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    Hi! I was just wondering- how many of you ladies talk to every single person that walks into the club? Or close to anyway.
    I work at a moderately busy club and when it's slow I talk to everyone but once it gets busy I just lose the ability to. I hate groups of guys - because I'm Asian I feel like I can usually tell when I look at a guy, and I don't want to waste time hustling for one song. My customer called me lazy the other day lol because I was sitting with him forever (to be fair I knew he was going to get a VIP later after more convincing - yay).
    My friend jumps lap to lap and never sits down unless she's tried EVERYONE. I find it so mentally exhausting to do that. Generally if it's so busy that I can't walk easily through the crowd, I wait and someone will find me for a dance or VIP. But I'm not sure if that's a solid plan - especially if I want to go somewhere else like NYC or Vegas where hustling is a MUST. I think I can hustle at this point, not super well but enough, but what do you ladies think? Should I try a little harder? Bluntness appreciated

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    It really depends on your hustle style and even your mood. Generally, I'm about quality over quantity and would rather spend a bit more time and effort to hustle a customer into spending a stack of money rather than lap hopping. Some days, I can't be bothered to build rapport and just hit up everyone that I can. In general, I won't take a break unless I've exhausted all potential money making options -- though I will avoid customers I know are a waste of time, usually based on past experience (ie. they're a club regular, have previously rejected me, really look like a waste of time for whatever reason, etc.).

    I don't think you should feel obligated to always talk to EVERYONE -- talking to everyone is a common piece of advice because it prevents you from sitting around and NOT hustling when there are prospects, but if you have a customer, you shouldn't feel the need to leave guaranteed money just for the sake of talking to everyone in the club.

    Of course, you also don't want to get too lazy in terms of oversitting with your customers. It sounds like maybe your customer would be ok with you spending less time with him on the floor before he goes for VIP, or even you going off and making money while it's busy before he's ready to spend, and that's something that's wise to take advantage of to maximize your earnings.

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    Default Re: Talking to everyone

    I personally don't think it's efficient to talk to everyone.

    Talking to everyone is like a Hail Mary pass in football, only done if you are new and figuring out the hustle or there is no money in your purse, it's slow, and you need to do what you need to do to eat good later that night.
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    You never know when a quick "hello" before you go onstage will turn into a private dance or even a champagne room later in the night.

    The advertising industry knows that the more someone is exposed to something, the more likely they are to feel positively toward the product and purchase it in the future. There's no harm in exposing as many customers as possible to your brand, with a quick smile, hello, wink, or question about their night. I can't tell you how many times I've approached someone on a whim, said hello, mentioned I hope to see them around, and then ended up making all of my money that night off of that one person (pretty nice when the club is dead).

    You don't have to hustle every person in the room...just make yourself available to them by establishing some kind of contact.

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    I agree ^

    In my club tbh it's a numbers game. it gets packed and it's a quick hustle. I just try to ask everyone for a dance. The only people I don't approach are Asians and Indians if I'm desperate (sorry! but Asians don't like me, they like the other asians and a lot of Indian guys are cheap and creepy). I've literally been passing by and think "i'll just ask them why not" and having that random guy spend hundreds

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    I definitely don't hustle everyone in the club, that is very exhausting and can be kind of manic. I've seen coke heads try to hustle everyone in the club...can be entertaining to watch.

    However....say hi to everyone, even for a sec. Even to time wasters & club furniture: Hi! Nice to see you back! :: and then keep moving.

    For everyone else that's new I'll introduce myself, ask their name, ask about their night, say mine's going great, and if an immediate/easy rapport isn't built -- I move on...quickly. BUT I do return to them, hopefully remember their name, and act as if we know eachother. That's when I ask for a dance. Unless I feel like I am making an obvious connection I will NOT sit. I don't want him to dread my company. I don't want to dread his company.

    Another thing is few men go to a strip club to be ignored, lots of painfully shy and socially awkward guys come in and it's unfair to ignore them. Juts saying a casual hi to someone can make their day and make them come back and make them remember you.

    This works best in medium size clubs.

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    Hah, my current club is so dead that I have to hustle every man who walks through the doors most nights but if it's a busier club the answer is no...I am fairly selective and generally know my "type" so as not to waste time with people who aren't interested.

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    On busy nights, I will just circle around the main stage a few times to see what's out there and then finally stop when I make eye contact with someone. On slow nights, the place is so empty that they can come to me if they want a dance lol. I'm introverted though and I reallllly hate working slow nights because I feel like EVERYONE is looking at me and only me. We are required, if on schedule, to work a slow night or two every month and I dread it so much that I just show up with tip out just in case I don't make it. Busy nights are no problem, but back to the OP's question, I don't stop and talk to every person. Partially because of the introversion, and partially because of burn out and a bunch of other shit I don't want to put on here.

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    Yeah I get serious burn out if I try talking to like 90% of people. I don't want to start a new thread but then how do you decide who to talk to?? I generally go by feel and eye contact - if they've been looking at me and that's pretty good for the most part but some nights I feel like no one is giving me even a passing glance... But I definitely feel like there's people I could've hustled if I had just talked to him?? It drives me insane omg

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