I went to vegas to help my bf because he had eye surgery. We dont see each other much, once a month for a week or less, sometimes more than a month. He's 53 and a very stoic, inward kinda guy. He's super private and has few friends. Really stuck in his ways and has a hard time trusting women b/c he's been burned by so many of them. We've been together a year and a half now. I told myself that we'll never get married and I will probably never live with him because I couldn't imagine him ever asking me to live with him. Recently I was feeling very neglected and just totally unhappy. I came really close to breaking up with him.
He had his eye surgery and his near blindness was affecting him more than I thought. As soon as he could see well again, he was totally different. Things were so good these last few days. Not perfect, but he's certainly back to the guy I love. He was bringing me back to LA (it's so nice he drives from vegas to get me then bring me home, he does it whenever I see him now). We were just sitting quietly, and all of a sudden he asked me a question out of the blue. He said "When you moved from maine to california, how much did you bring with you?". I just told him I had one suitcase basically, and so he said where did the other stuff come from and I said everything I now have (which, other than my hearses and automotive tools fits in a tiny bedroom) I have accumulated over 5 years time. I just thought it really strange for him to ask this, unprompted by anything else. It made no sense to me.
My friend who's known him for 25 years tells me its a "gather information" kind of question, like he might be thinking about asking me to come out there and wants to try to figure out how, and how much stuff I have so he can figure out how to get it all there. I dont know though. He's such a lone wolf kinda guy. I did recently have a serious talk with him about how unhappy I was and I told him I had no intentions of moving to vegas on my own and needed to know where our relationship was going. And by move on my own I mean rent my own house sort of thing. I can't afford to do that, plus with 3 hearses and a 4th on the way I would never find room. (His house has TONS of space. you could put a 12 wheeler out back and not even see it from the front). Maybe it's wishful thinking, but I have to be honest and say I would really consider doing it (ok, I'd say yes lol). What do you guys think? Do you think hes asking a super vague question because he's trying to gather info? I've been dropping tons of hints about this actually, though he's not really the type that picks up on that shit.



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He knows this, and he does his best to help me with that but sometimes he's a little thick headed and doesnt realise things. He's a guy after all lol

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