For anyone that read/replied to my previous post about my co-worker knowing about my cam girl past... I am freaking out!
Tomorrow is my first day back since weds and I'm so scared at whats going to happen/get said..![]()
For anyone that read/replied to my previous post about my co-worker knowing about my cam girl past... I am freaking out!
Tomorrow is my first day back since weds and I'm so scared at whats going to happen/get said..![]()





Ok..to be expected, somewhat..
But, just go in w/a positive attitude.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
Thanks Whirlez. I'm more concerned management will haul me into the office for a "chat" x




If they do, and if it's legal to record people without them knowing where you are, get every second of audio on file. Just my $.02--I was once CERTAIN these two friends of my boyfriend's knew I stripped. A mutual friend knew, and some of the things these guys would say, and the way they'd say it, just made me know that the friend had told them too. I thought they were trying to be dicks too--making stripper jokes, acting like they were going to give lap dances, etc. It made me feel like they were trying to be rude to me. Come to find out, they had no idea. They were just typical douchey guys.
That makes me feel better then! I hope they don't know but I'm pretty certain they do!





You'll be fine, just go in there like everything's normal![]()
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
I will keep you posted x


I read your other thread and this one. I'm sorry you're going through this! First of all, PLEASE DENY EVERYTHING. Put yourself in the headspace of a vanilla, non-sex worker girl who has been hearing her coworkers make subtle jokes at her expense for the last few days and doesn't understand why. It's natural for you to be confused and embarrassed and to feel bullied - there is no need to pretend that you're feeling ok! Just go about your business and minimize communication with the bullies.
If you feel up to it, you could at some point go up to one person who has made a disparaging remark and straight up ask her why she said it. There's a good chance that she will then be too embarrassed to show you the video or tell you about it, but you'll establish to them that you don't necessarily know about any videos. Your ultimate goal is to make them less and less certain that the girl in the videos is you.
If you feel really bold, you could even go up to the guy who instigated this stuff and ask him why he has said X. He might tell you about the videos, which is your opportunity to categorically deny having ever cammed, to say it can't be you, and to tell him not so sweetly to stop these rumors at once.
Fact is, no one can ever be totally sure that it's you. I myself have had a couple of doubles - one at a strip club I used to work at, where customers constantly took me for her, and another who rode the same train as my ex-boyfriend several times - the first time, he actually was about to touch her shoulder and talk to her until he noticed that her boobs and ass were way bigger than mine (lol).
The longer you persist with stout denial, the more doubts will creep into their weak little minds, until someday they'll feel ashamed for having dogged you over an uncertainty.
If you do get called into the office, you can still continue denying everything. How on earth would they ever prove it was you? They do NOT want to sack you for camming, and have it turn out that you were not the girl in the video after all. Have a look at your employee handbook that you signed - if there is a section prohibiting second jobs, you know that you have to stick with denial until the bitter end.
They might act like they already know, but unless they volunteer some detailed way that they found out, they're just doing the old Law and Order trick of feeding you false information until you fess up. Because without your confession, they have nothing.
Best of luck!
Edited to add: If they call you in, it's also a great time to mention that while you don't know the root cause of the trouble, you have known something was wrong for days because coworkers keep coming up to you and saying remarks that make you uncomfortable. At that time, you can repeat every sexually-based remark someone else has made to you. Congrats, you have just officially brought to management's attention that they have a potential sexual harassment problem on their hands. If it continues, they are now liable. (How your lawsuit might go considering you DID cam is a different matter - maybe well, maybe not - but they will be envisioning all the problems that might befall them should they let this slide or, god forbid, help escalate it in any way.)





THIS<^ BRILLIANT!!!
Yea, like I said, I got outed (for dancing), one bitch was so bold to say it to my face, (more than once) till I finally up & blasted her..she shut her pie hole after that..
Also some other loser broad (I nvr for sure found out who, but I feel I nailed one person, with scathing looks alone) told my boss I flashed ppl in a short skirt w/no undiesRiiiiight!
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MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





Also, true fact, did anyone know that we all have 7 doubles? they could be anywhere in the world (of course, different coloring depending, but still)
I've never seen one of me, but a lady from the health store claims theres one on FB
Also, I saw one of my ex, who was Hispanic, & the guy I saw was Middle Eastern, but everything else, features etc was spot on!
Sorry for the t/j.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
Just read your post and at this moment I'm just in route to work. Thank you for all that valuable information. That sounds like the route I'm gonna go down! I'm aiming to go in as bright and breezy as possible! I hope it goes ok and I'll let you know. Thanks guys xx


^^There was a thread on Reddit just the other day featuring a photo of Jeff Goldblum with his Persian double. I also saw one of Taylor Swift and her Australian double, which was even more spot on - I examined the photo and still couldn't tell them apart. If her double did some cam video, Taylor would have a hell of a time proving it wasn't her!
To the OP, I hope you're doing ok! I just wanted to add one last piece of advice: oftentimes, knowing details that you shouldn't will give the game away. Right now, you don't know that there's a video. Once someone tells you that there's a video, you don't know what kind - political protest? Shoplifting? Picking your nose on the subway? A guilty person will immediately think that the video shows them in the midst of their biggest secret. But you have nothing to hide, so you draw a blank when they mention a video.
Next, they mention that the video shows you doing sexual stuff. You still haven't got a clue what this might be - maybe you think that a boyfriend filmed you without your permission, but you have no idea that it's anything to do with a cam site! And on it goes. Of course, you are clueless about why your coworker commented about some nurse outfit, and by now it's almost slipped your mind because it has no significance for you. The easiest way to pull this off is to do some method acting and really put yourself in the headspace of a confused employee who has no idea what is going on. Try to forget about the whole experience of camming as though it never happened.
I hope this helps and hope that it all blows over!
Just elude the same confidence you have as a cam girl. Tell them the talk has to stop or you are going to HR. It is sexual harassment, and of course feel free to deny the shit out of it.
Guys I love you. Honestly you have all been amazing with all these tips and advice. It turns out. Nothing got said at all today. I'm starting to wonder if it's all in my head.





Well, sounds like everything's good..it prob wasnt in your head, ppl are weird sometimes, but glad to hear everything seems better
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





Well that is good. I am glad it is getting better, however if they start bringing up porn or being inappropriate again, please say something to someone!
XoXo Gia
Danielle Fishell (the Dish): "If the Super-Star thing doesn't work out, Gia makes a great stripper name"


It did sound like they were getting pretty specific with their comments, but who knows! I'm glad that nothing happened. Hope everything continues to work out for the best!
Thank you guys. Certain things they keep saying makes me think they do know something. Today people where talking about dating sites and the guy that started all this came over and said, "what dating site are you on?"he then said"do you know that if I put your picture in to something I can see all your profiles all over the internet"
It gave me the creeps! I wonder if he was talking about what I think or whether he was just on about the dating sites x





Eh, I'd just blow that off, don't give much of any reaction ^
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt


This guy sounds like a serious pain in the ass. Time for the cold stare and the "oh thanks man, that's really interesting." Or "thanks mate," not sure how you say it in the UK!




Honest question, when it comes to situations like this, how is the guy even going to bring it up to the HR that you're a camgirl without making himself look bad? "a few nights ago I was jacking off to some camgirls online and I swear one of them was Fairydust87!!"
If a coworker started accusing me I would look horrified and be like OMG YOU WERE LOOKING AT PORN? YOU SICKO!! EW YOU THOUGHT IT WAS ME? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU





I suggest trying to avoid socializing with your co-workers if talk like that makes you uncomfortable. Just treat your co-workers professionally and try to spend your day concentrating on your work. It will also make you look good to your boss.
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