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    I'm having a dilemma here. I got my boobs done (small A to small C) about a month ago and now have my dad's birthday coming up, with my mom's following shortly afterward. They both live 1-2 hours away from me and I have no good excuse for failing to see them.

    My mom: would be horrified that I got implants. She knows about my past sex work and it makes her feel like she's failed as a mother, etc. I don't have an overabundance of sympathy, because I've helped support her on that dirty money in the past with her knowledge, and she wisely chose to start complaining only after she got another source of income and no longer needed mine. Still, I'd rather not have a blowout involving Jesus and public crying.

    My dad: much harder to read. I think he might be upset in this case because my half-sister is at a delicate age (14) and is destined to be flat-chested, given the genes from his family and my stepmom's family. My implants might not send a great message to her. FWIW, I also don't wish to give her any ideas about augmenting her chest.

    Speaking pragmatically, I'd also like to keep either parent open to loaning me money in next few years. I'm about to head off to school, and while I'll get government loans, their willingness to loan me $10K could make an important difference at various times and could be necessary right after graduation. Of course, it's unrealistic to think that I won't see them again for years, and maybe it's best to get the dreadful reveal over with now so that they come to accept it sooner.

    Right now, I do need them to fill out financial aid forms (even though I'm old and haven't been supported by them in forever), so I need to not have a conflict with either of them until they have put in all their info. I can see online that they're both far from being complete.

    Did anyone successfully get conservative parents on board with this? I'm sure that some people have had to explain their augmentation to kids as well - what's the best way to put it, especially to girls? (Not that I'm probably going to have a talk with my half-sister about it, but maybe I could give my dad a few suggestions if he asks.)

    Should I tell them ahead of time over the phone, or just show up?

    Should I bother trying to hide them, and if so what's the best outfit? So far I've found that they sort of disappear in a black t-shirt with black jacket, though never taking the jacket off would be weird.

    Should I make excuses and totally skip their birthdays, since it might be particularly thoughtless to ruin a birthday this way? Of course, the next occasions will be Mother's and Father's Day, and those aren't great either.

    Thanks for your advice, everyone!

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    Due to my personal views, I would say you miscarried a pregnancy & your breasts just stayed bigger. (BTW it happened to me IRL...my tits blowing up from a small C to small D were the first tell tale sign of something going on...) & Then ask why people have such nosy weird questions about your chest. Seriously, are people are quick to wanna talk about someone's prostatectomy & or chemo treatments? At a point questions like that can be painted as super rude and inappropriate because they are rude questions.

    Don't bring it up unless they ask. Also many adults who are late bloomers have growth spurts in their mid to late 20s....It's totally possible that that's another explanation & a way for kid sis to understand that she might grow boobage after her teen years.

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    Messed up they are adding extra pressure to an already personal situation, minus the healing process.. If your 14 year old half Sister gets the wrong idea when it comes to breast implants, then it would give off the vibe they were saying negative things regarding your procedure. I plan on getting decent sized breast implants after photo therapy, its not impacting anyone's life by getting bigger tits and its annoying when people use Jesus as a reason to fear it.

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    If you're a c-cup can't you just wear non-low cut tops and say you're wearing a padded bra if anyone asks?

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    ^ Yep. This might work much better than a "too much info" story.

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    Thanks for the replies so far, everyone, and please keep them coming!

    The padded bra idea is interesting, but since these babies are here to stay, I'm hoping to cover myself for future as well. How about a third white lie option - telling my folks that my boobs grew 2 cup sizes on a new birth control?

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    My boobs certainly grew when I went on the pill, but not two cup sizes. They really grew when I got preggers and basically stayed that way all while I breast fed. About two years. Now, nine years later, not so good. Boobs are back to my pre-pill size and not perky. For the record, BF says he doesn't care, but I kinda wish I had them back.

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    Boobs certainly have their own ideas about when to get bigger and smaller. Mine grew when I went on the pill, too. They went from a tiny A to a small A. At least my boyfriend noticed!

    Is the consensus that I should lie? My dad and his family probably won't believe me, but they may be fine with the lie as an alternative to having uncomfortable conversations with me and my sister. My mom also won't believe me and is much more likely to press the issue, I'm thinking of just telling her the truth so that I can take an unapologetic stand behind my actions. They don't communicate, so crossing wires won't be an issue.

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    Lie. No one considers questions about small breasts appropriate to ask. I come from a super conservative religious family where sex/private parts is a pretty private subject so I don't think it's weird to believe they would never say anything anyways.

