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    So my coworker at the club called me last night to party with two of her customers. Basically what happened is we met up with them at 8 a.m. at their hotel room and left at 1:30 p.m. We both didn't sleep that night and were VERY tired when we came to the hotel room. The customers didn't want sex, all they wanted were girls to party with, so we spent most of the time talking, dancing, and doing a fucking shit ton of coke. At first the customers gave me $500, then an extra $340 to stay longer. Me and the girl took a break to buy some blunt wraps and alcohol and we were discussing prices amongst ourselves. We decided to ask for $1000 to stay longer. We go back, get the money, and party with them some more. By now I feel like I'm fucking dying. I'm totally sleep deprived and coked out, I want to go home, so her and I leave together. She tells me that she got $3000 out of them and I only got $1840, minus the $100 I spent on alcohol and blunt wraps. I feel like fucking shit when I get home, by far the worst hang over/coke over that I've ever experienced. Anyways like 9 hours later she texts me that usually when she hooks girls up with customers, they give her something in return. I tell her that I never knew she wanted a finders fee and that I thought we were "friends". Couple texts later she tells me that she wants me to give her $200. I think that this is bull shit, but then again, I don't really know "the game" too well. Is this normal? What I don't understand is why she didn't tell me from the get go that she wants me to tip her because this was totally sprung on me and I had no idea that she expected me to give her money. We had time when we bought the alcohol and discussed prices to go over this. Why would she wait so long to ask me for money? I have a feeling that she has a boyfriend pimp from the stories she tells me, plus other girls at the club think she is pimped too. I think that her pimp told her to ask me for money or else she would have asked me from the get go. Also I'm super pissed that she's telling me this after. Like wtf? Why didn't you tell me earlier so I could of asked them for more money when we were negotiating prices? I feel like $1740 for 5.5 hours of work is already low, mainly because I was super fucking tired and didn't sleep all night. And if I give her $200, I would have only left with $1540 and I feel like I'm being played. Please tell me your opinions. Is it expected to tip the girl who brings you along, even though I thought she was my "friend"? Well not a real friend, but a stripper friend. Honestly I wouldn't be so pissed if she told me from the beginning, so I could of asked for more money or at least not have stayed for so long. Plus I think $200 is a bit high. She expects more than 10% of my money AND she made over $1000 more than me! We still work at the same club together, so I definitely don't want any drama between us.

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    I wouldn't give her $200. I wouldn't care if that made her mad either, because I would do my best to avoid her and her hook ups in the future. Not only was she not upfront about it, but as you've pointed out, if she's telling the truth, she already got ~$1200 more than you. The customers basically paid her "finder's fee" sixfold, so she can cry into that if she has a problem with you not falling for her sketchy demands.

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    Ugh, yuck. You don't owe her anything. Whenever I have clients who want another girl, I go out of my way to make sure she's accommodated, even if that means taking less than my hourly rate to keep it even. Yeah, she got you work, but you did her a favor by showing her clients that she can deliver when they make special requests, making them more likely to return to her.

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    For me personally it depends on the nature of my relationship with the other gal. If we are friends, its more of "just remember me next time" sort of thing.

    If its someone I dont know well and i am working with the first time, I might ask a small prenegoitated finder's fee or if the other gal hooked me up, I will pass on a few bucks. If someone asked me for money from nowhere, I may or may not pay up but you better believe I'd never work with them again. If there was no agreement in place you should all just keep what you made.
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    Hell no. She got way more than you to begin with, you were stuck there just as long as she was.
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    Well I think she should have let you know upfront. That's messy, she's been doing this longer than you and should know better than to ask for fees the next damn day?!? Tell her sorry but you've already put the money into a mutual fund or IRA or some account that you can't withdraw from without penalty. Or you could mess with her and be like sorry I gave it all to my pimp, if you want 200 then you'll need to contact Tyrone lol!

    If you don't want to cause a rift, just ask her when her birthday is and buy her a nice gift.

    I just think she's crazy asking you for a tip/finders fee - when she clearly got that from the guys. I think of a tip or finders fee going to people who didn't get paid at all by the clients, like a madam or agency owner who will take their cut before paying you out because without that they wouldn't make anything. This is not the case she's just being greedy now.
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    No. It's not fair. You should've made the same amount as her. I would tell her to fuck off. You got paid half the amount for entertaining these guys for 5 fkn hours. She can shove it. She hustled you! Let her know that.

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    I have had girls try to do that to me. Either pay her and tell her to tell you upfront next time, as long as you want her to book more of those for you guys, or don't pay her and expect her not to book those for you ever again. You can justify it as "If I knew I had to pay you, I would have obviously asked them for more money." Its not fair, but that's how they work.

    Be glad she didn't try to set you up for more than you were aware of, like sex. To be honest, she probably does undercover madam stuff like that too.

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    I agree it's not fair but if you really think she's being pimped out I would probably give her the 200 and cut ties after. But I'm a wuss.
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    Do you really think she got $3000 out of them tho? I mean people lie and maybe she was just trying to hype herself up or wanted to see what you would say. And like you said time did go by. Enough time for her to realize how much money she didn't make and then come for you for you because she's mad. "I hooked that little bish up and she pulled all the damn money..." I mean wanting 200 after you made 3000 is greedy and dumb. If anything she got that much because she brought you along. If she had gone alone they would have brought in another girl that would have worked against her all night long. I wouldn't fuck with that one again if I were you.

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    Ok thanks ladies! She told me got $3000 out of it, but I don't really know because I didn't see her and the customers exchange money. I think I'm done with her, I do not like partying like that anyways. I just want us to be civil at the club. I'm going to tell her that I feel like I'm being played. If she wanted me to tip her she should have told me from the beginning so I could of asked for more money or at the very least left earlier.

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    And I'm not scared of her pimp. He's a lame ass boyfriend pimp who doesn't work, doesn't have a car, and can't bother to even pick his bitch up from the club with her car. He's not going to do anything to me.

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