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    The mask was more an idea on how to offer something more for exclusive. I only had 1 show where they wanted it off granted he only lasted a few minutes lol. He is the one who gave me a 5.

    I see where u are coming from with the rates. When I did some research it was during the day time where loads of euro girls do shows for next to $1 a min and I didnt want to go that low. As I need to make something. Plus I thought more would want a block session. Its a shame I cant sell my first on cam orgasum. Just as I get into a 8 min show they leave. Still I made about $55 from my first week and the lessons I learnt are worth way more than that. I would have thought the 4 stars would put people off and am happy to grind it through

    Its a shame Streamate dont have a intermodel chat to help kill the waiting. I will take a look at adult work as well. I do worry about being recognised from the free chat tho. cant think of anything worse than knowing a freeloader.

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    Yes I would lose the mask. My big spenders fall in love with my face more than my body. And yes RAISE those rates!! I don't charge as much as I should, and I do it a little bit different. I charge $5.99 for private and $3.99 for exclusive. I just tell them what I do best I do one on one. Sometimes a dumbass still takes me private and that is always fun, but most guys are smart enough to go exclusive and I never ever have to deal with peepers.

    You will have lots of on cam orgasms as you build your clientele. Would you like me to peep in your room and give you some feedback? I'm not like a rockstar camgirl or anything but I do pretty ok most nights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by notameercat View Post
    I'm a BBW and I work both SM and AW, and I totally agree that you would benefit from raising your prices. My private is $4.49, and my exclusive is $5.99 and definitely get more than one show a week. In fact, I do better now as an alt looking BBW, than I ever did as a "vanilla" looking in-betweeny girl. (when I started camming I was a UK size 10-12, I'm now about an 18-20)

    As Sloth says, guys who are into BBW's are really into all the bits society tells us are the least sexy - most of my regulars LOVE my big belly and the way it hangs down - so make sure you keep those rolls and folds covered up unless someone is paying for them!


    Quote Originally Posted by Selenasecret View Post
    The mask was more an idea on how to offer something more for exclusive. I only had 1 show where they wanted it off granted he only lasted a few minutes lol. He is the one who gave me a 5.

    I see where u are coming from with the rates. When I did some research it was during the day time where loads of euro girls do shows for next to $1 a min and I didnt want to go that low. As I need to make something. Plus I thought more would want a block session. Its a shame I cant sell my first on cam orgasum. Just as I get into a 8 min show they leave. Still I made about $55 from my first week and the lessons I learnt are worth way more than that. I would have thought the 4 stars would put people off and am happy to grind it through

    Its a shame Streamate dont have a intermodel chat to help kill the waiting. I will take a look at adult work as well. I do worry about being recognised from the free chat tho. cant think of anything worse than knowing a freeloader.
    I am also UK size 18-20 and tall, i was very skinny when i started 15 years ago tho i value my work & performance & ask for 5 GOLD for flashing, if a guy sends me 1-2 GOLD on his own when i state clearly in my room topic i charge 5 for flashes i tell him it's an insult to tip me a $1 or $2 LOL UNLESS he is doing what this guy did, tip me 1 GOLD constantly for teasing and flashing in freechat, that was fun to be tipped 31 times like that, when he stopped tipping i stopped teasing, see the print screen, is the same guy, also see the time he tipped, it was at very short intervals.

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    See also i get 30 cent for each dollar people spend on me, this is SM's policy for non-western countries , that's why i say it's very important where u from on SM, western girls CAN charge more & ARE PAID more (in percent by the site & by the members) compared with other nationals; there are gorgeous slim girls in certain countries who have pretty low prices & this is not cause they dont want more money, is because members dont value them the same like a western girl, that's why u'll see a western BBW charging & getting good money per min compared with the models who live in certain regions, it's sad but true, most times western models dont even realize what an advantage this is for them (i am 'non-western' by the way, just for the record )

    Another thing, on SM u'll be paid in US dollars & need to consider the exchange rate, u are getting 70 sterling pound for 100$ or so?! while on AW u can charge 2-2.5-3 pound a minute & get them in ur currency? AW is british oriented and the british models there are doing great while models like me ... models in my region charge 1 pound a min or less cause members wont pay more & site shows real location so there is no way around that really so i dont cam on AW, i tried & got turned off by prices/ location thing.
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    - block sessions, let them sell to the people who want them, u make more from regular pvt.
    - to sell 1st real orgasm on cam? Who cares, lol? Orgasms can be faked, focus on making the money from shows no matter how real or fake ur orgasms are
    - being recognized, we all worry but we take the risk, we assume this together with the decision to cam; i had somebody call me on my real official name in freechat on SM, i freaked out a little but got over it, i still dont know who it was so yeah, it comes with the job.
    - a tip for BBW's who wear bra & panties only in freechat, same like notameercat said above, dont wear just that pls, cover the body with a nightie or dress, dont show these guys everything they wanna see for free, it turns off the guys who are not into BBW's and gives BBW lovers free wanking material, just COVER UP PLS

    Yeah, many things to consider, right?
    Enough said now, back to my pc game, is sunday & my eve off so i got time to write these all LOL, i hope it helps

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    I like the mask. It goes well with the name. Maybe you can put on a show in free chat where the big reveal happens in private? But play it up big time. Make sure you look expensive and tease the fuck out of them. Use that British accent to your advantage. Know anything about the Burlesque culture? Get yourself some props to use while you tease. Fetishes? Which ones do you know? You're profile doesn't have any popular keywords that guys search for. This is another reason why the right men aren't coming into your room.

