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    Quote Originally Posted by amberlly View Post
    Why is it always seen by society as desperate or sad to spend money on hot girls?
    I'm pretty sure this is because society devalues the labor of women in general. Society also devalues the labor of artists, with job offers for "exposure" to most musicians, writers, painters, actors etc. Then throw in the fact that selling sexual companionship is illegal in most places but totally legal if giving away free, and you get this attitude that it is pathetic to provide emotional comfort in exchange for a paycheck.

    Strippers are women who are performance artists who are providing sexual companionship for a fee. I'm not sure why, if I as a stripper and taking care of your emotional needs, you feel bad about taking care of my financial needs?

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    I'd much rather pay a woman to give me a backrub than to dry hump me and pretend to enjoy it. If she's good at it anyway.

    But sorry, the word 'cuddling' kinda makes me cringe, in the context of a stripclub.
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    forget cuddling how about some good old-fashioned barebacking, I got an extra 20

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    How clairvoyant... to foresee he would be the one to be BitchSlapped outta here

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberlly View Post
    Why is it always seen by society as desperate or sad to spend money on hot girls?

    Way cheaper than a marriage/divorce. No strings.

    Just insert money for whatever attention you desire.

    You can get free plastic bags at the grocery store to carry things yet LV and Chanel make a killing selling designer ones.

    And yes plenty of guys who can get female attention, still pay.
    Celebrities and sports stars ditch their groupies to hang out in VIP.

    It takes a strong guy to admit what he wants and pay for it. Not everyone can.
    I think society looks at it differently because those hot girls aren't inanimate objects and it can take more than just money to get their attention/time. Things like personality, humor, conversational skills, etc. to get a hot girl to want to be with you. If someones paying for it then it looks like thats their only option. That's obviously not the case with everyone but it makes sense how it looks to society and can't really be likened to buying an expensive bag.

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    Oh yes, I love to cuddle in the VIP at hourly compensation + tip.

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    There's a regular at my club who comes in once a week (Sometimes more) and will take two girls into CR for one or two hours and sleep. all you have to do is sort of sit with his arm around you and listen to his rambling and then its a $300 break lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by GeorgeBailey View Post
    The only times I've cuddled with dancers was when the dancers initiated it. They also got my return business.
    Disco. Except for maybe the return business part. It's rare I hit the same club more than a couple of times.

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    Cuddling is cool. As long as the guy smells clean. No BO!!!!

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    As long as it's actually JUST cuddling and not being suffocated or groped, and I'm actually being paid for it..so many men believe that conversation and cuddling should be free, and only dances or sexual favors paid for

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    On this expanded topic, you can buy sex, but as the Beatles say, you can't buy love. You can buy awesome acrobatic sex, but you can't buy soul synchronized in-love sex. You can buy time with fascinating and beautiful, scintillating and sparkling, but you can't buy hanging out in the park with a new GF. You can buy closeness, but you can't buy connection.

    IMHO sex workers are like ballerinas, beautiful performers whose work can be enjoyed within its context. Cuddling is nice but if it is a proxy for a deeper connection you want, you may not be looking in the right place.

    We all have that fight - a few times it has happened to me. Once I even lost an SB over that (I was younger :-/ ). Eventually you have to realize the truth of what all the pinks on here are saying again and again: they are a fantasy.
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