So the other night at a clean stripclub that I work at, a married customer kept hinting at the fact that he only would go to the champagne room with me if I did certain things.
I found myself getting slightly annoyed with his pushy questions about extras. I then just flat out asked him.
"So it's clear what you're looking for, so why come to the stripclub? Why not just hire an escort to come see you at your hotel?"
He seemed baffled by my question. He said "well, because I feel like I know you and I like you. I wouldn't want some random girl I've never actually met showing up at my hotel." He felt like hiring an escort was way too impersonal...sort of just like ordering a pizza to your place.
I figured he wasn't going to spend any money on me so I left him to talk to other customers. About 20 minutes later the guy comes and finds me and says he decided he wanted to do a champagne room with me. We go upstairs to our room. About 10 minutes into the room he starts bitching me out about how he spent $600 and I'm only dancing blah blah blah. I told him I never promised anything else and that I would not tolerate his attitude.
He finally calms down and I change the subject. I ask him how married life is. He goes on to say how wonderful, and beautiful his wife is. He honestly could say nothing bad about his wife or relationship. He was like, "yea I'm just here because I'm on business and I'm bored." I just think it's funny because if he was only concerned with being entertained, he shouldn't have gotten so upset about the fact I wouldn't do any sexual extras.
I've personally have never escorted, but I wanted to share this story with those who do so you might be able to understand the mental block some guys have about hiring an escort when that's clearly what they want but don't want to admit.
My suggestions to those who escort would be:
1. Include a video of you introducing yourself and make the viewer feel like they sort have already met you. (This applies if you have an online ad that has video display abilities.)
2. If you use backpage consider posting under the stripper catagory aswell. Then you'll get the guys who want to pretend they only want a stripper when they know good and well they really want more. (I know this because I advertised for stripper parties before under the stripper section and still mostly got guys looking for an escort who might also do a strip tease in the process.)
3. Free style. If you live in a vacation destination area or place with lots of bars etc, you could always just walk around and mingle with guys and close the deal in person.
4. Some guys like to drink before cheating on their wives etc so that's why they go to the club instead of just getting an escort from the start. Maybe in your ad offer to bring beverages of your clients choice, or mention that you are also available to accompany them out for a night on the town if they like.
5. Make business cards. Make friends with some cab drivers and bartenders and give them a kick back for every appointment you get from them being your sales reps and handing out your cards to guys they peg as potential prospects.
I could have this all completely wrong. I just thought I'd share my thoughts on this because after working in the club for awhile, I've learned there's quite a large number of shy guys who are in denial about their true desires.



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