten seconds or more. Then when I view my earnings, it's not showing that I was compensated for this person logging into my private, seeing whats going on, seeing me nude, and all this other stuff. It's quite unnerving. So I wrote SM

    "I really dont like how when I'm in a private session, members can come in and out of the session and it shows no record of them being in the private session and no payment for me. I might as well be doing free shows in public chat if any member can come watch portions of my private shows without me being compensated. Even if the member signs in for under 30 seconds i should be compensated for them having access to my session, no matter for how long. I should be making alot more with the amount of people who came into my private just to peek in. have a nice day!"

    does anyone else have this issue?
    I'll be deleting this thread to not take up more space in the forum but I just need some feedback on this.

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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    They don't get charged for the first 30 seconds. We call them "peepers" and they are a pain in the ass. Every once in a while one stays for an extra second and you get a couple bucks off of them and it's glorious vindication.


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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    After the paid session, I will copy and paste the usernames of the 30 peepers on my sticky notes and at the end of the day, I email the support to ban them from my room. Sometimes they have the nerve to comeback in my room and I will ban them myself. I notice I get a lot peepers the first 3 minutes of the show, so getting undress slowly will help with this problem. Sometimes, I will cover my boobs until I am sure the person is not a peeper.

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    Very good piece of advice on this Ava. I didnt know support could do this for me. Its hard to put on a private show and take the time out to ban people at the same time. I didnt know how to get around that. Thank you!

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    It comes with the territory. You can stop that by making Exclusive lower than private but that's a personal choice.
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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    Gotcha, I'm open to any ideas and that doesn't sound like a bad one.

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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    Support has almost always banned them for me. I usually word my request something like this: "Hello, and I'm sorry to bother you with this, but this " username" was continually disrupting/disturbing my private chat today and I was unable to block him, could you please add him to my block list? Thankyou " I make it short and sweet. Only once did they not do it, and by being vigilant, I can now ban them myself. If they are peepers, but one who was caught (over 30 seconds) and ends up in my chat list, I put a note by their name. (the note stays forever, even if they change their name) then be on the look out. You'll get the hang of it, watch that guest chat window by the corner of your eye during your private. If you see them, put the cam close to your pussy, lean over and wait for them to enter your private. Professional peepers have a routine, which is sometimes funny. I've been in the bathroom rinsing off and during the 30 second return to guest chat, I hear a peeper come into the private. Funny my cam is pointed at my riding toy and those stupid sons of bitches will sit there wondering why they aren't seeing any pussy. It's like they are a deer in head lights. "Where's the pussy? Where am I?" I laugh to myself just waiting for them to figure out the PAID private is over mutha f*cker!

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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    I'd also like to add, that sooner or later, you'll get em all. I have been on SM for just over a year and have just recently banned a bunch of long time habitual peepers from when i first started. They always come back and sooner or later their luck will run out.

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    I raised my premium rate to 9.99 per minute, and keep my Exclusive rate lower.
    It works quite well for me.
    Everytime I lower my premium rate, because I think that I'm missing out on money,( i.e. multiple paying custies in premium), I regret it. I end up having the worst shift from hell when I do, due to peepers, and demanding minute men. F that noise.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I raised my premium rate to 9.99 per minute, and keep my Exclusive rate lower.
    It works quite well for me.
    Everytime I lower my premium rate, because I think that I'm missing out on money,( i.e. multiple paying custies in premium), I regret it. I end up having the worst shift from hell when I do, due to peepers, and demanding minute men. F that noise.
    #Save Your Sanity
    As an added bonus, horny dudes don't read gud, so you'll end up with guys in regular private paying the increased rates sometimes.

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    When I was actively camming on Streamate and MyFreeCams, I chose to just do exclusive sessions (SM) and true private sessions (MFC) because it was just what I preferred. Aside from the fact that it also helps cut down on how many guys can record your shows, I also couldn't stand the thought of peepers doing the free 30-sec. thing. They do it on ImLive too...but on there it's 20 free seconds. So I used to jack up my Streamate premium chat rate to something high, and my exclusive chat rate would be lower. The decent members with money took me exclusive without bitching, while the cheapass scumbags too lazy to read my profile (where I stated that I do EXCLUSIVE) would sit there and bitch about pricing. LOL.
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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    Or you could just accept the fact that there will always be peepers, and stop caring about it... The way I see it is, they aren't paying so they aren't worth my energy. -shrug-

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    They can afford to lower that because in the old days (early 2000's) of the internet it would take awhile to connect. Where as now, it's instant. We have faster broadband and processors. It's now something people abuse. Seriously wish they would update it to 10 seconds. That's more reasonable.





