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    Default Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    Is this possible? Its my goal to be high-end but through research have found that most women who are (especially if their women of color) tend to be GFE/ porn star status.

    Currently, I do not kiss (and if I do, No tongue), allow BBBJ, fingering, or Greek. I'm a bare minimum, the less risks the better type of worker but am wondering how far I will get in acquiring high-end clients with such limitations.

    Why do they want to kiss anyway? Like WTF! Isn't that what their wives are for? Anyway, I digress..

    thoughts?

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    When I was working like that, I left the choice of CBJ vs BBBJ to the client. I'd say less than a third actually wanted BBBJs. Nobody wanted greek or fingering. Most wanted kissing. If you'd rather not even go there, just do extremely heavy duty fetish work and brand yourself brilliantly. I posted in another thread about just how difficult and counterproductive it is to do legit high-end rather than expensive hourly work.

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    98% want kissing. They don't want to feel like they paid for the service and that is basically the only way for them to get around that feeling.

    The only way to get around majority wanting kissing is to do domination or fetish-heavy sessions that include sex. If you don't want to do that, there's GFE light which is mostly kissing without DFK, but most do want kissing.

    You won't book nearly as many of those as you would a normal escorting session unless you have a big following from the internet though. Its much more work and exposure, which is why I don't do it.

    Kissing is probably the worst thing about escorting and what I'm guessing is the #1 reason why there aren't more women escorting. Kissing is more intimate than sex IMO.

    Most also want BBBJ as it is standard. However, I think you can get around this (those guys won't book you if your reviews say CBJ) if you put on a really good show doing other things and have good reviews off that. But kissing, that's almost impossible to not do.

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    Quote Originally Posted by abarrett View Post
    I posted in another thread about just how difficult and counterproductive it is to do legit high-end rather than expensive hourly work.


    How so? The way I see it, the less clients (but higher pay) the better...

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    98% want kissing. They don't want to feel like they paid for the service and that is basically the only way for them to get around that feeling.

    The only way to get around majority wanting kissing is to do domination or fetish-heavy sessions that include sex.

    Kissing is probably the worst thing about escorting and what I'm guessing is the #1 reason why there aren't more women escorting. Kissing is more intimate than sex IMO.
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    oddly enough, I'd be open to piss but don't want to exclude myself from "normal" clients. And interesting about how kissing turns escorts off. White men (obviously the highest percentage of most escort clients I would think, always want to kiss. Black clients tend to be okay without it, especially younger men of color in general, I've found.

    Anyway, to my understanding, there isn't a high chance of catching stds (herpes, etc) from kissing, right?

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    At least 90 % of high end clients want GFE which means kissing and bbbj.
    The only ( sort of ) high end gal who doesn't kiss or do bbbj that I can think of is Priya Rai and nobody is busting down her door to see her.

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    At least 90 % of high end clients want GFE which means kissing and bbbj.
    In my experience this is absolutely true. You will not attract high end clients and definitely not get repeat high end clients without going full GFE. When you're not the new girl anymore, repeat clients is where the money comes from.

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    Default Re: Becoming High End with Limitations (No BBBJ, etc)

    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    Anyway, to my understanding, there isn't a high chance of catching stds (herpes, etc) from kissing, right?
    Well the chances are increased the more you do it.

    You can catch herpes type 1 - herpes simplex virus (aka cold sores), herpes type 4 - Epstein Barr virus (aka mono aka the kissing disease), colds, flu, etc. all from kissing.

    You are wise to want to avoid doing something that could increase your chances of contracting something, especially if there is no cure yet.

    You can look for signs and symptoms someone may have something (like blisters around their mouth,etc) and avoid kissing if you see anything out of the ordinary but it's not foolproof as there is something called asymptomatic shedding and people can look well but really be sick.
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