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    Hi everyone,

    i hope you can provide me with some advice on how to handle a particular customer as he's actually pissing me off now lol. To cut a long story short, he is a regular who recently started to rate me 4 stars yet give a great comment. The first time it happened I was very surprised, he really enjoys me and in fact is the only regular to give me quite a bit of gold each time. However I remembered he asked for anal and to finger my ass which he knows I don't do so I complained to SM but they wouldn't remove it saying he left a great comment it wasn't in a derogatory way etc. I did think ok well I may strive to be a 5 star sex show gal but u can't please everyone all the time so just let it go.

    But now he's done it again so the only ppl who have rated me 4 to slightly skewer my average was a prick who did an exc for 2 mins (a general asshole I'm gonna ban if I see him again) and this guy, an apparent regular who likes me! You need a score of 4.9 to be rated excellent so funnily enough this regular got me a good rating!

    if it helps, I upped my price so he never goes excl anymore only pvt and previously it looked like he would always try to get me in pvt alone but tonight was the first time he was in pvt while I was entertaining another guy too. However I got the impression he was trying to ruin my popularity with others so it's easier for him to get an individual pvt at the old excl price. So do you guys think he's being a prick or honestly should I just accept it as I get long privates and gold from him? It's just I would have thought regulars would automatically give 5 seeing as they keep cumming back for more - pun intended lol

    thanks in advance and sorry for the long post hehe!! Xxx

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    If he's one of only a few real customers, that 4 stars can actually become damaging in the long run if he keeps giving it to you. If he is gaming the rating system, then it is some kind of control-freaky stuff to put you on the back pages and ensure you're only available to him when he comes by. I would personally just ban him unless he is supporting you with 80%+ of your camming income.

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    Hi Katy,

    Thanks for helping me out yet again lol. That was my exact thought because once I upped my price he never went exclusive and when I'm entertaining other men I see him pop in and out like he wants me all to himself, though today he happily was with another guy and gave gold and even said awesome show so I genuinly thought today I pleased him enough to get a 5!!

    I really know I shouldn't but I'm gonna ask him why and will try to say something along the lines like do it again and I won't play aka ban lol but it does feel a bit conniving myself ie give me 5 star or no play lol. Anyway I know it might not be the best move but will let you know what he says lol. Thanks again KB!! Xxx

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    I don't think the customers realize how important the rating system is. They see a 4 star rating as good, nearly perfect, and 5 star is reserved for absolutely perfect or something. They either don't realize how badly a 4 star rating can impact a model, or they do and they like having that power. That's one thing that I've always hated about Streammate, that they put so much on those 5 stupid stars.

    Have you told him how what may seem like a small thing to him is actually a big problem for you? Of course it could be exactly like KB said and it could be a control thing, but you never know.

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    The one guy took you private for 2 minutes and left you a 4* rating? Fuck that noise and just block him already. What you made off him is not worth the headache and potential to mess up your rating.

    If it was me, I'd block him from chat. If he drops you a message asking why he's blocked, you can explain to him it's disappointing that he feels the need to leave you 4* and explain what it does to your ratings score. He will either be understanding and apologetic, or get bent. If he gets bent, tell him it's obvious he's clearly not fully satisfied with his paid shows, so he is welcome to check out the hundreds of other girls available on the site that might have to offer him what is looking for to full satisfaction and good luck with his search.

    Some guys don't know that the ratings they leave have a direct impact on your cam rating, so far it's a customer worth givin a second chance and explaining it to them do that, otherwise block and move along to someone else.

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    Thanks guy I've sent him a message - so will let you know what my favourite tipping wanker says ha xxx

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    Has he ever messaged you? If so, send him a message letting him know why it's not cool to leave 4 star reviews. If he apologizes and stops leaving bad reviews, he can live to be banned another day. If not, ban him from messages, then go into your block list and ban him completely. If he hasn't messaged you yet, see if you can get him to message you. Much easier to ban/un-ban that way.


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    Thanks, I have just messaged him so will let you know what he says. I guess I just wanted to know was I being too fussy thinking of getting arsy with a guy who spends quite a bit on me just for the sake of him not giving me a 5 star rating. Obviously there is the fact it affects ratings but 4 star is still good I guess, but know I will get harder on him as I think he is strangely addicted to me but not enough to pay to go excl at my new rate - FOOL lol

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    I'd ban him. Couldn't bring myself to do shows for him knowing I'd get a 4. If he doesn't enjoy you enough to rate 5, then why does he keep coming back? Wanker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vlodina View Post
    I'd ban him. Couldn't bring myself to do shows for him knowing I'd get a 4. If he doesn't enjoy you enough to rate 5, then why does he keep coming back? Wanker.
    He might not understand. Where is he from? Could be a cultural thing. For example, when I visited Japan and was looking at reviews for restaurants on TripAdvisor, there were many that gave a 5 star review in English, but I rarely saw a review in Japanese for 5 stars for anything. I know there aren't lot of guys fron Japan on SM, but he might just be finickey about 5 star ratings in general. Doesn't hurt to try to explain why it's so important.
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    Ban him. Immediately.





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    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    He might not understand. Where is he from? Could be a cultural thing. For example, when I visited Japan and was looking at reviews for restaurants on TripAdvisor, there were many that gave a 5 star review in English, but I rarely saw a review in Japanese for 5 stars for anything. I know there aren't lot of guys fron Japan on SM, but he might just be finickey about 5 star ratings in general. Doesn't hurt to try to explain why it's so important.
    Perhaps.
    I ban anyone who rates anything less than 5.

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    Hi girls, thanks for responding. I just woke up and no response so maybe he knows the game is up. Annoyingly during the show he did say he wouldn't be able to see me until April which I didn't think much of at the time, I think he is busy. Truth is from what you guys are saying in that you would ban him immediately I def feel I let him get away with treating me like shit, basically exploiting me. I let my greed (well wanting to keep a regular who pays well) fall into his trap, I mean I knew he genuinely must think it's a 5 star show as he sees me regularly and is the ONLY guy who tips me each performance.

    I did ask SM to remove the first 4 star but they wouldn't as the comment was great so the same thing goes with this comment too. It was my fault for not calling him out on it the first time so lesson duly learnt lol.
    By the way I seriously doubt it's anything cultural as he is of Indian origin but living in Australia. As I am of Bengali origin I am really popular with men from South East Asia and they can be very generous, though annoyingly this prick was the most generous grrr!!

    Anyway thanks for your help, I probably won't see him for some time anyway but if I do see him in April I will tell him no play until he gets his act together ha! Xxx

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    If you don't see him until April then his rating will have dropped off (it only counts for either 90 days or until he rates again) so be careful.x

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vlodina View Post
    Perhaps.
    I ban anyone who rates anything less than 5.
    Me too lol. I get seriously offended

    But if it's a reg who brings me lots of money I'd probably hesitate.
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