

Im a camgirl,but not a stripper. dont have the body lol, but wow what a twat! I encourage mine to go to see some since hes never been,but i dont want to go with him. Im not interested,not threatened by it and i just dont. Some wives go and have a good time,but i have my own interests and things i do without him,so go get grinded on and show some strippers some money love...without me lol.
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Ugh, how annoying. I try to give lady patrons the benefit of the doubt and screen them for whether or not they could possibly be good spenders. I have been pleasantly surprised a time or two but yeah... the attitude and "holier-than-tho" take on this girl's view of strippers are pretty off putting. Why are you even there? You're not allowing him to have any fun and you're also not allowing any of the girls there to make money. Go be a judgey bitch somewhere else please.
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I used to go to the strip club all the time. It was my Friday night out. lol I'd drop a minimum 100-150 bucks a night.What can I say. I love looking at pretty ladies.
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Interesting.
If I were married I'd definitely go with my husband but I wouldn't act like that woman in the article. She was purposely trying to repel other woman from approaching her man (which is kind of understandable if you're married but then why even allow strip club visits), she was judging the dancers (assuming they hated their job and comparing their bodies to hers) and she was cheap as fuck.
ive profited off women at times when no one in the club would approach them. And Some of them where totally hot like If I didn't meet them in the club it would be on!
Not all women are worth the time but you just never know when you may be leaving money on the table by over generalizing
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”


Potential spenders are customers, regardless their gender; in fact, back in the day, there were three kinds of women coming to clubs (down the border): girls on a "stripping "crash course" to tease their SOs, girls wanting to have a drink but not wanting to have boys pestering them and lesbians willing to spend; the first two categories are not worthy, but I loved the last one, they usually were not cheap girls and most of dancers avoided them.





What an annoying title & article..& lmao @, "my tits are bette"r, or wht/ev she said![]()
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
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Ok, that honestly wasn't as bad as I was imagining it to be before I clicked and read it, but she does perfectly illustrate the main reason why so many dancers dislike female customers. Her husband, even though rarely indulging in lap dances, is willing to part with a few measly dollars for the girls - while the woman stingily hoards her 5 freakin' dollars until the girls "earn it" by impressing her with circus tricks.
The funny thing is, the entire premise of the article is her pontificating and trying to be humorous about why strippers were repelled from her husband by her being there with him... and completely fails to grasp the reality that it's because she, and every other female customer like her, are cheap and judgmental and clearly not there to partake in our actual services - not because we are oh-so-intimidated by her being a SO. If you're obviously being that woman that's like "No, don't tip her! She didn't earn it!"... no duh everyone is going to see that and avoid your table. That's a total bitch-move. And then she's proud that they left with all the money they came in with. "Look at us! We went out and didn't spend any money at the establishment that we took up space in!" Like.... no...
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Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.
Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
She sounds stingy and annoying.. I went to strip clubs a couple of times with my ex (his idea to 'spice things up') before I started dancing. I always made sure to tip every girl on stage. The saddest part of this is that she feels she has to go babysit her husband...won't let him get a dance or even tip girls without her permission...She sounds like a lot of fun...No wonder he goes to strip clubs to get away from his Mommy, I mean, 'wife.'




Awwww, isn't she a naive little thing? Her husband is visiting this club during the day shift, not at 11pm on a Saturday night. Day shift is a totally different vibe than night shift at most clubs. I think if she hired a forensic accountant, she'd discover that he was spending a lot more than just a dollar dance here and there. If she really wants to know what goes on at that club, she should apply to work there.
Also, I sure hope she didn't get paid to write that article. That was some god awful writing.
Right ^! At some clubs MORE goes on during day shift than night shift.
i always enjoyed the girls .... and when they were with their guys ... i loved playing can't have this with the right girl it can be very hot ... trust me the guy sees you naked and all over his girl the money is good.....
And to be completely fair, I don't hate all female custies. I used to always at least TRY to talk to their table and entertain them at the stage, but this exact "earn it" attitude is what's so grating. Women generally don't even just want a "dancer who does her job well" - they expect the "special" treatment just for being a fellow woman. I refuse to play that game. So many times, I've given the exact same amount of attention to a woman as I did to all the men at my stage and watched her walk away with a pissy look on her face because I didn't do the "above and beyond" dog and pony show of pulling her up on stage and licking her boobs or whatever else the other girls pandered to... I didn't "earn it"... Simply because I didn't give special treatment.
I get that women generally want a different entertainment experience, but in a SC, that's kinda their problem. Strip clubs primarily cater to men. As a woman, you can come, but you can't judge whether a girl does her job "good enough" based on your different standards when you are not the demographic being catered to.
That's like going to a craft beer bar with your craft beer drinking friends when you don't like craft beer, ordering one of the cheap wines they keep on hand to appease the people like you who get dragged to a place that isn't set up for them, but then complaining that the place is crap and not tipping the bartender because they didn't have an extensive and fancy enough wine selection. It's not a wine bar, honey.
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Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.
Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.