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    How do the keywords work. One guy tagged me a bbw blonde and stuff I thought that is what they search for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by notameercat View Post
    I'm a BBW and I work both SM and AW, and I totally agree that you would benefit from raising your prices. My private is $4.49, and my exclusive is $5.99 and definitely get more than one show a week.
    I have the exact same rates and I usually make about $100 in a couple hours.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selenasecret View Post
    How do the keywords work. One guy tagged me a bbw blonde and stuff I thought that is what they search for.
    YOu include them in your bio for now.

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    Echoing what the others said, don't compare yourself to other ladies. Last year this time I could barely stand to look at myself in the mirror,let alone play with myself on cam. I never thought that I could be this awesome baddie who commands money from men. But I do,and so can you. The most attractive thing you can wear is confidence,whether skinny\fat,tall\short,or whatever color your complexion. I've only been at this for a month,i was nervous when I started but when guys come in my room I give the "you know you want me" or "i'm hot shit and you better recognize it" look. I even had a guy come in and say ah hell nah.Last year i would have crumpled like paper, this time i didn't give it a second look. Matter of fact my "haughty" got turned up because there is always someone looking and that shit wasn't going to get me down and mess up my flow.Oh and make eye contact with the cam as you are talking, it makes them feel like you're speaking to them,and dont allow them to make you feel like you owe them something cause they came to see you. The came to a pay site,they know what's up, so make a point to remind them of that fact. Now I will admit I sometimes get up and dance even though I know some may be wanking for free off of it,i like to move around esp since i have nerve issues in my legs and feet,but generally they would off of panty mags if they thought it would work lol.

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    What I have learned from SM, just from poking around all these years:

    There is a market for skinny girls, curvy girls, fat girls, redheads, blondes, brunnettes, alternative girls, goth girls, girl next door, sassy girls, older girls, younger girls, shy girls, loud girls, smoking girls, drugged out girls, trashy girls...EVERY type of girl.

    You just have to OWN whatever kind(s) of girl you are and be patient enough to not give it all away for free while trying to tempt these boys...

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    This is a sales job, there is no such thing as a free loader... it is your job to convert him into a sale.

    Is that you in the avatar? A pic should be self-confident, sexy, warm welcoming... slumpt shoulders is a NO-NO, you must smile, smile must reach the eyes. Hands read 'unsure', you got all dollied up but the inner dialog in body language says the opposite

    Sometimes a person has to fake self-confidence until they have it.

    How much reading did u do on sales & hustle?

    Last sales job you had, how good were you?

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    Last job was indeed sales. Just have to get used to me being the product / brochure / seller. Rather than being just the carrier element

    I am reading up on the hustle and getting better at getting them in. Its the bit I lack. and I hold my hands up to that. I will be on tonight. If anyone could pop in and take a quick look that would be great. Feedback from the ones who had shows is positive then even come back for pillow talk after. I gotta own this shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    A pic should be self-confident, sexy, warm welcoming... slumpt shoulders is a NO-NO, you must smile, smile must reach the eyes.?
    Oddly, I think about Tyra Banks and smizing. I find it helps

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selenasecret View Post
    Last job was indeed sales. Just have to get used to me being the product / brochure / seller. Rather than being just the carrier element

    I am reading up on the hustle and getting better at getting them in. Its the bit I lack. and I hold my hands up to that. I will be on tonight. If anyone could pop in and take a quick look that would be great. Feedback from the ones who had shows is positive then even come back for pillow talk after. I gotta own this shit.
    Maybe, try writing down some things you really love about yourself on post it notes around your workspace. Then when you look at them you will smile or feel better. For myself, even though I am an incredibly large chested woman I find that if I focus on working my eyes (what I think is my standout physical trait) then I achieve more sales. Also, helps that I have a bit of a quirky personality. Find what is unique/interesting about yourself so you can stand out from the pack.

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    I got the confidence. I need to get this hustle and patience down. To be fair reviewing the videos I do slump a bit when so need to stop being disapointed that a conversation that was going so well ends up in the guy logging out. Just annoys me when they are asking what will I do and agree then log out.

