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    The other night when we had 3 girls on the stage (different girl on one pole) a man had handed me a $4 tip on stage to come back to him after my set. Since i was still on stage i put the money on top of my shirt. A girl who had someone make it rain on her (I'm pretty sure she gave a wad of ones to someone she knew to make it rain on her because shes one of those girls that make you question management in where they went wrong with hiring her.....but thats besides the point) so anyways she picked up my $4. Now I make a good amount every night I work so im not too concerned with a $4 loss plus im very laid back where fighting with someone isnt worth it to me, but considering im new I dont want girls thinking its okay to walk all over me. So my question is would you guys have confronted her and asked for the $4 if you knew for sure it was yours?

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    Probably not because it's just 4 dollars and it could have potentially been an accident. But if it's something that continues to happen, then perhaps you should. This is why I prefer to work at clubs that only have one girl on stage at a time.

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    Default Re: Would you confront another dancer about this?

    If she's a crazy troublemaker, then no, I would just let the $4 go this time. Find a way to keep your money attached to you in the future. Strap it to your thong or get a garter if you have to get full-nude, or keep your money clear on the other side of where your stage partner is dancing. There shouldn't be a way for her to take money that isn't hers unless she blatantly walks into your zone. But a good rule of thumb is just always have your money on you.
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    How do you know she took the 4 dollars?

    But yeah many of these hoes are batshit crazy so it's not worth your time and energy to fight over four dollars. Pick and choose your battles wisely.
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    Why aren't you keeping your tips close to you?? I always interlace my ones between my finger, stick them in a garter, or at the very least put them in a pile I keep near me, ESPECIALLY a if you're sharing the stage. And no, I wouldn't cause drama over 4 bucks lol, it was probably unintentional

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    Ya if she was rained on & had a bunch of ones it's understandable she accidentally took 4 that weren't hers. Keep your money on you or closer to you next time.

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    No, I would not unless it became a recurring thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by samjadejess View Post
    The other night when we had 3 girls on the stage (different girl on one pole) a man had handed me a $4 tip on stage to come back to him after my set. Since i was still on stage i put the money on top of my shirt. A girl who had someone make it rain on her (I'm pretty sure she gave a wad of ones to someone she knew to make it rain on her because shes one of those girls that make you question management in where they went wrong with hiring her.....but thats besides the point) so anyways she picked up my $4. Now I make a good amount every night I work so im not too concerned with a $4 loss plus im very laid back where fighting with someone isnt worth it to me, but considering im new I dont want girls thinking its okay to walk all over me. So my question is would you guys have confronted her and asked for the $4 if you knew for sure it was yours?
    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    How do you know she took the 4 dollars?

    But yeah many of these hoes are batshit crazy so it's not worth your time and energy to fight over four dollars. Pick and choose your battles wisely.
    Yes, I don't get this either, you said you put it in your shirt? How did she take it from there, or did it fall out or something?
    Well, anyway, as was said, just be careful & watch your $'s.


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