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    So I have a friend whose 44 and wants to start escorting. Luckily for her she's one of those naturally slim body types who naturally never got fat, and with some hair extensions and false lashes, she could totally rock a hot cougar look. I know nothing about escorting in your 40s though, but I want to give her honest advice.

    Is escorting lucrative for a 40-something? Any disadvantages?

    I want to give her advice, but I have no idea if I "should" until people reassure me that it is very lucrative for a 40something. I know in escorting there is someone for everyone, but will a 40something do as well as a 20something? I would be giving her advice from myself, a 20something, so I don't want to mislead her into thinking its better than it will be. I know, marketing marketing marketing, but all that aside, is it still very lucrative? Will men turn her away at the door due to her age?

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    So of the few people who know about my escorting, one of them is in her 40s. I've known her almost 10 years from one of my first jobs. I told her because she actually opened my computer while I had a screening site up, and she asked about it. I worded it as I was screening lucrative sugar daddies I met online (not true, it was escorting lol), but she had said something like "oh, escorting?" and I said "very similar." I was honest because I knew she was about to move across the country and she's also extremely sexually liberated and open minded. Then, she got divorced right before she moved across the country.

    She has now asked me for advice with wanting to start escorting. I kind of expected this to happen once I found out she and her husband were divorcing because she seemed curious about it and has the personality for it. She knows nothing about the adult world and she doesn't even know the names I escort under. Clubs would not be a good match for her because she doesn't want to be in environments with alcohol, and honestly I don't see her being a good stripper. Webcam is out too. But escorting, I can see her doing that.

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    Suck it and see!

    I did better at 40 than I did at 20 or 30. At everything.

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    PM me, I might be able to help with a few contacts who are successful in their mid 40s if she likes

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    I'm in my early 20s and I wish I were in my 30s when it comes to this work. It seems like older women have the capacity to do really well as a lot of men look for more mature, experienced women closer to their age.

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    There is a niche market for everything. She may or may not be able to do it as full time income, but with the right marketing who knows?
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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    If she's hot and can provide a great experience, she can bank regardless of her age. Some clients will book her specifically because she is older. There are plenty of clients in their 40's to 60's looking for someone closer to their age to spend time with. There are also younger clients looking for MILFs (if she's willing to deal with them, that is!)

    The only way that she will get turned away at the door is if she advertises she's much younger than she is. If her stats are accurate, clients looking for a mature escort can find her. She'll attract the clients who want to see her. According to Eros, the "mature"/over 35 category is one of the most searched.

    I'm in my thirties and find escorting to be very lucrative, even in a saturated market. There are other escorts in my city in their fourties and fifties who do very well for themselves too.

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    The other awesome thing is that everyone is so busy lying about their age, there are fewer 40-somethings being honest about there age than there are 20 & 30 somethings who are bullshitting, so there is less competition in that way. I have definitely got busier as I got older regardless of whatever career decisions I've made, e.g., removing huge implants etc.

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    I am 38, and left dancing to become an escort a couple years ago, and I never looked back. (I had another handle on this board, and was an active participant but it was my dancing handle, so I left that behind and created this one under my escorting name, hence no posts under this name...)

    Anyways, I find my age works to my benefit: a) I don't look my age; b) younger guys are interested in being with an older woman; and c) older gents like the maturity and life experience I bring to a date.

    To your friend, I say go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmiAndrews View Post
    I am 38, and left dancing to become an escort a couple years ago, and I never looked back. (I had another handle on this board, and was an active participant but it was my dancing handle, so I left that behind and created this one under my escorting name, hence no posts under this name...)

    Anyways, I find my age works to my benefit: a) I don't look my age; b) younger guys are interested in being with an older woman; and c) older gents like the maturity and life experience I bring to a date.

    To your friend, I say go for it!
    Do you advertise yourself as "38" or do you advertise as older or younger? I want to help her, but these are the specific things I have no idea about.

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    Why not send your friend the URL and have her log on here and discuss it directly?

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Why not send your friend the URL and have her log on here and discuss it directly?
    Because she could easily identify me and I want to keep this an anonymous safe haven for myself. I don't see how me asking for her would be any different than her asking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    Do you advertise yourself as "38" or do you advertise as older or younger? I want to help her, but these are the specific things I have no idea about.
    Yes, I am open about being 38. I've always advertised my true age, whether it was as an escort, or as a dancer.

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    I can't speak about escorting but for sugaring age is somewhat flexible. Since the guys are often looking for someone to do activities with and have a connection experience helps. And a 38 year old is often much much better in bed than an 18 year old...just sayin.

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    Default Re: Escorting in your 40s

    The reason many escorts understate their age is for that time 10 years from now when they 'think' they'll be perceived as too old. While many dudes desire a 40 year old, there are fewer that will book a 50 year old. ... and I know a few that I am surprised to learn are 50!
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