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    Default Re: have you ever met a viewer?

    Mind you, this is someone who married to a VERY VERY good man. He would do ANYTHING for me. My husband worships me, puts up with my brat ass, and takes real good care of me. I know he doesn't think that, because I would of experienced that sort of mindset the years I've known him and built a relationship with him.




    Back on topic though. I don't care if you want to meet a fan. Some of these dudes are straight up awesome. They are fun to talk to and I have a lot of similar interests. But at the same time you do have to careful, because you don't know them really. They could be playing a part just like you are. If you do, please watch for red flags. If they get weird, don't be afraid to drop them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    And I find it very very sexist.
    Thanks for saying this, Audri. I see shit like this way too frequently on SW. Can we stop hating on our customer base, please?

    I hate to say it, but some women just don't surround themselves with respectful guys. I have tons of male friends who aren't trying to fuck me. They're mature. Come to think of it, the more *sexually* mature they are, the less they try to hit on me, unless it's obvious I want them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    sam, you know i got mad love for you. But i gotta disagree with ya. a lot of men are not like this. i know this sounds crazy, but not everyone with a penis looks at a woman and sees a cunt to conquer and fuck. I've only experienced a few handful of dudes who treated me as such in the real world. But i have a lot of male friends. They see me as their sister, a friend, someone they can trust. I do not owe them pussy for being their friend, that is fucking crazy. Do they have fantasies of me? Probably. Would they like to fuck me? Maybe? Would i like to fuck them? I would fuck a couple, not gonna lie. It would be hypercritical to deny me having fantasies about them. But our relationship isn't that and nothing will ever come.


    Now what happened to you friend is shitty, and i'm so sorry she went through that. That's a shitty fucking dude. But he does not represent the male population.
    I've been roofied twice before. My best friend carried me home from the party when he realized what was going on. He watched me all night to make sure i didn't fucking die. He could of taken advantage of the situation, but he didn't because he respects me. How would i know, because i was lucid but didn't have control of my body. I was straight up paralyzed.



    I'm sorry but generalizing an entire gender to be these sex addicts who don't respect women, i find it very very sexist.
    preach.

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    Sam, you made a good point but the same can be said about women. Though I have to agree to a certain extend that the majority of men are more sex driven. I am qualified to speak on it because I get to see both sides of the fence. This goes beyond gender, it's about people with ulterior motives. Let people SHOW you who they are because no one is gonna tell you who they really are right off the bat. Action is the only language that matters. You get to see a person's true demeanor when they don't get what they want.
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    Men are NOT friends with pretty girls for NO reason at all, eventually they want to get sex. They do see it as investment they want the pussy. Dont fool yourself, men will also say whatever it takes to get laid too.
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    By and large, I would not meet up with 99.9999% of my customers or viewers.

    However, I do have one very good regular who is more 'friendly' with cammers than interested in jerking off and I would definitely meet with him. He hits up 4-5 other models I know really well and just tips their entire gold show or drops coin on them via indy to do hangout chat sessions. He's outright said he enjoys being a sugar daddy sort and isn't in it for jerk off action so much as company since he works long hours and rarely has lady friends. If he and I were in the same area for an event or such, I'd totally chill with him because I know it would be just that--fun company and no expectations. He's the exception and not the rule though.

    In real life, I've had male friends who turned into assholes when they found out about my job or realized the couldn't have me sexually. In hindsight, I should have seen it coming with some of them and didn't, but there were a select few who had myself and the rest of the people I knew very well fooled. That said, I also have real life male friends who I can trust explicitly to never take advantage of me and they are wonderful, wonderful men I wouldn't trade for the world.

    The thing is that every man we see as a customer has a real life that involves interaction with 'real' (read: in person) women, and he could be either a gem or an asshole, just like any man you meet in your regular ol' 'real life.' Saying every man is gonna be a creepy stalker who fucks with you or expects sex isn't fair, whether that be customer OR just a guy you meet in your everyday life. Be cautious and selective while maintaining your boundaries, but don't be closed off. Never say never basically.

