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    I saw my regular on Thursday and it was a pretty normal session. He wasn't sure about this week, so we agreed that we would talk on Monday and make plans. He also called me after he got home, just to tell me that he loves that he could still smell my perfume.

    I called him yesterday and left a message. He's usually really good about returning my calls but... Nothing. He hasn't called the club either. I called him today and... No answer.

    I'm worried. He's in his late 60's, has a drinking problem (he's brought it up several times) and isn't in the best of health. He's been my regular for the better part of a year and I've grown to genuinely care about him.

    It could be that he's just not interested anymore and doesn't know how to tell me that. But, given his health concerns, I really fear that something happened to him.

    What do I do, besides wait and hope that he's ok?

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    Do you happen to know his address? You could call his local police department and say that you are a friend that lives out of town, haven't heard from him, and that because of his age are concerned. Request that someone on patrol just swing by and check on him.

    If there is an issue, you may be the only one noticing. If there is nothing wrong, no harm done.

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    I do. I could go up and check on him myself but... That seems a little too stalkerish. He has an assistant, physical therapist, housekeeper and others who come by daily, so he's not isolated. But he could be sitting in the hospital right now and, as he's the only one who has my number, wouldn't know how to get in touch with me.

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    Oh, ok. If he has that many people helping him, I would just wait for him to respond. He'll get the message and see that you were attempting to contact him. If he had a minor emergency you'll hear from him when he gets well enough, if he isn't trying to sever ties without "hurting your feelings".

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    Yeah, I think that's the best idea. I may send him a card saying something to the effect of "Hey, I care about you. Let me know that you're ok." and leave it at that.

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    He called me a few minutes ago. I may not see him for a little bit but he's ok. Whew!

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