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    One of my regs talks to me everyday about general shit, yet will only do a show with me once or twice a month and im sick of it. He used to buy shows way more before. Usually id ban a guy who chats all the time and won't pay, but with him I'd feel bad about banning cause he's helped me through some depression i was going through in the past. Yesterday i called him out about always making excuses when i ask him if he wants a show, and all he did was say more excuses lol. He always talks about sex to me or asks to do pic exchanges, so i thought why not ask him to play? Everytime i ask, he suddenly vanishes then will act like nothing happened the next day. How should i handle this?

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    Default Re: regulars wasting time on skype

    See this thread about the same topic: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...show-bookings&

    Short answer: if he disappears when you bring up doing a show, do the bare minimum amount of polite small talk (e.g. how are you?), and then find a polite and encouraging way to ask if he wants a show. Either he'll take you up on it, or he'll dash and stop wasting your time.

    Also, wtf is a "pic exchange"? Surely he doesn't think he can pay for pics of you with pics of himself...?
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    Default Re: regulars wasting time on skype

    You said that he hasn't been buying shows (not sure what site you're on). Does he at least tip you small amounts in public chat?
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    Default Re: regulars wasting time on skype

    Yeah, that's called a freeloader milking your time to get off for free OR, possibly, a regular who figures he's 'paid his dues' in shows in the past and that you're now 'friends' who hang out and, on occasion, share dirty pics for free so he can get off without paying. Either way, that's a freeloader and you need to retrain his ass right the fuck now.

    The next time he hits you up, I suggest responding with 'Hey X. What kinda show are you in the mood for today?' When he inevitably ignores that or gives excuses or ANYTHING, the only thing I suggest responding back with is 'okay, let me know when you're ready to buy a show. I gotta take care of other customers now. Talk later!' Now ignore his ass entirely. Remember: he's getting off on free attention and wasting your time! He doesn't deserve more than the above two lines from you, period.

    If he continues to hit you up without buying more than once or twice after you are all business, just ban his ass without explanation. He's clearly not going to spend.

    If he starts spending again after you remind him that it's all business, relax a bit and maybe answer the 'how are you questions?' in short form, but always follow them up with 'what kind of show do you want?' and vanish after 2-3 replies. This is business, not a dating service.


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    If a regular comes into my room and says he just popped in to say hello and isn't going to go pvt, I tell him "I'll let you get away with it this time because you usually go pvt" and I smile, so he doesn't think I'm being bitchy. If the same person comes in again and doesn't go pvt, I tell him "hmmm, seems like you're just coming in to say hello these days. If that happens again, I'm going to start kicking you out"

    Usually the person will go pvt the next time and if he doesn't, I do block.

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    i take them off my contact list once they do that. They know how to contact me for a show. Luckily I have several that understand I'm not an internet girlfriend.





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    My chat is a revolving door it always leads back to one thing ... Are you ready for a show? ...no.. Oh okay Hun let me know when your ready

    And believe me even with that I hVe guys who will keep coming back with the same closing over n over... Like don't u get I don't do small talk??

    Also another thing I like to do if they do not want a show but I realize they really like to chat when they don't want a show I use that as a time to offer my kik or phone number for casual pressure free chatting ...lol which basically hints that I'm not gonna chat for free...but if u pay me I'll keep pretending I want to
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    Stop giving him attention. It doesn't matter how many shows he USED to buy. What matters is how much of your time he IS wasting without paying. You teach people how to treat you.
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    Everyday I cam I do Skype shows. If ur not talking about doing a show with me then we have nothing to talk about. Every once in a while I will add someone knew to Skype and if they start bugging me etc then I instantly block.

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    Default Re: regulars wasting time on skype

    Shoot him a camming eviction notice that you're cleaning your list out to those who haven't purchased in the past 72 hours and who you don't feel will make any recent purchases. You'll be amazed at who opens their wallets after finding out they're not making the cut. Once they see that ? near your name they get in their feelings and usually book a show ASAP to stay on.

    Tell him as much as you've enjoyed previous fun with him, you must follow your business model and deal with clients and future clients on a sexy, but professional level. This means time is money.




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    When I have skype on in the background, I have my "do not disturb" status on. That way they know I'm only there for shows, not chatting. They can still send a message if they want but I won't be disturbed by it and they know I won't respond straight away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Stop giving him attention. It doesn't matter how many shows he USED to buy. What matters is how much of your time he IS wasting without paying. You teach people how to treat you.
    This. Be prepared to drop him unless he starts paying for your time.
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    Stop answering him about his sex talk, Ignore that. ...Ask him if he wants a show right away.. keep it short and quick. and move on.. Drop it, Leave it, Let it go!

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    One of my regs talks to me everyday about general shit, yet will only do a show with me once or twice a month and im sick of it. He used to buy shows way more before. Usually id ban a guy who chats all the time and won't pay, but with him I'd feel bad about banning cause he's helped me through some depression i was going through in the past. Yesterday i called him out about always making excuses when i ask him if he wants a show, and all he did was say more excuses lol. He always talks about sex to me or asks to do pic exchanges, so i thought why not ask him to play? Everytime i ask, he suddenly vanishes then will act like nothing happened the next day. How should i handle this?

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    I had a reg like that on skype. He got few warnings, after that I banned him no return. I explained it more than once to him, he kept doing that shit so he cant blame anyone aside himself.

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