    Again, I probably wouldn't ever meet a customer, but it could happen. As for how men in general are? Frankly, I've had worse experiences with men in my real life than I've ever had on cam. I'd argue cam has made me neutral towards men at worse. Real life has made me go through total man-hating phases. I'm good now, but cam wasn't the culprit in my brief episodes of utter misandry.


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    I don't think I would, personally. There's so many crazy people out there. But, hey, if you get a good vibe off the guy, go for it!

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    Yep and he's been my hubby now for 4 years! Best relationship EVER! And I dated ALOT outside of the Camming site (clubs, through friends, school, etc) and mostly all was garbage. Maybe I just got lucky but so happy I pulled the plug and met him!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    This goes beyond gender, it's about people with ulterior motives...You get to see a person's true demeanor when they don't get what they want.
    Anddddddd Marina has hit the nail on the head.

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    Absolutely not. Sex workers are the number one target of serial killers. Anyone can act normal til you're alone with them. I'd much rather be thought to be stuck up and unnecessarily careful by a guy I don't meet by risking my life proving myself wrong.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    I've never intentionally met a fan, and I've never met one in person. One guy that stalked me on Okcupid (I say stalk because I never once replied to his message and he still sends them, a year later) DID find me on CB once tho. He was gushing about how much he liked my shows- but he never tipped lmao BYE. On one end I think it would be a little weird if I guy I was interested in, found me on cam and tipped for my services, but on the other end I would never date a guy that didn't respect my work enough to tip.

    Would I meet a cam custy? Maybe, probably not. I meet a lot of interesting and hot AF guys that I have really good conversations with, and if the opportunity came I would probably date quite a few of them or in the least fuck their brains out. But like others have said, it would be hard to make the switch from ''I see you as income'' to seeing them as a partner. I would also be a little hesitant- not because they might be creepy, because a lot of non-custies are creepy- but because dating a client would cut out a paying customer (unless it was an SD sitch). Not that a good relationship wouldn't be beneficial to me in a different way, but it would no longer have the same benefit as it did before. Basically the guy would have to be a fucking prince with gold shooting out of his cock for me to consider making that leap.

    Now if the guy was looking to pay for my time in person and become a different kind of client, it would be a different situation altogether with different things to think about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serena-Shields View Post
    a fucking prince with gold shooting out of his cock
    That's some gay Jack and the Beanstalk fanfic right there...
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    Serena makes a good point, because that's something you have to weigh if you ever date a client. You also have to decide if you're willing to no longer have that income. In my relationship there was a point where I couldn't, in good conscience, ask for cash to chat with him because I quite honestly didn't think of it that way anymore, and I wasn't interested in a sugar daddy type of thing.

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    I met one of my regulars. He was my number 1 spender actually, from another State. we started talking and and we would do c2c. He never asked for anything sexual actually, which was odd, He was an army guy so all we would do was talking about these kind of stuff (that interests me) and he would show his rifles and other army stuff he had. It was very nice talking to him, I felt very comfortable. So I decided to get our talks to personal life. We ended up exchanging phone numbers and we talked everyday, until he came to visit me (from NC to NYC) we spent a great weekend together, with no sex. It was actually romantic LOL
    But then he got deployed. When he was over seas we still exchanged emails ALL THE TIME. Talking about future and moving together (after only one time meeting... and no sex). He came back, we were kind of completely in love. He asked me to move with him, to NC. I freaked out, because I still feel like I have sooooo much to live and he was very country boy, ready to settle down and stuff.
    So I ended things. He took it fine. He was understanding.
    We never spoke again.
    I know he is engaged now.
    But it was a very nice connection we had. I really liked him and he did as well.
    It was cute.
    Still.. we had like 8 months "relationship" and we never actually had real sex haha he really respected me and I liked the way he was taking things slow. It was cute and different from other guys I am used to here in NYC.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Erika_Xstacy View Post
    yes a couple and it can be awkward. They will try to make a easy meet up dreadful, they are more talkative on cam.
    I have met have coffee shops, the safest. Its nice to chat with someone when they are finally comfy. Usually they want to go shopping but we end up chatting then they order offline so it was pointless but meaningful to them.
    I have traveled to Florida for one guy, twice and he is cool, super cool. A little clingy but never over the top. He was at my feet (not literally), it is a nice getaway. He was the first one I met offline and traveled to Florida. I am very picky who I meet.