    I am hot enough and my show is hot enough or guys woyldnt be blowing their loads. I so gonna own it tonight grrrr.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selenasecret View Post
    I got the confidence. I need to get this hustle and patience down. To be fair reviewing the videos I do slump a bit when so need to stop being disapointed that a conversation that was going so well ends up in the guy logging out. Just annoys me when they are asking what will I do and agree then log out.

    I am hot enough and my show is hot enough or guys woyldnt be blowing their loads. I so gonna own it tonight grrrr.
    You might be giving too many details. I usually get them to tell me what they want and give simply yes or no answers and say we can discuss more in private or exclusive.

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    Yeah I spent all day ready hustle posts. I need to keep it simple and I updated my profile to howfully get more into me men or women.

    Here we go again ladies good luck with tonights fishing xx

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    Can someone just pop in my room? I am getting loads of requests but the guy vanishes. Am I being too sexual

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    I would lose the mask. Camming is pretty personal. Dudes come to us to have a one on one experience. The mask may make it harder for members to get off to.

    If you are trying to disguise yourself. Use makeup. Do a different makeup routine, learn how to contour. If you don't know how, there are so many makeup tutorials on youtube.

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    Yeah I guess your right. I tried up close tonight but everytime someone went private they left the room. and was more direct to steer them towards private. Just everytime they ask if I will go private they just quit out on me

    Guess trying to add a mystery for them was a bad idea

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    I haven't seen you live yet, but I am wondering how much you show in free chat? Your bio pic is gorgeous, however you are topless. Lots of girls do have topless bio pics but for me personally I like to charge them to see that. I'm wondering if seeing too much for free is affecting your income? Just a thought. We have about the same size boobs but I am bigger overall and I still make them pay to see it. BTW obsessed with your tatts. Stunning work.

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    Lol thanks. I had it done a few years ago. during the week I am limited to 6-10pm as the hubbie has to get up at 4am for work.

    My reg who is waiting for payday came in last night and got me to sit right up to the camera which helped alot. So I think they are wanking and finishing as they can see to much. So the camera is dominated by my head rather than all my body. I think I been giving it away for free to much. as my reg says takes him a good 15 min to get there others may only need a min. if its slow tonight I might try without a mask. Just driving me crazy when they give me a list of things they want click private and they disconnect. Still $6 is $6 and I didnt have to do anything that required the 10" beast

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    I'd go sans mask. I saw you online earlier today and you look like you are adorable, but the mystery shouldn't be "is she adorable, or.....?" Also your accent is adorable

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    Thanks Kat. I appreciate you all so much xx. and the help and advice has been great. Getting better just need to stop the disconnect on the paying.

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    When I finally start earning I will have to treat my hubbie to a session with u all to say thanks xxx

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    Your success in this industry has nothing to do with you being a larger woman and has everything to do with how good you are at sales. I recently just got my rates automatically increased from SM up to $9.99, as a BBW, so trust me- it's possible to make just as much as the traditionally beautiful women. No matter what your size, you are a woman first. We come in all shapes, sizes, colors but we all have one thing in common. Men are drawn to us instinctually which gives us a leg up. All you have to do with that knowledge is somehow apply it to your life and run with it.

    You've previously had 14 guys in your room for over an hour, so you can hold their attention, no doubt. What you're missing is the art of seduction. In this industry you have to be a virtual sales woman. Your looks are the first thing they see, your personality is what captures them, and your hustle is what will get them to spend on you. Touching and groping yourself is basically giving the milk away for free if you haven't mastered the art of seduction. And I don't mean seduction in the way of sex, but more so in the ways of human interaction and positive manipulation. You are a woman, you are meant to attract men, and you must use your qualities to sell what these men want; which is virtual sex, relations, and fantasies.

    It's okay to occasionally grope or jiggle a bit but don't give away too much. If they ask you to stand, twerk, flash, etc. make them tip you or take you private, first. You are the prize and they must compete for your affection by removing you from the rest of the pack, lol. I'm not going to lie to you, it's a dog eat dog world out here. We all want to eat and many of us ladies are hungry so you need to accentuate your gifts, and cultivate your hustle. Flirt, schmooze, tease, ask, etc but do whatever you can to get them to spend time with you. The site has given you a platform to sell and has thrown you out to the world to hunt and get paid. You're either going to feed yourself and the site, or starve and fail. If you don't want to fail, I suggest you learn the art of seduction, try some poses and looks in the mirror, gain/fake confidence, and learn how to sell your ass off. This job is literally a sales game and is not based on your size. There are thin, beautiful women who can't break $100 a week and BBW making $100 in an hour.

    My advice is to practice in front of a mirror. Note your movements, your laugh, your smile, your body movements. Be sure to use open body language. Also, never be afraid to ask for what you want. It's easy to forget that you're working while being doted upon, tipped, and complimented by men all over the world but your main goal is to get them to spend money on you. If you're ready to go to private, don't be afraid to ask every last one of them if they would like to spend some time alone in a show. Remind them of why they're there from time to time or hell- all the time.




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