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    Default Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    I keep seeing comments by people talking about how they went back to dancing instead of continuing escorting, but I can't figure out why? I know that escorting is not for everyone, but I can't figure out how someone could go back to putting in long club hours where warding off grabby and entitled men is the norm, all for making a fraction of what they made before... all within an industry (clubs) where everyone keeps complaining you have to do more for less money every year that goes by.

    Can anyone enlighten me? What are the reasons?

    Did you get into a monogamous relationship? Did you get arrested for escorting? Did you make more dancing?

    I'm really curious about this.

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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    I danced then escorted and now I am dancing again. I love escorting and it is a hell of alot easier than dancing to be honest however I went back to dancing for two reasons. One being I was busted last year and left town and when I came back lost most of my clients. And two being the escort market where I live is just getting worse and worse. More and more nasty crack whores ruining the business and everybody has to drop their rates. But it all worked out for me because there is good club an hour or so away from me.

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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    Quote Originally Posted by ThisIsThatGirl View Post
    I danced then escorted and now I am dancing again. I love escorting and it is a hell of alot easier than dancing to be honest however I went back to dancing for two reasons. One being I was busted last year and left town and when I came back lost most of my clients. And two being the escort market where I live is just getting worse and worse. More and more nasty crack whores ruining the business and everybody has to drop their rates. But it all worked out for me because there is good club an hour or so away from me.
    I went back to dancing after escorting for this exact reason. It's not safe in my area anymore since LE is busting everyone. The market sucks now, hasn't been the same since early 2013. And these girls offering their "$50 specials" is ruining business. I miss working a few hours a day, making my own schedule and seeing clients when I feel like it, but dancing is 100% legal and I love going to work knowing that I'm safe and not having to worry about getting in trouble again.

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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    Weird, it seems to me the average price for US escorts is 300-400/hour. You guys should try touring perhaps.

    Personally I love escorting because I set my prices, no one else tells me how much to charge! I'm not giving anyone money, I'm putting it all into my own business. Plus, the more good reviews I collect, and the more clients I turn into regulars, the higher I can charge for my services. I know girls who have been doing this for a few years, started at the bottom and now charge 400/hour while maintaining a regular stream of clients. This is in Canada, btw.

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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    I've thought about this. I actually escort and dance but escorting is so much easier time wise. I do enjoy the club i dance at because I've made some friends and it's a way to be on paper that I have a job earning income. I have another job too so it's easier to explain why i have $ if somebody ever had to know.

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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    I started off dancing, now escort, and am seriously considering returning to dancing by next month. I would still escort, but dancing would be side income. All in all, yes, I make way more escorting with less stress, but I am also the type of person where I have to be doing multiple different things to not hate my fucking life. Like, I can work 60-hour weeks if it was divided into 2 30-hour jobs or, better yet, 3 20-hour jobs. If I only have one job, 20 hours a week is like "omg, kill me."

    If you continue escorting, and dancing is just side money, I imagine it would be much less stressful than dancing fulltime. I can get out of the house more, interact with people, have a little extra money, and I honestly never minded telling people I was a stripper. I've been really damn lonely since escorting. I guess I could just lie and continue saying I was a stripper but it gets awkward to keep telling lies about "how was your night?" after awhile. I'd honestly rather just do it.

    But I guess it all also really depends on the area you live in and what the clubs, clientele, mileage, and money is like.
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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    I started off dancing, now escort, and am seriously considering returning to dancing by next month. I would still escort, but dancing would be side income. All in all, yes, I make way more escorting with less stress, but I am also the type of person where I have to be doing multiple different things to not hate my fucking life. Like, I can work 60-hour weeks if it was divided into 2 30-hour jobs or, better yet, 3 10-hour jobs. If I only have one job, 20 hours a week is like "omg, kill me."

    If you continue escorting, and dancing is just side money, I imagine it would be much less stressful than dancing fulltime. I can get out of the house more, interact with people, have a little extra money, and I honestly never minded telling people I was a stripper. I've been really damn lonely since escorting. I guess I could just lie and continue saying I was a stripper but it gets awkward to keep telling lies about "how was your night?" after awhile. I'd honestly rather just do it.

    But I guess it all also really depends on the area you live in and what the clubs, clientele, mileage, and money is like.
    I am the same way. I need a lot going on to keep me motivated. I could be making really good money doing one thing, but I get bored. 3 jobs for me is the "sweet" spot. I have my day job, I have escorting, but I need something else that is more lively.

    I tried going back to dancing recently and couldn't do it. All the customers were grabby and entitled, the management was yelling at girls very 'dad' style, the girls were young reckless party girls in that 'bratty bitch' mode. Two dancers even got in a fight in the dressing room the first night back when one accused the other of stealing her curling iron, when come to find out, they had the same one and the housemom had moved hers because it was next to something (plastic?) flammable. She tried to throw the HOT iron at another girl, and luckily it missed. The entire night I was thinking "remind me why I'm here again? I've already lived through this all once. Its like going back to middle school, only for no reason because I don't need the money."

    I felt gross being back there. I felt like I had outgrown that phase of my life and I was retrograding for absolutely no reason. All to make a small fraction of what I already make escorting with 5x as many hours? No. I just don't see how girls go back to dancing after escorting.

    Maybe a better question would have been: WHY do girls go back to dancing after escorting?

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    Default Re: Has anyone gone back to dancing after escorting?

    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    I am the same way. I need a lot going on to keep me motivated. I could be making really good money doing one thing, but I get bored. 3 jobs for me is the "sweet" spot. I have my day job, I have escorting, but I need something else that is more lively.

    I tried going back to dancing recently and couldn't do it. All the customers were grabby and entitled, the management was yelling at girls very 'dad' style, the girls were young reckless party girls in that 'bratty bitch' mode. Two dancers even got in a fight in the dressing room the first night back when one accused the other of stealing her curling iron, when come to find out, they had the same one and the housemom had moved hers because it was next to something (plastic?) flammable. She tried to throw the HOT iron at another girl, and luckily it missed. The entire night I was thinking "remind me why I'm here again? I've already lived through this all once. Its like going back to middle school, only for no reason because I don't need the money."

    I felt gross being back there. I felt like I had outgrown that phase of my life and I was retrograding for absolutely no reason. All to make a small fraction of what I already make escorting with 5x as many hours? No. I just don't see how girls go back to dancing after escorting.

    Maybe a better question would have been: WHY do girls go back to dancing after escorting?
    I enjoyed the money I was making through escorting and I enjoyed the ability to pick whatever hours I wanted to work. Especially since I have kids, having a flexible work schedule is amazing. That being said, escorting is frustrating for me.

    I no longer advertise online and instead, I see my club clients as escort clients as well. I charge way more than my old escort rate because these guys think I'm doing something special for them and in a way I am. I only see a select few guys that I've known for a while and trust. I love it and enjoy it because the guys know me and don't expect me to do things I don't want. Escort clients seem to expect so much more than they used to and the majority of them lack respect for providers. But my club customers are the sweetest and most generous guys.

    You have to do what's best for you. I'm not 100% opposed to full time escorting again, but I do prefer dancing. It's legal, its not isolating like escorting and I don't have to have sex with anyone. Plus I love shopping for new clothes and shoes for work, listening and dancing to the music, getting free drinks, learning pole tricks and getting paid to party!

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