Thank you
Thank you
Last edited by cupcakex13; 02-03-2016 at 05:23 PM. Reason: Someone else would see
He has collected a great deal and claims he has turned it into a paper weight as soon as I get elsewhere I will wipe it, but read me stuff verbatim on his tablet I'd like to call bullshit I wish. Thotelanks
File a restraining order. Hire a lawyer if you can. Cyberstalking is a crime and you'll need a lawyer to help punish him for what he's doing to you.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”
Let the police know ASAP. Chances are they won't take any action because they don't know much about cyber crime, but MAKE them write it all down and give you a copy of the report. Now you have a paper trail of his harassment and extortion/blackmail attempt. He has possibly broken privacy and property ownership laws, depending on where you are.
Then contact a legal clinic. There may be some free or low cost ones run by a big university near you. They can give you advice. You can't retain them, but they should be able to help you out with information. And in a case like this where your ex is going to squeeze you, you have to fight back with everything you have. Become as educated as you possibly can about the laws regarding keylogging and extortion. Nail the son of a bitch. No need for a lawyer unless it gets really serious - they're just dudes who know the law and are paid by lazy people who don't care to educate themselves.
After that, you need to sit in a quiet room and figure out whether you can afford to let everyone know what you do for a living so possible future attempts of jackasses trying to out you to your loved ones won't work. When you're shameless about something, you literally can't be shamed by anyone else. If you believe you might be excommunicated by your family, friends and/or significant other, it may be time to reconsider whether they're worth keeping. If these people aren't broadminded enough to understand that you don't judge the ones you truly love, are they really adding anything to your life? Really think about that. I've cut my own mother, father, and sister out of my life as they were the most judgmental and toxic people I knew, and let me tell you - I don't miss them as much as I thought I would. I genuinely feel better and have less anxiety. Sometimes they drift back into my life, but not for long because I've learned from my prior mistakes - you can't change people or expect them to apologize.
If you have kids with this chucklefuck, I'm so so *so* sorry. He must be a shitty father. (Sorry for the assumption, but I honestly can't see a world where a man willing to blackmail someone he once claimed to love would be a genuinely good father.) Try to not poison your kids against him, because you want to be above him. He might sling all sort of mud, but you don't have to. Be smart, don't give him any reason to fuck with your life. It might be tempting to let one slip, but it's not worth it. Your kids also deserve to have one good parent.
Also wipe your computer like audritwo said. Then change all of your passwords on every single website you're on. If a site has security settings, set everything to the strictest setting you can so that mofo can't muscle his way in...he clearly knows enough about computers to know how to install a keylogger, so you can't underestimate his skills. Try to learn as much as you can about internet safety. Make your passwords different on every site you're on, something only you would know.
Good luck!
This is customer information from camming he is wanting to use. Skype names etc to let them know I was married a liar etc.. my family knows and doesn't care since it's provided for our family.
Phone numbers sent on site email to me when that happens, it's inevitable for the ones who do not listen. He claims he will let the sites know he has the personal information on customers and I "gave it to him". I'm so in shock , and yes to do that since we had kids just not together to mine going forward in the future is pretty fucked should he get me in trouble. I will take these steps thank you so much!!!
You do need to report this and save ALL exchanges from him, but honestly I highly doubt he will even attempt to use any of this information and even if he tried the sites he will try to talk to will not listen to him. I wouldn't worry about it too much, but you do need to make sure you reset all of your accounts, new passwords, emails, etc. Anything he might have had access to and restore your devices like phone or computers.
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