Ok so I am so busy thinking about lots of things going on in my life that I don't remember one of my family members birthday.
Anyhow I feel like it may be an argument but I want to avoid if possible and wondering what to do about this birthday situation.
So She text me talking about some "oh I guess you forgot his birthday the other day, you must not have done anything to help you to remember" and I haven't responded because 1) yes its partly my fault for not remembering but 2) I feel like if the bitch really cared about someone remembering his birthday she would have messaged like 'hey heads up everyone, its my husbands birthday be sure to message him' in advance or at least the day of.
I loathe when people try to pull passive aggressive moves / guilt trips. I feel like she intentionally didn't say anything about his birthday to see who all would remember and who would forget then run a guilt trip on the pitiful souls who forgot and slick be like 'after everything we've done for you how could you forget' type level.
Am I going overboard? Should I ignore her message or respectfully say something about her message?
*Thanks so much for the helpful responses*



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I will be able to tell within the next several days.



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