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    Default How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    For BRAND NEW and BROKE escorts...

    If you are choosing to escort because you are dead broke...

    Then HOW do you get a motel or hotel if you are completely broke? How do you start up your hustle? How did YOU do it?

    I'm really trying to figure this out. I don't have enough for a telly. HELP PLEASE?

    (Find someone out on the street? Car dates?)

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Do you have a car? Outfits / shoes? Is it an option for you to work in a strip club for a night (legal) instead of putting yourself in a potentially dangerous situation out of pure desperation?

    Escorting is most dangerous when you're desperate for money. A strip club would at least allow you to work in a controlled, legal environment until you make enough money to start escorting safely.

    Just an idea.


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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Do you have a car? Outfits / shoes? Is it an option for you to work in a strip club for a night (legal) instead of putting yourself in a potentially dangerous situation out of pure desperation?

    Escorting is most dangerous when you're desperate for money. A strip club would at least allow you to work in a controlled, legal environment until you make enough money to start escorting safely.

    Just an idea.

    Thank you for responding. You are right about desperation.

    To answer your question, no car, no money. All the strip clubs in my area are far.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Do you have a friend or family member who could drive you to a club?

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Do you live in an area that has a massage parlor or anything like that? Even a sketchy one would be safer than trying to arrange a date on the street.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Could you use a site like What's Your Price to arrange a paid dinner date - in a public place, and hustle from there? Meet your potential date at a coffee shop instead of in a street pickup situation? You could use the coffee shop to screen off of craigslist - if someone shows up and looks very sketchy, you can bail without them knowing where you live.

    https://www.whatsyourprice.com/

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    http://www.theinternetescortshandboo...cort-start-up/

    Do outcalls (Uber/Lyft) or hustle the guy to get the room for you.

    Slixa lets you easily create a free and easy profile.

    Post that profile to the hobbyist boards. It will be absolutely disgusting dealing with them but with a bit of luck, it'll get you out of the shit.

    Use Google Voice until you can afford a burner.

    Re: car dates and the street - look over this: https://redlightchicago.wordpress.co...ty-on-the-job/

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Could you use a site like What's Your Price to arrange a paid dinner date - in a public place, and hustle from there? Meet your potential date at a coffee shop instead of in a street pickup situation? You could use the coffee shop to screen off of craigslist - if someone shows up and looks very sketchy, you can bail without them knowing where you live.


    Thank you! Nope, no family, just me. I'm checking out the sites now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abarrett View Post

    Do outcalls (Uber/Lyft) or hustle the guy to get the room for you.

    Slixa lets you easily create a free and easy profile.

    Post that profile to the hobbyist boards. It will be absolutely disgusting dealing with them but with a bit of luck, it'll get you out of the shit.

    Use Google Voice until you can afford a burner.

    Re: car dates and the street - look over this:



    Thank you! Looking at the web sites you linked.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    I second the uber/lyft suggestion. I know a lot of escorts use them for outcalls. I've also gotten guys to pay for motels before. "I really want to see you, but I'm outcall only and you're a bit far..." worked for me, but it also depends on how much the clients wants to see you obviously. And don't take shady guys just because you're broke. Always listen to your gut. Good luck!

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Quote Originally Posted by CandySora View Post
    I second the uber/lyft suggestion. I know a lot of escorts use them for outcalls. I've also gotten guys to pay for motels before. "I really want to see you, but I'm outcall only and you're a bit far..." worked for me, but it also depends on how much the clients wants to see you obviously. And don't take shady guys just because you're broke. Always listen to your gut. Good luck!
    Thank you Candy! The uber suggestion sounds like a GREAT idea!

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    You can't. So you will need to find a cheap motel and tell your client to meet you there. You will need him to pay you out front and stay in the room for the rest of the day making more money. It's not easy, but it's been done before. Honestly, if you are very broke, escorting should be your last option. I have seen girls get raped, get arrested, all in that situation.

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    OMG, you're really going to do it? okay, I add something else here then.