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    Sorry to hear you have to hide this from your family. After all it's your body and you should do what you want to do (as long as you're not hurting yourself or other people). And it's not cool there's so much focus on women's bodies/butts/breasts like would they be staring down your male family members private regions? I feel ya cause my weight fluctuated on the pill and my dad and aunt was like hmmm you've lost weight? I'm like WTF are y'all focused in on my body? Cotdamn can I live?

    Just wear looser fitting tops if you don't want them to know.

    And for your sister it could be a teachable moment like always love your body, you are beautiful the way you are, and don't let anyone pressure you to look a certain way but if you want to enhance what you've got that's okay too (women wear fake tans, makeup, hair extensions, artificial nails, hair color, colored contacts, and all other kinds of physical enhancements I doubt anyone above 16 and not Amish is truly "natural") - wait till the right age and don't try to grow up too fast.

    And you're not sending her a bad message just by having implants. If you didn't have them she'd still encounter or see other women with them. And just because a person she knows has implants doesn't necessarily mean she'll run out and get implants.
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    ^^ Thanks! I certainly hope that it won't make her second-guess her own body. Of course, if she does want to get them someday, more power to her!

    All right, y'all have convinced me of the following course of action: bra with non-molded cups, loose button-down, NO mentioning it first, tell them that it's from birth control if they ask. Please feel free to comment with any other suggestions! I'll report back after the big days.

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    I went from a flat, literally nonexistent A cup to a small D cup and no one in my family has said ANYTHING over the past 4 years. So... you might be fine. LOL.

    If anyone asks, I agree about putting the question back on them. "I gained weight. Thanks for pointing that out. Why do you care?" It's no one else's business.

    It's also fairly easy to hide your boobs with loose-fitting tops and higher necklines.

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    I had a lift and got 475cc implants and no one in my family noticed. Granted, I was fairly well endowed before (kids and breastfeeding changed my breasts and after they sagged and deflated I decided to get the implants) but I thought it was a pretty big change. I did live far away and didn't see anyone in my family for several months after, but even in Facebook pictures and then when I did see them they either didn't notice or didn't say anything, so it's quite possible no one will say a word. I don't wear especially low-cut clothes around my family, but I have worn tight clothes around them. Just wear loose clothes and see how it goes. Good luck!

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    Wear a super tight sports bra, and if asked, say you're wearing a Bombshell VS bra with inserts. Sounds like your family is primed for denial, so feed into that. Deny, deny, deny. "Honey, your chest looks bigger." "I know, right?!! I just got this new bra from VS...isn't it awesome?!" Or "Yeah, I've started wearing padding with all of my bras...it's amazing what a couple of inserts can do, right?"

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    ^^ That. Victoria Secret has some insanely padded bras, including several that advertise letting you "gain two cup sizes!" Plus, they're fairly comfortable. Right now for the introduction to your new boobs, just get hyped about your new VS bra. And then, as far as they know, just never take it off. "Buy" more, "wear them" for years. Eventually, they'll be so used to seeing your new boobs, it'll just become part of the normal "Oh, yeah, that's Tigershoes, nothing strange about that body. That's totally the body we're used to seeing on her," routine. You might want to wait a couple years before posting any swimsuit pictures on social media/letting them see you in a swimsuit irl, just so they have time to stop noticing how much bigger your boobs are and reminding themselves about the legendary VS bra. Wait until they've had long enough to stop thinking about it.

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    Haha, I love these stories about families who didn't notice big new boobs.

    The padded bombshell bra would be more believable initially. But I'm actually thinking of a combo lie - say that my boobs grew a cup size on birth control, and this inspired me to finally buy new padded bras. We'll see how it goes!

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    ^ I was going to suggest the same! Just a sports bra and baggy outfit and try to avoid the issue. If you don't make a big deal of it ( fitted top / low cut ) ect. , they may not even notice!

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    How about
    "Yeah, I gained 10 lbs, thanks for noticing, oh, no,I'm not hungry now, geez, thanks....."

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    Small C isn't very big they probably won't notice. I went from a B to a DD and all that happened was my mom asking me once if my boobs were getting bigger and i said 'ya i guess' and that was it. I don't think they will see you and automatically think OMG FAKE BOOBS! lol plus you can easily hide them by wearing a loose shirt or a sweatshirt. Small C isn't like freakishly huge boobs that can't be contained lol.

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