    with that said, I currently have a stalker. Hes not crazy, just hung outside my home and watched and then proceeded to check my mail and hold it for me, assuming I was out of town with my dad since he is sick. I had to put the brakes on him. I blocked him everywhere forcing him to contact me, bc this is what over obsessed fans do. They will continue to be your problem until he finds a new one. Im waiting out the storm with him.

    These guys will find you if obsessed like this guy. Be wary if your not use to dealing with crazy ppl. Most women would be skeezed and Im over here like uhhggggg charles again. Then part of me feels bad for continuing to accept gifts from amazon knowing Im waiting for him to expire.

    I look at like this, I am almost 40 with a grown child. If I cant handle a man and what he might do to me, I do not need to be in this in business and I damn sure dont need to date. Most women that date are dating our customers. They are human
    Are we talking about camming or escorting? Your a 40 year old woman with a child....ok? What's the point? So why do you need to meet these men as a cam girl. I agree with your comment for escorting but as a cam girl I don't see why put yourself in that position?
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    This is all very interesting but I don't see why you guys meet your fans? It seems like an unnecessary risk.
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    and here I thought all the customers who insist that lots of camgirls meet their custies were just up in the night or straight up lying. IDK if I can pull off the same eyeroll smirk now that I know the truth.

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    I think this is a situational thing.... If YOU feel comfortable, go for it. If there's even a smidge of nerves or a feeling that's not quite right, don't do it. TRUST YOUR GUT! Your instincts are almost NEVER wrong, so if you feel like it's okay, then try it. If there's even one tiny reservation, don't, and don't let anyone else's opinion change what your gut tells you to do... If I were to EVER meet a fan though, I would tell them STRAIGHT UP, I WILL NOT meet them alone for the first time. We will meet in public and while I won't have someone at the table with me, I will let him know there are eyes on me so they know better and if they balk or get upset, THEN you have something to worry about, I'd say. Just have a friend having coffee in the same place so they can see you and make sure you're okay.
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    If I were single I might...depends on the situation. But since I'm not single and very happy then I have a disconnect with all of my customers. There's no emotional connection with any of them so I'd never meet any of them. I'd probably be more emotionally invested if I were single and looking though.

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    Yep, it was a certain point and a perfect situation, otherwise it NEVER would have happened. High spender, never did a "show" wanted to chat, seemed interesting (and the most god awful typer on the planet). We started chatting via phone and holy fuck the Irish accent. Soon enough chatting in other venues, and CLEARLY a situation where he had more to lose than me and the money to have us meet and all the factors I find attractive in a man (funny, quick, clever). Otherwise nope, no nope.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    and holy fuck the Irish accent.
    Gets me every time as well. Irish men OMG.
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    I met a man I talked to since the beginning of my career as a PSO/cam domme. Let's just say it was...weird, to put it lightly.


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    Quote Originally Posted by AlyssaJane View Post
    and here I thought all the customers who insist that lots of camgirls meet their custies were just up in the night or straight up lying. IDK if I can pull off the same eyeroll smirk now that I know the truth.
    Yeah I'm puzzled. Maybe it's because I've been in a long term relationship and have no interest in any other men, on cam or off.
    Then again I've always been a bit turned off by most of my customers knowing how quickly they can turn on me when they don't get what they want (and most eventually seem to when they realize it's not progressing to actual in-person sex (even though I always tell them it's online only).


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