    1) Outcall is an option. But it's also very dangerous, outcall to high end hotel is relatively safer. Even if today I seldom offer outcall, except a few long time regulars.
    2) like other said, tell someone where you are going and when to check up with you.
    3) Screen your clients. If the guy sounds creepy, don't do it.
    4) read local news and ask around. When cops have a sting operation, you stop no matter how broke you are.
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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Try dancing first ! Or body rub outcall ! Listen to these wise ladies on here !!
    You can even offer legitimate massage to men in hotels if your state isn't strict on massage laws.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    If you are not experienced , I'd highly recommend NOT seeing customers one on one quite yet. You need experience to more accurately feel out who will be a problem and desperation for cash will CLOUD your judgement.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    I started out in this industry basically exactly like you. This was what I did:

    Step 1) Make an outcalls only profile on Craigslist
    Step 2) Drive to sketchy dude's houses and fuck them
    Step 3) Profit

    In retrospect, it was exceedingly dangerous and I'm breathtakingly lucky that nothing bad happened. If you can do anything else besides escorting like this, do it.

    However, if you truly have no other options:

    -You need to screen your clients. I've heard it's a good idea to google their phone number. I think there's also date-check.com. I know there are other escort blacklist sites so you should google and see what comes up.

    -Trust your gut instincts! If a guy gives you a bad feeling, do not see him.

    -Always have an exit plan. Know how to get to a safe public place in case shit hits the fan. Keep yourself between the customer and the door in case you need to run. Get paid upfront because guys WILL try to scam you.

    Whatever you wind up doing, please stay safe. Good luck! Check back in and let us know how you're doing, please.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    And always tell someone where you're going and for how long. Come up with a secret safe word to text them when you're done and safe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaninchen View Post
    I started out in this industry basically exactly like you. This was what I did:

    Step 1) Make an outcalls only profile on Craigslist
    Step 2) Drive to sketchy dude's houses and fuck them
    Step 3) Profit

    In retrospect, it was exceedingly dangerous and I'm breathtakingly lucky that nothing bad happened. If you can do anything else besides escorting like this, do it.

    However, if you truly have no other options:

    -You need to screen your clients. I've heard it's a good idea to google their phone number. I think there's also date-check.com. I know there are other escort blacklist sites so you should google and see what comes up.

    -Trust your gut instincts! If a guy gives you a bad feeling, do not see him.

    -Always have an exit plan. Know how to get to a safe public place in case shit hits the fan. Keep yourself between the customer and the door in case you need to run. Get paid upfront because guys WILL try to scam you.

    Whatever you wind up doing, please stay safe. Good luck! Check back in and let us know how you're doing, please.


    This was some of the most helpful information ever. Thank you very much for sharing! Only thing is I don't have a car so the outcall part is tricky.

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Call your safe person to check in AND have them call in 10 minutes to check on you - call them back to check out when you leave - make sure they have the address and client details -

    maybe try an agency - in call body rub facility - peep show

    anything said upthread = especially get your money UPFRONT - put it away and be sure to keep it where you can see it at ALL times - dont accept drinks from them = dont take anything into the call with you ie: money from another call - drugs ( even weed ) no need to get an additional drug charge in the unfortunate event you get busted - good luck

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Any strip clubs within close distance? Can you cam? You can sign up for daily pay if you do. Getting into sex work because of desperation is stressful enough, but escorting is crossing the final frontier. If you decide you want to do it, great-but not when you won't be as willing to turn guys down. Can you at least contact an incall agency with security under more experienced people?
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: How do you start ESCORTING independently if you have NO money for hotel room??

    Outcalls is the best method. You can even charge for travelling. I am also offering outcalls and earn much than incalls.

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    Stay safe! if you need a prepaid burner phone msg me, I have a couple on my work's group plan I can spare. (I'm in NY)
    please screen clients and nix the car dates.

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    Pro-tips- I used to do mostly outcalls via agency. Normally I tell girls to avoid agencies BUT if you need to build up a savings cushion & get yourself into other streams of income to continue escorting safely..use an agency. Most good ones know a lot of girls aren't going to stick around with them forever so they tend to treat you well at least for the first few months.

    BTW once you collect your money at outcall let the client know (in a nice way) that the agent will be checking on you & that they know where you are. This drastically reduces problems. Also don't direct text anyone your location or driver's vehicle description until you meet face to face & determine there is nothing wrong with the outcall.

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    Why can't you make getting a hotel room part of the deal? I've taken to hosting in a hotel that my first cutsie pays for. I sweet talk him into letting me use the hotel after he leaves and I continue to book other clients for tee remainder of my stay.

    As the other posters have said, screen and take care of yourself! There are a lot of creeps out there!

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    It's always scary when threads like these get started and then we never hear from the OP again. :/

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    Sometimes people just get busy or don't have affordable Internet access for a while.

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