Ay women....we can be our worst enemy sometimes.
How about ditching that husband that doesn't respect boundaries. I mean, if you gotta go through all of this trouble by "proofing" anyone from something then maybe don't be with that person???





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That article=such BS. Like do you want a cookie for being cheap? Fortunately I've known plenty of couples to buy multiple dances and then tip. I'd say the trick is to look at the woman's face: does she looks like she's wanting someone to approach her bc no one has all night, or does she have a bitch face?
Also, this is just my opinion, but if my husband went to an SC I would totally go with him, only because of extras bitches. To clarify, I've read stories of some men going in for an LD, without having asked for any extras, and the girl just pulls his dick out. If I ever found out that a girl did that to my man, I would have to smack a ho lol.



She's clearly never been a stripper and has never known any......she has the typical ignorant attitude of "if the girl isn't performing cirque du soliel tricks onstage she's not worthy of a tip"
All strippers work differently. I don't normally patronize strip clubs on my days off but if I did I would tip everyone.
Right, if my man lied to me about going to a strip club, he probably wouldn't be my man anymore. I wouldn't go there and sit and watch him like a loser. It's clear that nobody approached him cause of HER but if he went back alone, they certainly would approach him like normal. She is a cheap cunt. I also agree that woman want to do more than men for their money. They want to touch everywhere, smack everything, they want you to climb the pole and flip upside down for a dollar ...or worse, for a measly clap and "woo!!!!" They're terrible but I being the hustler that I am still approach them if I have approached all the men already and many come up to me and ask for dances which I oblige.










I'm sure the husband made up for her cheapness on his next solo outing.![]()

Wow what a cool girlfriend!
NOT!! LOL. Oh my gosh reminds me of this couple sitting at the rack when I was on second stage Saturday night. Boyfriend/husband wanted to tip and gave girlfriend/wife a few dollars to put on my stage and she was like "no." and she just kept it in her lap and stared at me with a super mean bitch face (for no freaking reason) for my entire set. I smiled at them like I smile at everybody to no avail. Occasionally they'd argue about tipping me again like hushed angry whispers and then she'd go back to staring me down. After my set, or sometimes towards the end, they left. I made plenty of stage money off other people, but mostly like holy fuck! I do not need your shitty energy and negativity entering my brain while I'm on stage performing.
Some women in clubs are fun, but others are awful!
Another totally separate time, I was on stage doing stuff and I overheard this woman at the table say to her husband "I don't like how her ribs stick out." and then looked at me all disgusted. I'm not super skinny, but my ribs flare out at the bottom, they're just shaped like that and I have no control over it. I bent down and was like "uhhh I can hear you???" and looked at the woman with a WTF expression. Her man gave me some money on her behalf. But seriously?! Like this is NOT the place where you go to critique women's bodies to make yourself feel better. That is not what I'm here for.
So a few posters here got me thinking. "I want to google that clubs rep." (Dancers Royale) I found one of those in Orlando. So I clicked on the writers name to see if I could find a bio and location to see if that was the right club...(Ok yeah I feel like a stalker now that I'm spelling it all out.)
I found a list of this ladies blogs..... uhmmm reading the list is entertaining after reading her strip club adventure.
It has wonderful gems like:
"I Left My Husband For A Married Man — But He Never Left His Wife"
"The Brutal, Unfiltered Truth About Recovering From A Cheating Spouse"
"Being The Other Woman Changed My Life For The BETTER"
Now I swear I'm not being judgey at alllll.
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You can't MAKE someone not do something that crosses your boundaries when you fail to communicate in the beginning about it. In general its understandable to expect for feelings to be heard regardless of how ridiculously uncool it may seem, not everyone is okay with it and that happens. Its not like most of these woman intimately enjoy rubbing up against your husbands crotch and if they do its not the customer in the end they want. What irks me is the fact that she stresses about it to a friend, gives him grief, takes the time to articulate why its bad, compares her body to theirs and then feels the need to express why it bothers her. If you have that many doubts then there might be an underlining issue within the marriage..selfish much?





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