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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetieBitch View Post
    Or you could just accept the fact that there will always be peepers, and stop caring about it... The way I see it is, they aren't paying so they aren't worth my energy. -shrug-
    well yeah i actually don't really mind sometimes, i hurry up and ban those who are abusive and get inside my privates several times taking almost 2 mins for free, so that's an instant BAN for them. otherwise, MEH. they never come back...
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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    Honestly I am so dedicated to giving the guy who is paying the best show I can that it really doesnt bother me when the peepers pop in. If they come in more then once I might try to block them but mostly I dont let it bother me. That being said for one or two days of every month these peepers piss me the fuck off but on those days everything pisses me the fuck off!

    The thing is eventually 40 seconds of peeping isnt going to cut it for them anymore. They are going to have to pay or find another way to get off for free. They can see my porn for free on the internet because a lot of it is out there and I have actually gotten these guys to pay on very many occasions just because I will see them in my Guest Chat later on and I will tell them to give me $5 or $10 for peeping on me earlier. It might seem crazy but more often then not they will pay me

    I remember reading once that the Credit Card companies set the rule of 40 seconds free because of some sort of stipulation they set on the cam sites. Was that just bullshit or does anyone know if there is any truth to it?

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    That's bullshit in regards to CC companies. If that were the case, they would have to do the same thing on other sites. Not all sites do this to the ladies.
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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    I hate when they peep into shows,i thought they had 35 seconds.. those 35 seconds is enough time as it is.. right ladies..

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    Default Re: people peeking into my pvt sessions and im not being paid!

    I was a long term fan of setting exclusives to a cheaper rate than premium and virtually never got premium shows (and no peepers, as a result), but I ended up switching my rates around again recently to see if I could start stacking premium shows for a higher overall hourly rate. Once again, the peepers began and hot dayum are they annoying.

    A few strategies I've found for dealing with the obnoxious in and outers:

    - Disable the alert sound for multiple users in paid (the constant opening/closing of a door is super grating & distracts me from my shows)
    - After your show or on a break (if you aren't getting a ton of peepers to make this cumbersome), check your paid list versus the users list. Write down in a sticky note/word doc on your computer who peeped. I put an 'X' after 2nd time offenders that do it again on another show, and ban on round 3 (either myself in show or by emailing support). I usually take names off after a week or two if I don't see them coming back just to keep it short and sweet for checking.
    - If you THINK a dude might be a peeper and you're close to your mouse/it won't kill the show, highlight their name in the side bar and click on ban. The pop up will block your chat window (annoying), but if the dude leaves early you can click yes on ban then MAKE SURE you ban in messages. The user will NOT be banned from chat as that only works if they are actively in your room, but will be banned from messaging which means you can manually ban them from your SM dashboard under the Blacklist drop down.

    Just what I've found for maintaining my sanity.


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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    They can afford to lower that because in the old days (early 2000's) of the internet it would take awhile to connect. Where as now, it's instant. We have faster broadband and processors. It's now something people abuse. Seriously wish they would update it to 10 seconds. That's more reasonable.
    FUCK YEAH! Same on AW - you can't offer anything less for Freeview than 5 mins overall. I say that 30-60 seconds is enough for a guy to see if he wants to wank off to you!! And lets face it, 98% of guys on AW don't want a long protracted "getting to know you" chat before jumping into private.

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    This thread will not sit well with the girls who don't want us talking about the exact length of this grace period. It can be a sensitive topic on here and I learned the hard way *puts gun emoji to emoji face*

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    @DeepThoughts and @Chelly: No, it's 30 seconds for free on Streamate (unless they changed it since I quit?), and 20 seconds for free on ImLive.
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    ^nope! This is a public forum that custies may stumble across. We want potential peepers to know that they actually get 40 seconds free, on us, grrr we hate when they do that but FINE stay your full free 40 seconds and at least catch a decent eyeful




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    Quote Originally Posted by AvaLove View Post
    After the paid session, I will copy and paste the usernames of the 30 peepers on my sticky notes and at the end of the day, I email the support to ban them from my room. Sometimes they have the nerve to comeback in my room and I will ban them myself. I notice I get a lot peepers the first 3 minutes of the show, so getting undress slowly will help with this problem. Sometimes, I will cover my boobs until I am sure the person is not a peeper.
    Same! I put their names into my computer's sticky notes. I ban the fuckers when they come back!


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    I cover my bits when someone comes in.


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    I call them 30 second heros. My fav thing to do is to block them... When I catch them & block forever gives me thrill. Even more of a thrill is when what I'm doing is so hot they can't click out they stay longer than they wanted & got charged. Down right celebration at that point.

    When anyone new pops into private, suddenly I feel the urge to cover up my nipples with my hands or just focus camera on my face for about 31 seconds. Make it sexy so the person who stays just gets turned on more. Which makes those 30 second heroes pop in multiple times during a private so I can block them.

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