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    Well, sorry to hear about the obstacles you've been having however you just have to quit lying. Quit drinking wine, get off Facebook, and quit hanging around loser friends. And how does a random person get a picture of you like that???

    You either need to take certain things to the grave and tell no one (which only works if there is slim to no chance anyone will find out) OR be honest upfront (which is the better way to go because you have the power and no one can hold any secrets over your head)
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Thanks. That's all I needed to hear I guess. That happened like 5 years ago, and at the time we were friends, I let him take a picture for memories because it was gnarly looking.

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    Default Re: delete this?

    Telling the truth or coming forward with the truth isn't always easy, especially not the first time. It seems like he was just coping with a loss of innocence in your relationship. In hindsight you probably could have cleared the air earlier. In fact, you might take the time to do so now, especially if nothing else is as ugly as what you already shared with him (so he'll just have one healing process for it all). He'll come around when he processes it and then he gets comfortable that you love him and that you are being honest and open with him going forward (this will take some time, a few months at least). As fiances (and later spouses ) you should feel like you can bring things up to each other. It's certainly easier to keep ones mouth shut than it is to be fully honest (I should know), but I wouldn't have it any other way.

    I tend to go along the lines of the old testament guidelines for a husband and he should be more of a supporter and a leader. So him saying you need professional help it sort of a dick move, IMO. Though I am inclined to give him a pass, due to his loss of innocence about the relationship. I think that's why he's preoccuppied with "the lies" (more than anything) rather than focusing on the "revealed truths". He'll come around. I don't know how old you are but I know I wasn't perfect at 25 either.
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