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    Sad Upset-friend passed away

    I had taken a hiatus from FB. I logged in today, and found out a good friend several states away passed away. She was in her 30s, and died of complications with perimonuia. She had a small son who was her whole world. I'm so upset right now. She was a wonderful person, no stranger to hardship and sadness, so it wasn't like her life was all fairy tales and roses. I guess she had gotten engaged right before she passed, which was awesome (her BD was a jerk and I always hoped she would meet a nice guy). She was there for me when others weren't. She was by my side during my divorce from ex hubs. I go between feeling upset and mad. There are so many other people I would rather have seen die than her.

    I'm sorry guys. I'm just so shocked. We hadn't spoken or texted since Spring, I had been busy with wedding/move/work/pregnancy. I regret not getting on sooner so I could have given her my new number/texted her/something.
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    I am so sorry this happened! My deepest condolensces to you. *Hugs* I have experienced loss before too and I know how devestating it is. Always keep your friend's memory in your heart. Do things that would make her proud. I hope her son is okay and in the right care. Good luck with everything and God Bless!

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    Im very sorry for the loss ofyour friend. She sounds like an amazing person.*virtual big hugs*

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    I hate seeing a single mother pass away (or the child of a single mother for that matter). Often a single parent has sacrificed so much for his or her child and it's tragic to see the parent taken so soon. It also stings because it sounds like her luck was finally starting to improve. You have my condolences.

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    I'm so sorry to hear this..


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    Thank you so much guys. I plan on doing something to honor her memory, perhaps a brick paver with her name on it, or just planting tons of butterfly bushes this spring (she loved butterflies). I did cry last night. It made me realize we are not on this earth for a very long time. I love her, and hope her soul is at peace. I appreciate you all comforting me so much, too. ((BIG HUGS))
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    Yes, that sounds like a very nice idea^..do that, & take care of yourself, grief is an important process not to be skipped or rushed over


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    I am very sorry this happened, Jennifer! Maybe you can create a butterfly garden for her? Hugs!

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    I was also wondering, is there anything being done for her son? I know when some people pass away, their family will set something up like a college scholarship fund or anything to help the child and their future. It's already so painful to lose a parent, my heart breaks for him. I hope her son can eventually heal from this.

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    Sorry to hear about your friend, hugs x.
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    Sorry to hear of this. My condolences

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    Thank you all for the kind words. I'm trying to find out if a fund has been set up for her son. Her death wasn't published with an obit or anything, and even some of her family that I know were kept in the dark. :-(
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