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    Default Question about My First High-End Session: Getting Client to Relax, Express Himself..

    My first high-end was more nervous than me once we got started. It was a 2 hour so naturally I had enough time to feel him out and halfway through our dance, I realized it wasn't gonna be easy..

    I kept asking him what he likes.. what he's into.. kinks? Maybe I was too forward.. he said he was raised as a super strict Catholic and hasn't been with many women..

    With that being said, what do you guys do in those situations? He did not get off but if I had kept trying I think it would've only embarrassed him or tired him out too much.

    He did say he's a pleaser and suggested he may be a submissive (face sitting, etc..) and I suggested emailing him later in the week my ideas for next time??

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    Default Re: Question about My First High-End Session: Getting Client to Relax, Express Himsel

    Some men don't have kinks and so that whole conversation avenue is dead on arrival anyway. A general attitude of being open should suffice and a small mention of being willing to consider special fun might be helpful. As a straight client, my suggestion is start with just a great time on dates and being your normal exceptional self. I've found providers (particularly high end) are normally exceptional at sex, comes with the trade I suppose, and so that might just be enough for him or others. If he begins to open up then you can ask specifically, 'would it be okay if I sat on your face?'

    I've moved more toward higher end multiple hours over the years. My expectations may not be the same as others, but I'm looking for pleasant conversation - back and forth, not just a provider who knows how to take every moment of airtime without taking a breath (sorry, fresh on my mind, that happened yesterday - two hours of one never ending string of words). I suggest a bit of a back story for yourself, be consistent, use it with everyone so you don't forget. We like the illusion of knowing something about the person we're with - but that's contrary to your interest of us knowing too much. So just have 'your story', make sure it fits your personality so its authentic and I guarantee it will help. A personal connection, short one granted, but a personal connection is part of the trade.

    I really do believe the getting comfortable part comes with continued sessions and a rapport developing. That rapport developing starts with his confidence being with you in bed and engagement in you personally (with conversation). Just my two cents. You might be trying too hard and need to seek out a quieter spiritual center when engaging with him.

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    Default Re: Question about My First High-End Session: Getting Client to Relax, Express Himsel

    ^I don't think anyone could have said it better.

    It sounds like your conversation got awkward real fast. You are always in charge of your meetings. It is your job to lead the way in conversation and whatever else you do. I like to leave kids, family, work, religion and politics out of conversations with clients unless they say something first.

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    Thanks! This helped

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